a different story !! - Page 2

i am living with it 😆
thats why i am telling you to let him go!!! 😆

I married him, but only after i broke up with him and he came running back after 8months. he needed time to realize what he had. because guys are stupid...they dont know what they have until they have lost it. thats the only way they ever leran.

i knew he wasnt mature enough to be in a commitment like that. but i didnt listen to my mind, i followed my heart. and got screwed 😆 until i suspected he was with someone else, then all hit the fan. i left him!!! and didnt look back.

Let me tell you...its very tough and if he is withdrawn now it just gets worse. i think you should get out before he does that to you. i mean thats what happen with us. i hounded him for months about what was wrong and finally he broke up with me because he said he was tired of me. that tore me to pieces. but i picked myself up and did what a normal girl does, stand up as a women and in 8months he was running back to me and begging me to take him back thats why i said let him go. its the best thing. if its meant to be or if he really loves you he will be back...they always come back. 😉

wow...he really came back 2 u and u guyz got married...yeah ur so right...whenevr i tried 2 talk to him he would just be like im tired of hearing this shit all the time and stuff so last night i just broke up with him and he didnt seem 2 care at all

i dunno if he'll ever come back 2 me or not but from u i realized i did the right thing...i know its gonna be hard i try so hard 2 4get abt him but all i think abt is him even though he was a jerk 2 me...oh well i have 2 move on...thanks so much for helping me out...by the way where do u live in USA??

i am in new york...long island....
my now husband, was the same way when we broke up. but, you have to act as though you have moved on and you dont care for him or any of his S*** cuz thats when it will hurt him. it wont hurt him if you are still thinking about him. that just makes him have the power over you still. There are sooooooo many other fish in the sea seriously. my now husband only came back to me when he realize that i wasnt waiting for him! thats what these dumbasses think..that we are just gonna wait for them and they will come back whenever they feel ready and we will take them back. i am soo glad you gave him up. seriously, when he does come back, you probably wont want him anymore anyway. The distance will make you see him for him and not what you want him to be because he is with you. i didnt want my husband back right away either. he had to do a lot of changing to get me back. so now the power had shifted. its in your hand and dont ever make the mistake of giving it back to him. trust me, there is someone out there who will love you and cherish you like the way you want. you are young. hang out with friends and concentrate on being the best you can be for yourself. give yourself that attention that you kept giving him!! its the best medicine for a broken heart! good luck dear. btw...you can pm if you want to talk to me more...ill be hear for you if you need more advice or just a friend for support. 😉

no problem always here to help!! 😉