Originally posted by: Angad_Diwani
hmmmm.... nice question ...
Mishty is , like everyone said, sexy, poised and sophisticated ....... but she lacks that 'wholesome' , all indian 'shudh' feel to her (if u get my meaning)...
Kripa ... she doesnt have the sex appeal or the poise But she thas the appeal of the eternal woman : that one in all with that wholesome, honest to goodness angle to her,
that few men can resist.
Plus, these days she has gotten this really ethereal look to her (man - what is she eating these days , her complexion keeps getting better and better)...
And ... I dont know how many of u will agree with me . But here's the deal why Angad fell for Kripa and not Mishty & why zaib will probably fall hook, line and sinker for Kripa Again :
INSIGHT No 1 :
Guyz dream abt and drool abt drop-dead-sexy dames to have as girlfriends ... but when it comes to wife material, they always want a differnt package : surreal beauty sanskaars,keeper of the heart and home .... it is then the blonde bomshell image of the ideal woman goes flying out the window and they want tamer material to take home to the folks ... minus too much oomph and sex appeal (afterall no blue blooded son would want his parents to raise derisive eyebrows at his 'WIFE' nor want his sick
(!)friends material to lech and oogle at...)
INSIGHT NO 2 :
Guyz go for the 'unattainable tag'... it fires them on somehow....
Mishty has never had that 'Im not available' tag ... she has always seemed attainable. There for the taking, provided you appealed to her 'right' side : I.e. right poise, right attitude, right outlook on life.
But Kripa never had that tag.
She always had the ' I may look easy but I am made of differnt stuff - not that easy to attain' tag.
She was so far away from Angad's world - decidely down market, but with all the qualities that a guy 'wants to take home to his mom'. These qualities (such as respect for marriage ceremonies, undying belief in sanctity of marriage, sacredness of sindoor etc etc) are what were gradually unfolded to Angad and what appealed to him ...
Krips didnt belong to his world at all and moreover wasnt easy kill.... and that element of the unatainibility hooked him on to her.
Plus, she came bundled with all the 'wholesome aspects' that guyz want in a life partner and a wife ... NOT A TROPHY girl friend....And that is why Mishty will never be number one in Angad's or zaib's eyes.... đ I guess some things are just never meant to be ( offcourse ekta land doesnt function by this principle)....
đđđ Wah!...Excellent, superb analysis! Every word is spot on! I guess Mishty is fun and Kripa is forever!