Agreed happe, I have been trying to say the same all along...not to blame A-K, and to be gentle with them. I have been trying to fight against the giant tide of disappointment against A-K's behaviour and a good number of people who are convinced of A-K being idiotic. YOu have put everything beautifully down at ground level; I wonder why I started buiding upside down with philosophy & human nature and what not! 😆 😆
I really can't understand why they can't be sympathized with or be understood & accepted the way they are. I dislike the fact that some have denied A-K the right to be called humans & called them weaklings (sorry, don't mean to single you out ;(), but I had a horrible feeling after reading those words. I think, in this situation, the voice of reason in our minds has taken over the emotional & pshycological aspect of life. We are being over-critical of their situations because we know that the characters are commiting blunders. We see & read each characters' mind. However, we should not forget that the characters don't know the future or what is going on in other person's mind. We haven't been able to play the role of mere spectators or bystanders; we want to pounce at our screens and set the characters straight. Nobody wants to or desires to look at the characters from their perspectives!
And E., I totally agree with you! We are too accustomed to both words, i.e love & hate, that we use them in the loosest sense, not necessarily meaning what the words are supposed to represent! I also agree with you that A-K stopped being so lovable after the whole break-up thing...I think the blooming of love & play was better, bitter & sweet in its own way. Now, all I want to do is pity them for the blunders they commit, sigh at the unjustices they are suffering bc. a few others aren't happy with their lives and just want them to be happy! Nothing else, just happy w/ each other or w/out each other!
That is all!
reeps 😛