Originally posted by: queenkumar
Infact in that post itself I did say it was not intended for that and as far as saying sorry to any of them, no way. I'm sorry I cant see my self doing that! Lots have been said about me, if I could just share the posts from their so called bashing forum and pics they alterted and posted, its beyond sorry...I'm sorry Priya, I wont say sorry!
Sangeeta, if they do something in their bashing forum, go and post there, IF is not a place for replying to their bashing posts.
Originally posted by: queenkumar
Infact I will go on minding my own business here and not post a thing on neha, kripa or any of their posts.
Great. Thats a start and hopefully, this will also help us resolve the issue.
Originally posted by: queenkumar
When u read Muniza saying she is ready to kill this woman Queenkumar, it just says a lot about their maturity, when u read Galpal talking about my daughter getting married and what type of saas I will be, that is beyond comprehension of human kind. If you want posts I can show u, I have them clipped all of them!
Is this on IF. How come we have missed these posts. These kind of personal attacks are not tolerated at all Sangeeta. Surely you know us enough to know that, dont you.
Originally posted by: queenkumar
They come on IF and cry and say they not getting sympathy, I'm sorry I have no sympathy for them, I really don't!
I am sure they did not ask you for sympathy, Sangeeta. They talk of equal treatment. Equal treatment does not mean sympathy.
Originally posted by: queenkumar
I have not insulted members here, I have insulted Kripa the character and I'm very close to Sneha, that is the real problem they have.
For me to say sorry to them is a far cry, very far one!
I see your point of starting fresh again and I will do that!
Well, I may not necessarily be able to agree with you that you have never insulted members, many posts, sarcastic in nature have been of the kind which are rather insulting, and often demeaning.
Insulting anyone is wrong. I know you will say that my post here is an insult to you, Sangeeta, but believe me, this is not. I am not insulting you neither am I making a dig at you. I am honestly replying to your post, since we are having an open discussion.
If you insult Kripa, thats wrong as well. Calling her vile names is not acceptable to anyone. Yes, this is a forum meant for all to express their views, openly and squarely, and freely too. But in doing so, we should all remember to excercise some restraint in our words and languages and keep the discussion above board. If you did not like something which Kripa did, you can say so in a better manner. Why insult? Wont her fans feel bad. Wont those guys feel bad who support her move.
Who is Kripa - a figment of someones imagination. By insulting Kripa, you are insulting that person who conjured up that character. By insulting Kripa, you are insulting every member who believes in Kripa's actions. Life is big and Life is unpredicatable. Who knows if someone in real life had to actually undergo the pain Kripa did, who knows if someone in real life actually did what Kripa did.
In this very forum, in another section, when we were discussing on adultery and extra marital affairs, which formed the theme of the show. One member came forward to tell us her story, on how her life changed with the fickle ways of her partners heart. When we were condemning the man, she told us how in real life, things can happen. I was told by another, how though the man seems to be the wrong one, may have had no choice really. Life is strange.
No one here cares if you are close to Sneha or Iqbal. They are happy if you know them, but even if you did not, I dont think it ever made a difference to them. Again, why put thoughts into their head. Why assume what they think.
Sangeeta, dont say sorry, if you dont mean it. Do what your heart tells you to do. I know you will make an effort, I am waiting for that. 😃