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Hello,
How are you all doing? Need I ask , I know you are all upset over josh's premature death. Alas, the show must go on. Lolz, I was gonna title 'Earth to Angad and Krips', but then it dawned on me ๐ ๐ that both AK are mere puppets in the hands of our very own unoriginal and distasteful Ekta Mai!
Goodness, saw tonight's episode an hour ago. I noticed quite a few things:
By the way keep reading...a secret will be unveiled in somewhere in the post! Hehehehehe...a wonderful teaser, no? better than what ekta comes up with all the time...;)
1. Krips confirmed our doubts regarding her unusual behavior towards Josh. Krips admitted, "Pehle Josh, phir aaliya, aur main to tumhari jindgi mein kuch maine rakhti hi nahi" or something to that effect. I was amused knowing that she had unknowingly (possibly) pronounced what the basis of her convictions are. Poor Krips !
2. What's with Krips coming over to Prithvi with her problems since time immermorial? Even Notre-Dame (almost) & others (cathedrals) came crumbling down under the weight of human adamancy to acheive the heavens on Earth! If divinity/nature can find in its fold to not kneel down to humans, why expect this of a mere human? There is a limit to everything! I believe, in Prithvi, we have another unsound structure. I was only waiting, and his time surely has come. Unfortunately, he has opted for the worst possible way to fall. With him, many a life will go astray and crumble into unmendable pieces. Sorry if you are confused about the analogy. I am taking a class on Gothic Art, and the art stuff has sunk into my mind a little too much. I have been visualizing almost everything today with artistic lens.
Anyways, did you guys notice him raise his eyebrows right after krips left to meet angad. He seemed to say, "she and her problems". ๐ ๐ ๐ It was brilliant!
3. With the preview and all, did you guys notice, of course you did,Prithvi was looking at his blood-soaked hands right after Josh fell to the ground? Do you think that Prithvi is gonna come out of his "I want Krips,no matter what" trance? It seemed like he realized what he had done after the fact. It would be so cool if KYPH writers (and Ekta ๐ ๐ ๐ ) explore the transition from realization of crime to guilt to denial of wrong doing to becoming a heartless, cold blooded killer. It would be a delight to see Macbeth in action in an Indian soap. I think this aspect will truely do justice to Prithvi sudden character demise.
4. Let me come to the point now...why did I start this new topic? ๐ ๐ ๐ Well, let's see and please read carefully ๐ ๐ and once you are done reading, you will appreciate the research I put into this post ๐ ๐ ๐ , O'yeah, do post a lot of ๐ ๐ ๐ for my post. Lolz, just kidding!
Alright them, time has come for me to unveil the big topic...ummhem (clearing my throat), ๐ ๐ ๐
Man, we really need to bring Ekta down to earth. She has spent too much time in her 'lala-land', more popularly known as ekta-land ๐ ๐ ๐ . I am sure we have an exhaustive list of the words missing from ekta's dictionary, but for now, I will only focus on "abuse" and "date rape"!
For six months (has it been that long since A-K hit the small screen and stole our hearts away?) I whole-heartedly believed that Krips was involved in an abusive relationship....lolz, my memory is so strange! I can't pull out why I thought for 6 months at the moment, but God, I was wrong!
Angad is involved in an abusive relationship and the abuse is at all time high! Every time Krips and Angad have a small arguement, poor angad always ends up thinking that he did wrong. How is it that he is always at fault? You know when you say 'mujhse hamesha galti ho jati hai', you should get a hint. He should realize that it wasn't his fault at all, at least not this time. I think it is high time for both of them to realize that they are not made for each other. And our idiotic krips darling landed at Prithvi's place and apologizing for countless time.
I can't do anything but laugh at what I will say next
๐ ๐ ๐ , kya karu, I shouldn't, but the idea of man being date-raped is so rare and a little 'funny' for me and society in general (I remember aitraaz ;)). I feel so horrible for angad ...of all the things...heart-broken due to kripa, trust broken by family, thrown out of his own house for being happy with krips, hitting the bottom in his career, being accused & arrested for 'attempt to rape', getting countless slaps from his lady love (good way to show love, no? ๐ ๐ ๐ ), almost getting killed with a bomb, & now the 'soon-to-be' demise of his dear-friend josh and afterwards, the crushing realization of the wrong he commited towards Josh,...now, he gets 'date-raped'! He seems to be trapped in a whirlpool/ sinking sand..all due to Ekta. I wish he could be happy for a second.
Alright, here we go...there is no reason to debate whether it happened or not...now, for the research, which clearly is missing on ekta's side...although she might not understand or realize it, but ekta for the first time has truly nailed the criterian for date-rape...
1. Date Rape is forced or coerced sex between; partners, dates, friends, friends of friends or general acquaintances.
2. Date Rape can be coerced both physically and emotionally - some emotional tactics include; threats to reputation, threats to "not like you", name calling, saying you "brought it on" or "really want it", threats to break up and threats to say you "did it" even if you didn't.
3. If a person has had too much to drink or is on drugs they can not consent to sex and having sex with them is legally rape.
4. There are certain "date rape" drugs that render the victim unconscious and limit memory; using these drugs on somebody is not actually "date rape" but a federal crime with a possible 20 year sentence. (See: 1996 Drug-Induced Rape Prevention and Punishment Act)
5. NO MEANS NO! If a person says no to sex (no matter how quietly or unconvincingly) and you go ahead with it anyway, that is rape.
But remember: even if a victim of sexual assault drank alcohol, she is NOT at fault for being assaulted.
"From:http://www.gbcnv.edu/health/mod.php?mod=userpage&menu= 17&page_id=10"
Sorry, about the big lecture! But, I can't help but point out how acutely angad fits into this criteria. Just remember all that happened in the soap. I don't want to reiterate here! Nothing more about it...and I hope nobody gets angry at me for making the post a little informative. ๐
But, I must say that Angad did so well in this scene...too good, his realization of what had happened, and that he wanted to tell krips right away, and the way he felt grief and angst while hitting the glass window, and just the way he said 'who ladki mujhe apni jindgi se bhi jaida pyar karti hai' made my dil go mmmmm...
I doubt that ekta will ever have angad lodge a complaint against simone for 'date-rape'..ugh, used that word a little too much in the post now...anyways, I wish that angad would be happy for now, forever & ever ๐ณ .
O' Lord, O' Ekta, O' KYPH writers, O' Angad-Kripa & O' IF members...Kaisa ye pyar hai! More appropriately, Kaisa ye ordeal hai! for the characters and for all of us.
, alright, I think that is it...
Like I said, don't forget to post your comments.... ๐ญ are welcome!
๐ ๐ ๐
*reeps ๐
Hello,
How are you all doing? Need I ask , I know you are all upset over josh's premature death. Alas, the show must go on. Lolz, I was gonna title 'Earth to Angad and Krips', but then it dawned on me ๐ ๐ that both AK are mere puppets in the hands of our very own unoriginal and distasteful Ekta Mai!
Goodness, saw tonight's episode an hour ago. I noticed quite a few things:
By the way keep reading...a secret will be unveiled in somewhere in the post! Hehehehehe...a wonderful teaser, no? better than what ekta comes up with all the time...;)
1. Krips confirmed our doubts regarding her unusual behavior towards Josh. Krips admitted, "Pehle Josh, phir aaliya, aur main to tumhari jindgi mein kuch maine rakhti hi nahi" or something to that effect. I was amused knowing that she had unknowingly (possibly) pronounced what the basis of her convictions are. Poor Krips !
2. What's with Krips coming over to Prithvi with her problems since time immermorial? Even Notre-Dame (almost) & others (cathedrals) came crumbling down under the weight of human adamancy to acheive the heavens on Earth! If divinity/nature can find in its fold to not kneel down to humans, why expect this of a mere human? There is a limit to everything! I believe, in Prithvi, we have another unsound structure. I was only waiting, and his time surely has come. Unfortunately, he has opted for the worst possible way to fall. With him, many a life will go astray and crumble into unmendable pieces. Sorry if you are confused about the analogy. I am taking a class on Gothic Art, and the art stuff has sunk into my mind a little too much. I have been visualizing almost everything today with artistic lens.
Anyways, did you guys notice him raise his eyebrows right after krips left to meet angad. He seemed to say, "she and her problems". ๐ ๐ ๐ It was brilliant!
3. With the preview and all, did you guys notice, of course you did,Prithvi was looking at his blood-soaked hands right after Josh fell to the ground? Do you think that Prithvi is gonna come out of his "I want Krips,no matter what" trance? It seemed like he realized what he had done after the fact. It would be so cool if KYPH writers (and Ekta ๐ ๐ ๐ ) explore the transition from realization of crime to guilt to denial of wrong doing to becoming a heartless, cold blooded killer. It would be a delight to see Macbeth in action in an Indian soap. I think this aspect will truely do justice to Prithvi sudden character demise.
4. Let me come to the point now...why did I start this new topic? ๐ ๐ ๐ Well, let's see and please read carefully ๐ ๐ and once you are done reading, you will appreciate the research I put into this post ๐ ๐ ๐ , O'yeah, do post a lot of ๐ ๐ ๐ for my post. Lolz, just kidding!
Alright them, time has come for me to unveil the big topic...ummhem (clearing my throat), ๐ ๐ ๐
Man, we really need to bring Ekta down to earth. She has spent too much time in her 'lala-land', more popularly known as ekta-land ๐ ๐ ๐ . I am sure we have an exhaustive list of the words missing from ekta's dictionary, but for now, I will only focus on "abuse" and "date rape"!
For six months (has it been that long since A-K hit the small screen and stole our hearts away?) I whole-heartedly believed that Krips was involved in an abusive relationship....lolz, my memory is so strange! I can't pull out why I thought for 6 months at the moment, but God, I was wrong!
Angad is involved in an abusive relationship and the abuse is at all time high! Every time Krips and Angad have a small arguement, poor angad always ends up thinking that he did wrong. How is it that he is always at fault? You know when you say 'mujhse hamesha galti ho jati hai', you should get a hint. He should realize that it wasn't his fault at all, at least not this time. I think it is high time for both of them to realize that they are not made for each other. And our idiotic krips darling landed at Prithvi's place and apologizing for countless time.
I can't do anything but laugh at what I will say next
๐ ๐ ๐ , kya karu, I shouldn't, but the idea of man being date-raped is so rare and a little 'funny' for me and society in general (I remember aitraaz ;)). I feel so horrible for angad ...of all the things...heart-broken due to kripa, trust broken by family, thrown out of his own house for being happy with krips, hitting the bottom in his career, being accused & arrested for 'attempt to rape', getting countless slaps from his lady love (good way to show love, no? ๐ ๐ ๐ ), almost getting killed with a bomb, & now the 'soon-to-be' demise of his dear-friend josh and afterwards, the crushing realization of the wrong he commited towards Josh,...now, he gets 'date-raped'! He seems to be trapped in a whirlpool/ sinking sand..all due to Ekta. I wish he could be happy for a second.
Alright, here we go...there is no reason to debate whether it happened or not...now, for the research, which clearly is missing on ekta's side...although she might not understand or realize it, but ekta for the first time has truly nailed the criterian for date-rape...
1. Date Rape is forced or coerced sex between; partners, dates, friends, friends of friends or general acquaintances.
2. Date Rape can be coerced both physically and emotionally - some emotional tactics include; threats to reputation, threats to "not like you", name calling, saying you "brought it on" or "really want it", threats to break up and threats to say you "did it" even if you didn't.
3. If a person has had too much to drink or is on drugs they can not consent to sex and having sex with them is legally rape.
4. There are certain "date rape" drugs that render the victim unconscious and limit memory; using these drugs on somebody is not actually "date rape" but a federal crime with a possible 20 year sentence. (See: 1996 Drug-Induced Rape Prevention and Punishment Act)
5. NO MEANS NO! If a person says no to sex (no matter how quietly or unconvincingly) and you go ahead with it anyway, that is rape.
But remember: even if a victim of sexual assault drank alcohol, she is NOT at fault for being assaulted.
"From:http://www.gbcnv.edu/health/mod.php?mod=userpage&menu= 17&page_id=10"
Sorry, about the big lecture! But, I can't help but point out how acutely angad fits into this criteria. Just remember all that happened in the soap. I don't want to reiterate here! Nothing more about it...and I hope nobody gets angry at me for making the post a little informative. ๐
But, I must say that Angad did so well in this scene...too good, his realization of what had happened, and that he wanted to tell krips right away, and the way he felt grief and angst while hitting the glass window, and just the way he said 'who ladki mujhe apni jindgi se bhi jaida pyar karti hai' made my dil go mmmmm...
I doubt that ekta will ever have angad lodge a complaint against simone for 'date-rape'..ugh, used that word a little too much in the post now...anyways, I wish that angad would be happy for now, forever & ever ๐ณ .
O' Lord, O' Ekta, O' KYPH writers, O' Angad-Kripa & O' IF members...Kaisa ye pyar hai! More appropriately, Kaisa ye ordeal hai! for the characters and for all of us.
, alright, I think that is it...
Like I said, don't forget to post your comments.... ๐ญ are welcome!
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*reeps ๐
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