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Mishy

@Larki_deewani

Voyager

Posted: 18 years ago

hey guyz i know that this so doesnt relate to KYPH but i wanted to know if a girl had a bf and they've been 2gether for more than 2 yrz...b4 it felt like they were made for each other...but after a while things started changing and its not bcoz of the girl its bcoz of the guy ..their relationship just wasnt the same...the girl wanted to talk it out but the guy was just ignoring that topic and whenever she wanted to ask him whats going on he would just change the subject or something....what do u guyz think that girl should do??

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farah

@adnanFarz

Inactive

Posted: 18 years ago

leave him!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
if he isnt taking the girl seriously then the girl should find someone who gives that respect she deserves. The girl is lucky she isnt married to him. its just a BF...move on cuz she can do better. there is definitely something he is hiding. maybe he is interested somewhere else or is just not as serious in the relationship as the girl is. No matter how long a girl has been with a man, a man looses interest cuz lets face it men are stupid!! LOVE is blind and girls find out very late to open their eyes. so this girl should not be blind and get out when she still has time. because if this guy and girl get married, this is exactly what will happen after they get married. he will always ignore serious conversation. and then the girl will realize i have made a grave mistake. so, in conclusion!!
LEAVE HIMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMM!!!!!! 😉

Edited by adnanFarz - 18 years ago

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Mishy

@Larki_deewani

Voyager

Posted: 18 years ago

thats so true...ur rite...just 4get abt him...he's a loser !!...the only thing that makes me worried if what if it turns out 2 be kripa situation and i regret this afterwards..what do u think?

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Pooja

@Angeleyes 2

Rocker

Posted: 18 years ago

lets not point fingers but he can be cheating or have cheated before thats y he is doing that. In a realtionship there are problems and sometimes one partner might need time to be alone(not ending the realtionship). Always remember a realtionship that goes smoothly have the biggest problem.

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Mishy

@Larki_deewani

Voyager

Posted: 18 years ago

yeah but its not like i didnt try making it better...its just that as i tried making it better he kept on making it worse

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Pooja

@Angeleyes 2

Rocker

Posted: 18 years ago

Originally posted by: Larki_deewani
yeah but its not like i didnt try making it better...its just that as i tried making it better he kept on making it worse

give him some time and see if its still the same if yes dump him. u should also try to see if anything is bothering him😊

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mariyum

@lazy_mariyum

Rocker

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Posted: 18 years ago

omg ya leave her god or there will be more problems

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Mishy

@Larki_deewani

Voyager

Posted: 18 years ago

thanks guyz for ur advices 😊

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farah

@adnanFarz

Inactive

Posted: 18 years ago

listen dear...i am telling from experience. leave him!! its not going to change! it just gets worse.i have been through exactly what you are saying. and let me tell you it just gets worse and worse. get out while you can. its not easy, i know. you probably have invested a lot of yourself in him, but if he isnt recipricating it then thats a sign for you to leave. if its meant to be he will come back. Also, you have to give him the space and realization that he is doing wrong to you. so, i am telling you to give him up for a while and see where it goes. Make him see you are a strong women and that he doesnt have a right to treat you like that. Angad changed cuz kripa left him and then he realized how wrong he thought of kripa. so thats why i am saying become kripa. good luck! 😉