Kripa, Angad & Big'L'-Love or Lust - Page 2

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Posted: 20 years ago
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Lust is nothing but merely physical attraction without Love! As soon as the cloud of love envelopes your being, the same lust transcends into love!

You can live happily with a person whom you respect but do not love but its really tough living with a person whom you love but hold no respect for. At this point in time, Kripa is both in love with Angad and respect him (she does, inspite of what she shows outwardly) and she only respect and admires Prithvi but does not love him! When Angad lets Kripa down, her respect for him will go and with that the love will also fade away, albeit slowly but surely!

You cannot remain in love with a person whom you do not respect but there is a lot of chance that you might end up falling in love with a person whom you respect.

Kripa is truly, madly and deeply in love with Angad and she is full aware of her feelings, hence if she consummates her relationship, it will be ''An Act of Love'' but Angad is not sure what he feels for Kripa, he is attracted to her, he misses her, he enjoys her company, he cannot see her with anyone else, but does all that culminate in Love? I for one, do not think so. Hence, if Angad connsummates this relationship based on his relationship with Kripa, it will be an ''ct of Lust'' or to put it less controversially, ''An Act of Physical Attraction''.

So, Love and Lust are completely relative terms, they differ from person to person, from individual to individual!

Kripa is definitely in love with Angad, the person, not his image, but Angad is in love with the ''Kripa - whom he could not have'' For him, Kripa is the forbidden fruit, which he wants to acquire at any given cost! I think the thrill of stealing her from Prithvi gave him a high! But this is not saying that he is a bad person or something, Angad is just confused. For a person who has not seen the existence of love in his life, he wouldn't know the deeper meaning of this emotion till love goes away from his life!

Only when Kripa leaves Angad, will he understand that he has truly loved someone and lost that person.

Cheers,

Chilly

PS: That way, Prithvi's love is of the highest order! Will post something on it later!

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Posted: 20 years ago
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yeah chilly..............only when you loose somebody.................then only do you value their presence............

Angad will only realise his love for Kripa once he looses her.........

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Posted: 20 years ago
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Originally posted by: SweetSone15

i think that it was infactuation before..when kripa used to think about angad all the time even though she never met him...but now that they met eachother and spent time with eachother..and really like eachother..its love...

i think the same

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Posted: 20 years ago
#14

Hmn Just recieved this on email so trhought of sharing it with you guys. I think the below mentioned lines aptly describes the beatiful emotion of love:

Children in the age group of 4 to 10 were asked whats the meaning of love. The winner was a 4-year-old child whose next door neighbor was an elderly man who had just lost his wife. When the child saw the man cry,the little boy went over into the man's yard and climbed on top of the man's lap and just sat there. When the boy's mother asked him what he'd said to the neighbor, the little boy said, "Nothing,just helped him cry." ..

On a Personal Level i think Love is learning to go and also it is growing old with each other. I agree with Chilly when she says thast Angad will only know what he has lost when Kripa goes away from him. It is only then will he respect and value kripa for what she is. Love without Respect is like eggs without salt - Tastless. Love and Respect are in sync with each other and if either of the two are missing from any relationship then that relationship can well be headed for a man made disaster/disruption.

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Posted: 20 years ago
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I agree that Angad will realise what he has lost when Kripa goes away from him. Thats probably when he's gonna realise that he loves her too.
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Posted: 20 years ago
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Gr8 replies everyone.. w/ special mention to love4ever, keshp15, chillflakes, mistyeyed_25.. My view is closet to chilly.

Here is my take: There is a very fine line between infatuation/lust & romantic love. On the surface it is very easy to mistake one for another because all have similarities of one wanting to be w/ the person of U'r affection, missing them when they are not there, feeling passion & possesive for the other person, etc. But couple of differences between love & other emotions are: knowing about the other persons strenghts & flaws and still respecting, caring & accepting them as they are; wanting the other persons happiness above all else, at the highest level this includes taking on the pain & anguish on oneself rather than the person you love experiencing hurt & pain as their feeling pain would hurt you more than your own pain, freeing & supporting the other person even though it may mean the loss of the other person from your life .

Therefore, at this point I do not think Angad loves Kripa. He is infatuated & attracted to her because she is very different from anyone he has met in his life. In addition, it is a challenge for him to have Kripa fall in love w/ him since she had insulted his ego & as Chilly mentioned Kripa is a forbidden fruit which he wants to "win".

Kripa emotions are bordering on love, but I think she is still infatuated with the image of Anagd, as she still does not respect him.. on Thursdays' episode she said girls like her would not want to be w/ him, let alone walk couple of steps with him. Deep down she probably feels she can change Angad & teach him the meaning of love.

Prithvis' emotions are closet to love. He has supported her, he was willing to pay so she can be released from the contract, even though it might have meant she might go back home, & also when Kripa refused to get engaged he stepped up and claimed they both had decided not to get engaged in order to take the heat off Kripa, & even after her rejection Prithvi had stated he would always support & be there 4 Kripa.

They say it takes a minute to find a special person, an hour to appreciate
them, a day to love them, but then an entire life to forget them.
❤️A Big Jadu ki Jappi frm Me 2 U🤗

Edited by indiantv - 20 years ago
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Posted: 20 years ago
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I think it's a deadly combination of " love and lust ".

A-K electrosphere is a roller-coaster journey of love, hatred, passion, intensity, lust..everything which will eventually cool down to a soul-igniting warm love story. A-K still don't realise what they mean to each other and unless they traverse troubled waters, they won't realise the true value of each other.

Love is difficult and hurtful...so that you know it downtill your every fibre of your existence that what God has bestowed you with.Take care of ppl you love.

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