Imperfection at it's best! - Page 4

Originally posted by: soni595

aww, sandy meherbani, ki apne poora padliya lolzz😆

Let's go backwards! No why would I be offended by your thoughts?slpp😡 that's the point, posting your own thoughts! First of all, if Kripa shouldn't be jealous of Angad- Mishty, is should be vice versa also right? Why is Angad jealous of Kripa being with Neeraj? If Kripa shoudln't be jealous, so shouldn't Angad!

See, in marriage, you're supposed to use level one communication - meaning complete honest and openess, Kripa made that mistake of being not so honest, Angad is repeating the same mistake, am not saying he shouldn't tell mishty, he can if he wants, but he should also tell Kripa, cause this time, he himself is boring the seed of misunderstanding inside her, if she finds out from someone else about the truth like Angad found out about the child, she will be upset, and their relationship will once again hang on loose ends! Both of them should learn to trust each other enough to tell the truth, or else, their drowning their own ship!

Yes, Kripa should take more care especially since she's pregnant, even if she's in very vulernable state right now in pregnancy phase, she should control her anger for her child's sake!

yaar, a relationship does not end on one side, if Kripa is messing up so is Angad, he should tell her as well, what's bothering him, wasn't he the one to say vishvas hona chahiye rishte mai? why is he not abiding by his own rules? And why isn't Kripa? They both commit the same mistakes, and drown together in the same well, nothing comes out, they drown, rise, and go back again at doing what they do best - not trusting each other, not understanding each other! At times, I feel sorry for them, and at times, I can laugh at them, and sometimes, pity them or emphatize with them!

Princesss..hugggg love youuu!

Keep smiling....alien😳

Love

Soni

He was gonna tell her. i know i am saying it again so how is it his fault???

Kya uski yeh galti hai ke he doesn't want to hurt Kripa??

Originally posted by: Neelu.RoX

Yaar, thats men for you. They want women to abide by there rules but they never use there adivce them selves. Exactky both make the same mistakes agen and agen. Why? If they really love eachother they would be alaert and learn from there past because thats the only solotion. I also do feel sorry for them coz they dont know there own feeling.. These kids need to learn that knoe one can read minds.

I agree, that is why I said, male dominance still exists, be it the 17th century or 12st century! Yea, exactly, they can read eyes for love, for confrimation, for moods, for anger whatever, but eyes cannot tell secrets, you've got to use level one communication and say it, in open honesty! They need to learn seriously!

Originally posted by: Neelu.RoX

So sandy are you saying Kripa is at fault for everything? what did she do?

i am sorry but i disagree with what you said here. Why is Angad right? Okay he didnt tell Kripa, coz he didnt want to hurt her. So why did he have to turn his back and tell Mishty when he knew Kripa wouldnt like it? Coz know he did the exact same thing to Kripa that he was avoiding, witch is hurting her.

In my aspect, Angad was at fault for mostly everything. He knoes K hates mishty. Then why the hiding? Just to break the relation agen? Angad never learns form his mistakes.

Kripa was busy with her so called Career so he had to tell someone so what's wrong telling his problem to Mishty???😕

Originally posted by: Sandy_01

Soni first of all really long 😆 I had to read all 😆 and u did a wonderful job 👏 👏 👏

As for Angad i am completely with Angad 😳 I think whatever he did is right. Angad didn't tell the truth cauz he didn't want to hurt Kripa cauz she is pregnant.

And I agree with u that whatever Kripa did is so wrong she started drinking?? This is not the way to react come on Kripa u r pregnant don't u care for ur baby?? Didn't u learn a lessen when u lost ur baby before? How can u be so careless?

And as far as Angad telling Mishty everything i don't find it wring? What's wrong in it?? Angad considers Mishty as her friend. don't we share our personal problems with our friends then why people are making a bid deal out of it? 😕

When Kripa knows that Mishty is married then why she is getting insecure? I understand that Mishty had an affair with Angad but Kripa knows that angad has always loved her then does she still think that Angad will cheat on her???

Kripa kud hi apna rishat bigaad rahi hai.
that's all i had to say. Pls don't get offened if i said anything wrong cauz that is my opinions 😃

i completely Agree wid Sandy👍🏼

Princess, kripa did the same thing, hid the truth, so that Angad would not be hurt, cause he was so happy with the baby's arrival and thinking the child as his own, and if that was a mistake, cause it was, it created loads of tension between the two, why is Angad himself repeating the same thing? Angad does not need whole day to tell Kripa, he can tell her at night, on the way to the party anywhere, it would certainly avoid her becoming more tensed than she already is, for which she drinks alcohol - that is bad for the baby! And if he confides in her, it will avoid a whole lot of misunderstandings!

Keep smiling..
Love
Soni

Originally posted by: Neelu.RoX

😳 heheheheh... thanks for making this post soni di 😳 I love debating on topics like these 😛

lolz, you're welcome neelu!😛

Love

soni di

ok pppl sorry for interupting u guys...
but i really think Angad did the right thing because somethimes there r things which we cannot share with our life partner but we can share it with our frens...
and the other thing other pppl said Kripa hid the truth abt baby cuz he didnt wanna hurt him???? wat is that???
who would hide like that kind of stuff????

Originally posted by: soni595

aww...dharti, you're a sweetheart for saying that! Soni is really touched by your words!😳 Nice idea lolz, a long honeymoon, with no hadiis, twists, and mirch masalas around, and the serial can end happily ever after, in fairy tale style! I wish, that would certainly be a very fantabulous ending!

Yea, I love psyche, and helping people stable themselves from mentally disabled disorders, in order to live a healthier, and happier life, is my passion! I did want to treat him, unfortunately, koi aur doctor agaya mera chance gaya!😆

Love you!

Keep smiling...

Love

Soni

thankooooooooo Soni di! 😳

well an as for honeymoon n happy ending...i dont think it'll happen! but if it does then it would be just like a fairy tale! 😳 😳 how cute! but i dont think Ekta has read any fairy tales so she always ends the story with a dhamaka! 😆

well i havent taken that class...but i m learing alot of things abt Mental Disorders in my health class! well its ok, dont get ur hopes down...cuz i think Ekta will soon need another doc for Manek...unless he changes which i doubt!

- Dharti!

Originally posted by: Evee

sandy I guess u missed the point! There is a saying in hindi "tali ek haath se nahi bajti" They both are at fault. Its out of my comprehension how u can find kripas actions wrong and support angad.

Maybe kripa lied to angad as she too didnt want to hurt him, as he was going through a rough patch! YOu dont find anything worng in agnad confiding his problems with mishty and not with kripa? Interesting! Sandy, trust me girl, you dont want this sort of thing in ur married life. Foundations of marriage: trust, communication, love. Angad not trusting kripa and not sharing his pains with her is a breach of this foundation. Fine mishty is angad's friend but your better half is supposed to be your bestest friend. If there are unsaid things between husband and wife... it will only lead to conflict and I see it coming in angad and kripas lives.

This new found mishty is wearing a mask and underneath lies "prithvi part 2" lol.... trust me she will show her true colors soon!!

wow Evee..i have heard this saying! 😆 its really popular in India...n it makes a lot os sense too!

well like i said i dont have any prob. with Angad sharing his probs with Mishti...but i think Kripa should have been the first 1. i think she has a full right to know wht her husband is going through....!

but to tell u all the turth...the whole married life thing confuses me! 😕 😆

- Dharti!

Originally posted by: Evee

sandy I guess u missed the point! There is a saying in hindi "tali ek haath se nahi bajti" They both are at fault. Its out of my comprehension how u can find kripas actions wrong and support angad.

Maybe kripa lied to angad as she too didnt want to hurt him, as he was going through a rough patch! YOu dont find anything wrong in angad confiding his problems with mishty and not with kripa? Interesting! Sandy, trust me girl, you dont want this sort of thing in ur married life. Foundations of marriage: trust, communication, love. Angad not trusting kripa and not sharing his pains with her is a breach of this foundation. Fine mishty is angad's friend but your better half is supposed to be your bestest friend. If there are unsaid things between husband and wife... it will only lead to conflict and I see it coming in angad and kripas lives.

This new found mishty is wearing a mask and underneath lies "prithvi part 2" lol.... trust me she will show her true colors soon!!

I so agree with you evee! Communication, trust and understanding are surely the building blocks of a relationship, if their not present, the relationship has no boulder to stand on! Plus, shouldn't they be on conflict avoid phase? After so manyy? You think she's wearing a persona? I think so too, after all kyph writers, need so many twists to keep the haywireness going!!😆