Difference between Iqbal and Neha? - Page 4

Agreed that you dont like Neha being bashed. Agreed that IF is a place to express your opinion... so in the same breath, if someone did not like Kripa, can they express their opinion too?

In so far as your bad side being always shown, well, sometimes when you start defending, you cross all limits and get personal. Stop being personal. Defend objectively. There is no problem in defending ones arguments objectively without getting offensive on the person making the argument.

I didn't want to quote one single post as there are so many of them... but these are general in a way.

If you, jakelover or jenguint, don't like Dinky, then WHY do you always go after her posts? It's almost like you wait for her to reply, and then you post something against it..... If you really have a problem, then you (not you specifically) are creating it yourselves by looking after her posts. Leaving her alone and the rest of the members you don't seem to be on the same level with is the best solution, because apparently you feel that we cannot be a family since there are specific members you don't like.

Fine. I don't expect all of you to like all the members, the entire KYPH Dev Team and all of IF doesn't expect you to like every member. But please, don't create more problems for them and for yourself by specifially finding their posts and attacking them. And I'm not only saying that it's you against Dinky; I'm saying that it's for everyone, because I've seen other people do it as well.

One other thing I don't understand.... is that for those of you who have been banned and have come back, I would atleast think that you would want to not commit the same mistakes you did. But no, you come back and say the same things, and do the same things..... why? If you don't like what you see, then atleast post it on a member's point of view, not necessarily personally, because that's when the bashing starts.

I may sound repetitive, because others have said some of the same things I have, but it's needed to complete my post.

Originally posted by: angad4life

Yes. If you all don't like someone, then why are you repeatedly talking to them or replying to their posts? That is what I still don't understand..... there are no teams here on the KYPH, it's just been created because of members doing it themselves.

Originally posted by: Jengunit4lyfe

I agree... I don't bear anyone say a single negative word to Neha Bamb. 😳

But yeh, I don't say negativity to Iqbal .. why would I? He is my Jeeju! 😳

Angad the Character ... Yes I hate him .. and I use to make post on him .. but I didn't wrote anything seriously cursing or sarcasm something like here ppl are making topics on " HYPOCRITE (KRIPA) " ... But, My negativity on Angad isn't like that at all ... 😊My topic " How I dislike Angad " was Please leave Kripa AND Prateek alone ... It wasn't something like " ANGAD THE HYPOCRITE " just like some ppl are doing here.

So ... I don't know ... I just laughed on that Kripa Hypocrite topic ... Why else I can do? It's that same person because of whom I got a warning who made that post . I should keep it shut ... and maybe start making topics on Angad .. 😳 😳 😳 ... But ... I HAVE A BIG HEART YOU SEE ... DOESN'T LET ME WRITE " ANGAD THE HYPOCRITE " ...

THANKS ..
Jenny 😳

i made a post asking about wat ppl think of the CHARACTER KRIPA and if she did stick to her values. it was made for a healthy discussion... wats the need to get personal and start attacking? either contribute to the post or ignore it-- its not bashing u or ur fav actress neha, nor is it getting personal and breaking the rules. so wat problem do u have with such a post? y is it, jengunit jiii, that anything and everyting against kripa makes ur blood boil? ppl are allowed to have different opinions u noe... as long as the discussion doesnt get extreme and personal. if u cant tolerate anything against kripa, then state ur opinion in a normal fashion instead of resorting to threats and further leading this segregation!!

We have to realize:

Iqbal is not Angad
Neha is not Kripa

Why is it when we discuss Angad and Kripa, Iqbal and Neha are always brought up!

I now even see that Dinky21 had an avi and siggy made by forum member here and that too has been copied and replaced with Neha's pic. Now tell me isn't that instigating a member taking her personal stuff and doing that. I feel it is all done on purpose to irritate a member, but do u think she really cares, nope she doesn't!

Neha is always tied into Iqbal's personal life by her fans. Do you guys think she likes that? Do u think she agrees with all this? Aren't u making her look bad? I don't think she would like that.

I have to agree with Ammu when a post is made by Dinky21 or me it is always attacked by many. My request to u all, if u dont like it stay away from the post and ignore it. Infact I have proof of this, where it is said, "Queenie made a post on KAA, lets go attack". Do u think its right?

Originally posted by: queenkumar

We have to realize:

Iqbal is not Angad
Neha is not Kripa

Why is it when we discuss Angad and Kripa, Iqbal and Neha are always brought up!

I now even see that Dinky21 had an avi and siggy made by forum member here and that too has been copied and replaced with Neha's pic. Now tell me isn't that instigating a member taking her personal stuff and doing that. I feel it is all done on purpose to irritate a member, but do u think she really cares, nope she doesn't!

Neha is always tied into Iqbal's personal life by her fans. Do you guys think she likes that? Do u think she agrees with all this? Aren't u making her look bad? I don't think she would like that.

I have to agree with Ammu when a post is made by Dinky21 or me it is always attacked by many. My request to u all, if u dont like it stay away from the post and ignore it. Infact I have proof of this, where it is said, "Queenie made a post on KAA, lets go attack". Do u think its right?

well seriously ...i was also shocked first ....where dinks pic gone then i relealized it is replaced by neha's .....i dont understand why u ppl are trying pushing two ppl in personal relation when long back they were professionals only and neha and iqbal both dont share any sort of relation .....u guys know what ...u are destroying neha's image .......u are giving her all looks that might we think neha is bad ........and i guess this topic was abt neha and iqbal why u ppl bring dinks here ...she is wife of iqbal na ....if u love iqbal then u have to love relations and things related to him .....if u dont like dinks ....then OK ....some times i guess u all come for dinks if she dont exist for you why u get bother ....let her live her life peacefully .......KYPH is over iqbal is married and happily for the fact ......they why u ppl bashed sneha ..is it farz over ppl to attack her personally😡

The show is of Neha and Iqbal and lets face it, in any show, when the lead pair share a fab chemistry on screen, their fans would want to fantasize about them and this is well within their rights to do so.

If Dinky as a gf/ fiancee/ wife of Iqbal does not like it, well, dinky must equally remember this is a forum for ALL KYPH fans and they are entitled to express themselves in a manner in which they like.

If they want to superimpose a photograph of someone over another and create a hype as a fan, there is nothing wrong in it and lets not read something sinister into every thing that happens on the forum.

Like it or not, as long as Iqbal Khan is a star, there will be many fans who will hope and aspire to see him with many heroines, who will weave dreams and fantasies around it. As a member, we should not stop these things, because they, as a equal member of IF has every right to post their thoughts and opinions here.

If they have to stay away from Dinky/ Queenkumars post, then you must also do the same, Sangeeta.

Alternatively, dont read too much into what is posted on the forum.

Maybe Neha or Iqbal dont care on what is written or said on the forum, but their fans who are our members care and feelings of ALL members are equally important. Lets not forget that. No one is in a more superior position than the other and all are equal members of IF.

If someone has been banned in the past, for their past conduct, well, thats between the Dev Team and the concerned member and it is equally unbecoming for any member of IF to pin point the same to them and taunt them for their banned status.

Mistakes have happened, Mistakes will continue to happen. POINT IS they are MISTAKES and nothing was DELIBERATE. Lets stop putting two and two and come up with ten all the time. Lets take things at face value.

Originally posted by: s.priya

The show is of Neha and Iqbal and lets face it, in any show, when the lead pair share a fab chemistry on screen, their fans would want to fantasize about them and this is well within their rights to do so.

If Dinky as a gf/ fiancee/ wife of Iqbal does not like it, well, dinky must equally remember this is a forum for ALL KYPH fans and they are entitled to express themselves in a manner in which they like.

If they want to superimpose a photograph of someone over another and create a hype as a fan, there is nothing wrong in it and lets not read something sinister into every thing that happens on the forum.

Like it or not, as long as Iqbal Khan is a star, there will be many fans who will hope and aspire to see him with many heroines, who will weave dreams and fantasies around it. As a member, we should not stop these things, because they, as a equal member of IF has every right to post their thoughts and opinions here.

If they have to stay away from Dinky/ Queenkumars post, then you must also do the same, Sangeeta.

Alternatively, dont read too much into what is posted on the forum.

Maybe Neha or Iqbal dont care on what is written or said on the forum, but their fans who are our members care and feelings of ALL members are equally important. Lets not forget that. No one is in a more superior position than the other and all are equal members of IF.

If someone has been banned in the past, for their past conduct, well, thats between the Dev Team and the concerned member and it is equally unbecoming for any member of IF to pin point the same to them and taunt them for their banned status.

Mistakes have happened, Mistakes will continue to happen. POINT IS they are MISTAKES and nothing was DELIBERATE. Lets stop putting two and two and come up with ten all the time. Lets take things at face value.

I agree with everything u say Priya, no doubt we all have rights to do so, I just read in siggy and avi section, if u take ones siggy creation, u must give that person the credit, therefore I was bringing it up that's it!

As for fan fantacising about their lead pair that is normal! Who said it wasn't!

Believe me I have stayed away from their post, at times I feel I cant even post a video from kyph or sbs without gettin criticized or it could be an article or pictures!

Originally posted by: cute_face86

well seriously ...i was also shocked first ....where dinks pic gone then i relealized it is replaced by neha's .....i dont understand why u ppl are trying pushing two ppl in personal relation when long back they were professionals only and neha and iqbal both dont share any sort of relation .....u guys know what ...u are destroying neha's image .......u are giving her all looks that might we think neha is bad ........and i guess this topic was abt neha and iqbal why u ppl bring dinks here ...she is wife of iqbal na ....if u love iqbal then u have to love relations and things related to him .....if u dont like dinks ....then OK ....some times i guess u all come for dinks if she dont exist for you why u get bother ....let her live her life peacefully .......KYPH is over iqbal is married and happily for the fact ......they why u ppl bashed sneha ..is it farz over ppl to attack her personally😡

Amna glad u see it like I do and I feel the same way too, infact we all have seen the makign of an attack right! 😉

Originally posted by: queenkumar

I agree with everything u say Priya, no doubt we all have rights to do so, I just read in siggy and avi section, if u take ones siggy creation, u must give that person the credit, therefore I was bringing it up that's it!

As for fan fantacising about their lead pair that is normal! Who said it wasn't!

Believe me I have stayed away from their post, at times I feel I cant even post a video from kyph or sbs without gettin criticized or it could be an article or pictures!

Sangeeta, actually problem is everyone reads so much into everything.

Remember the incident recently when you posted some video and I could not find any fault with it, except some member posted that the particular episode held bitter memories for them as it related to some vile incident in the show, which translated into bitter fights on the forum and that particular episode resulted in many members leaving the forum. That video reminded them of their friends gone away.

Surely you did not think so when you made the post, neither did I as a casual observer. But some members got hurt and felt bad.

When you know this, a simple word of sorry or a line in consolation goes a long way in putting balm on rough emotions and hurt.

Surely you dont want to hurt a young girl in the forum and surely you dont have malice in your heart that you posted that to spite another.

We all need to remember that when you or I post something, we should not read anything more into it than what is on the face of it.

Lets make a start.

As a senior, if you were to start practising restraint or offer a word in sympathy to a hurt friend, it will go a long way in healing the wounds in this section.

Can you and I do it?