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Posted: 19 years ago
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Originally posted by: swordfishh

Hm.....These love stories are timeless....But we are in the 21st century....Remember?? Btw....thats one thing I never liked abt M&B tales..... But yeah....Talking of Rhett Butler.....I wouldnt mind him even if he were 60!😳

21st century does not change the way people feel, it only changes the way people think......you are not every individual, Swordy.

Love is timeless......it transcends all boundaries.

It can only be felt and nobody can explain it to you by chattoing in these posts.

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"There's no paradise known without pink flowers of divine love blooming around......😳."

Edited by nitica_82 - 19 years ago
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Posted: 19 years ago
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Its not the age difference Nitica di....Its the age....
I think it is downright archaic and senseless to show a teenaged girl getting married and bearing children.....
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Posted: 19 years ago
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Swordy, I and my hubby have 4 years difference...Now according to you is it too much 😕 ...I'm 25 now and he is 29 😳 😉..

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Raksha 😛
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Posted: 19 years ago
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Originally posted by: NyCuTiE

😆 😆 ....kripa does look too yeung for angad....and i hate it!

You hate it? Hatred is too harsh a word and one should be careful while using it.

In the soap itself, everybody hates Angad-Kripa's love couple.....but does it matter, darling? They still love each-other and always will.

If love went by height-difference, physical- contrasts, I don't know if love would stay love at all.

Kripa loves Angad because her heart tells her to.....we can think of the physical-contrast.....the heart cannot. A heart only looks for it's other half,irrespective of what it looks like.

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Posted: 19 years ago
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Ok peace....The age difference thing was just an off the hook remark....

Raksha.....What I am trying to get at is....Why should they show a teenaged girl getting married so early? If this is the story that the balaji ppl had in mind...Then why did they show such a young girl? Ekta's heroines anyway become saree clad housewives sitting and waiting for their hubbies while they go for work.... If they had to do the same thing with Kripa....Why did they portray her as such a young and ambitious woman? I think reducing a woman's role to just that of a wife and a mother is denigrating to say the least. Every woman wants to be a good mother and a good wife....But is that all??Where is the self confidence and independance that we saw in the old Kripa?

Edited by swordfishh - 19 years ago
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Posted: 19 years ago
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Originally posted by: swordfishh

Its not the age difference Nitica di....Its the age....
I think it is downright archaic and senseless to show a teenaged girl getting married and bearing children.....

Kripa is 22 and Angad is 27 and even if they were not, then leaving aside K- crap and speaking purely on terms of the heart, you can call it arachaic, senseless, brainless and everything........it doesn't matter.

If Kripa is ready for it, if Angad is ready for it and they have no qualms, I wonder why should anyone else have?

Even if Angad was 28 and Kripa 25, their feelings would still be the same...and their relationship just as deep.

I am NOT approving of young marriages by archaic force.....but if 2 ppl are ready, I don't see any reason for anyone else to stop them.

Angad-Kripa , though not grown-up😆...are independent, successful and connected to each-other.That clinches it.

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Posted: 19 years ago
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Correction....Kripa is still 20....ie, she is still a kid....
17+2=19+1=20.... or even 18+2=20....

BTW....That way I think Neha is a very sensible girl...I didnt listen to her interview but I read the transcript.....and I must say she has a good head on her shoulders...
And compare her with Kripa... 🤢 Both 20...Both look the same....Yet so much of difference..... 😛

Willingness and Love is not enough to get married..... You need to be capable of shouldering responsibilities.... And neither of them is responsible enough.....

Pratham and Gauri had brains.... Sujal and Kashish were independant individuals.....And Angad and Kripa?? They still need to grow up.....

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Posted: 19 years ago
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Originally posted by: swordfishh

Ok peace....The age difference thing was just an off the hook remark....

Raksha.....What I am trying to get at is....Why should they show a teenaged girl getting married so early? If this is the story that the balaji ppl had in mind...Then why did they show such a young girl? Ekta's heroines anyway become saree clad housewives sitting and waiting for their hubbies while they go for work.... If they had to do the same thing with Kripa....Why did they portray her as such a young and ambitious woman? I think reducing a woman's role to just that of a wife and a mother is denigrating to say the least. Every woman wants to be a good mother and a good wife....But is that all??Where is the self confidence and independance that we saw in the old Kripa?



Swordy, that age thing that I mentioned was also just as a off the hook remark to distract all you guys..Which apparently didnt work out, cos only you replied and rest everybody just ignored😭😃

I will have to disagree with you on that 'reducing a woman to being a house wife etc'..Arre Ria, you are still a young girl...In my view, too young to comment on marriage etc...pleas dont take offence, ok...Marriage will make a woman understand her real capacity...Hey a woman can wear many hats, unlike men...I got married when I was 20 and I think I have enjoyed and accomplished more after that...Marriage is no hindrance to ones growth...It basically depends on ones thought process, dreams and goals...Marriage or no marriage, some people will just be reduced to being nothing, simply because they dont have any DREAMS and GOALS!

Luv,
Raksha😊
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Posted: 19 years ago
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Originally posted by: swordfishh

Its not the age difference Nitica di....Its the age....
I think it is downright archaic and senseless to show a teenaged girl getting married and bearing children.....



Hello Ria what am i hearing this dear...I married my hubby really young 😉& he supported me while i finished medical school .The age difference does not matter when a couple is in love.
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Posted: 19 years ago
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Originally posted by: veena



Hello Ria what am i hearing this dear...I married my hubby really young 😉& he supported me while i finished medical school .The age difference does not matter when a couple is in love.



Bingo!😳

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