do u guyz fink shruti deserves .... - Page 3

Originally posted by: dee150

Yep Vasu. I think she sees Paro as being responsible 4 losing the men in her life thats y she has so many issues with her.

I think ye she does deserve some puishment (which will happen wen Tanu finds out) but I also see her as being quite lost and broken now. The most important people in her life were Om, Krishna and Paro and she lost them all in a short space of time. She's more of a mess than even she knows.

I kinda wish it was an englih show so we could get a therapy ep. for all the characters. Imagine Shruti and Janki in family therapy 😆 😆 and Trishna's shink would have a field day with her insanity 😆 😆

Winnie I agree with u, she is so complex and layered theres so much to try and figure out bout her. Hence we sit and over analyse 😉 😆 😆

Yeah Dee, agree. 😃We've literally just completed a full book on Shruti's Symptoms... 😆she is complex and tough to understand...😉 and hence our knowlege on psychology or at least my limited knowledge is falling short!!!😆

Winnie my knowledge is limited too, but it doesnt mean we can't try 😆 😆 .

Even tho she isnt likable at the moment, her complexity is what keeps me interested in her. I like characers who don't make sense 😉

Originally posted by: dee150

Winnie my knowledge is limited too, but it doesnt mean we can't try 😆 😆 .

Even tho she isnt likable at the moment, her complexity is what keeps me interested in her. I like characers who don't make sense 😉

Winnie, like I said, I don't necessarily think Shruti is right - but come on, in such situations people think they are the only ones suffering. The thing that really hinders me from hating Shruti completely (apart from a)she's Tina and b) her initial relationship with Om and Paro) is the fact that, good or bad, her reactions are HUMAN. I can relate to her (not literally, but in a human sense) because she makes mistakes - she is not claiming or portrayed as perfect. For example, I can't relate to characters like Tulsi, because she seems to have this aura of "I'm infallible" around her - so even though we can see the mistakes she makes, she considers them to be right. Similarly, I can HATE characters like Meera or Mandira because I cannot fathom their hatred and their reactions to the protagonists - what kind of revenge are they looking for? The thing about Kahaani is that most of its characters are not ONE-dimensional, not even Pallavi and not even Sasha. Sasha felt cheated because his mother was not given the respect that perhaps Anamika was given in the AG House, and Pallavi - she's had a lot of bad stuff happen to her, even though it may not directly be the family's fault. Thus, I cannot hate Pallavi, because I see that her love for Krishna is real, if nothing else is.

Similarly, whatever I may dislike about Shruti, at least she is real and human - the circumstances may be ridiculous, but her reactions are something that can be related to. I do not claim to know much about psychology or the human mind, but I guess because of my own analytical nature, I tend to try and see things more deeply than is perhaps normal😆😆 And the thing that really stops me from hating Shruti, is that the main reason she went against Paro is OM. Not some stupid, outside misunderstanding. I mean, if it was simply about Sameer, I would have hated her. Like in KZK, when, during Mukti's rape track, Sneha went against her mother for Sharad, I went - WHAT? I hated her from then on, because she placed a man she barely knew over her mother. But here, while Sameer is a major part of Shruti's life, the only man she has ever placed over her mother is her father. And that is a tiny, tenuous ray of hope for me - that whatever she does, it is because she does love her family.

Originally posted by: psawyer

Winnie, like I said, I don't necessarily think Shruti is right - but come on, in such situations people think they are the only ones suffering. The thing that really hinders me from hating Shruti completely (apart from a)she's Tina and b) her initial relationship with Om and Paro) is the fact that, good or bad, her reactions are HUMAN. I can relate to her (not literally, but in a human sense) because she makes mistakes - she is not claiming or portrayed as perfect. For example, I can't relate to characters like Tulsi, because she seems to have this aura of "I'm infallible" around her - so even though we can see the mistakes she makes, she considers them to be right. Similarly, I can HATE characters like Meera or Mandira because I cannot fathom their hatred and their reactions to the protagonists - what kind of revenge are they looking for? The thing about Kahaani is that most of its characters are not ONE-dimensional, not even Pallavi and not even Sasha. Sasha felt cheated because his mother was not given the respect that perhaps Anamika was given in the AG House, and Pallavi - she's had a lot of bad stuff happen to her, even though it may not directly be the family's fault. Thus, I cannot hate Pallavi, because I see that her love for Krishna is real, if nothing else is.

Similarly, whatever I may dislike about Shruti, at least she is real and human - the circumstances may be ridiculous, but her reactions are something that can be related to. I do not claim to know much about psychology or the human mind, but I guess because of my own analytical nature, I tend to try and see things more deeply than is perhaps normal😆😆 And the thing that really stops me from hating Shruti, is that the main reason she went against Paro is OM. Not some stupid, outside misunderstanding. I mean, if it was simply about Sameer, I would have hated her. Like in KZK, when, during Mukti's rape track, Sneha went against her mother for Sharad, I went - WHAT? I hated her from then on, because she placed a man she barely knew over her mother. But here, while Sameer is a major part of Shruti's life, the only man she has ever placed over her mother is her father. And that is a tiny, tenuous ray of hope for me - that whatever she does, it is because she does love her family.

Vasu I agree with u 100%. I think she is wrong here w/out a doubt but her motivations 4 it do make sense even if I hated her actions. I cant hate Shruti 4 the same reasons, I remember what she used to be and deep down no child of Om/Paro is going to be all bad.

We get so deep bout some characters 😆. I think tho this situation is such that u cant help analyse it.

Also I hate Tulsi too 😆😆, she is so self-rightous its plain irritating. Emotionally blackmailing her kids into doing whatever she wants is not a "good" persons act.

Originally posted by: psawyer

Winnie, like I said, I don't necessarily think Shruti is right - but come on, in such situations people think they are the only ones suffering. The thing that really hinders me from hating Shruti completely (apart from a)she's Tina and b) her initial relationship with Om and Paro) is the fact that, good or bad, her reactions are HUMAN. I can relate to her (not literally, but in a human sense) because she makes mistakes - she is not claiming or portrayed as perfect. For example, I can't relate to characters like Tulsi, because she seems to have this aura of "I'm infallible" around her - so even though we can see the mistakes she makes, she considers them to be right. Similarly, I can HATE characters like Meera or Mandira because I cannot fathom their hatred and their reactions to the protagonists - what kind of revenge are they looking for? The thing about Kahaani is that most of its characters are not ONE-dimensional, not even Pallavi and not even Sasha. Sasha felt cheated because his mother was not given the respect that perhaps Anamika was given in the AG House, and Pallavi - she's had a lot of bad stuff happen to her, even though it may not directly be the family's fault. Thus, I cannot hate Pallavi, because I see that her love for Krishna is real, if nothing else is.

Similarly, whatever I may dislike about Shruti, at least she is real and human - the circumstances may be ridiculous, but her reactions are something that can be related to. I do not claim to know much about psychology or the human mind, but I guess because of my own analytical nature, I tend to try and see things more deeply than is perhaps normal😆😆 And the thing that really stops me from hating Shruti, is that the main reason she went against Paro is OM. Not some stupid, outside misunderstanding. I mean, if it was simply about Sameer, I would have hated her. Like in KZK, when, during Mukti's rape track, Sneha went against her mother for Sharad, I went - WHAT? I hated her from then on, because she placed a man she barely knew over her mother. But here, while Sameer is a major part of Shruti's life, the only man she has ever placed over her mother is her father. And that is a tiny, tenuous ray of hope for me - that whatever she does, it is because she does love her family.

Hi Vasu.😊 Yeah, here I totally agree with u, 😃that Shruti's reactions were even though bizarre, very human at least. 😉True, she made a mistake and that's definitely believable its possible.😊 Believe me, I don't really hate Shruti to the extent that I don't want her forgiven ever... believe me, nothing would please me more to see her repent and go back to being Parvati's sweet daughter again.😃 The thing is actually, I think I'm so angry with Shruti, coz I used to love her character a lot previously... when she was good and her equation with Parvati was sooo awesome, the cutest mother-daughter.😳 And with Om, oh I think they are the best father-daughter pair ever,😳 never seen such a cute relationship anywhere. 😳Believe me, one of my absolute fav scenes of Kahaani, is one with Parvati and Shruti... that episode where Parvati annonces that she's gonna marry Suyash and the family taunts and insults her...😭 and Shruti comes to her mom's support and rips the family to shreds...👏👏👏 aw I don't know how much I love that scene...😃 wanted to give Shruti a BIG hug...🤗 and maybe that's why when she turned against Parvati that way, she turned me off totally. But yeah, if she asks for Parvati's forgiveness, I'm gonna be thrilled, waiting for that episode...😉and yes, I'm saying I hate Shruti... my hate is gonna last only till the day, Shruti does something nice for Parvati...😳 I can never hate anyone whose nice to Parvati...😳 good example is Adi, started liking him so much after seeing his respect for his mom and Janki...😳its unbelievable.😉 in fact, Shruti turning against Parvati coz of Om was one thing that really upset me yaar...😭 Om would have hated it the most,😭 but totally agree in a weird sense, it makes sense... 😉 As for Sameer,😡 really Shruti should dump him immediately, that's one step which will clear up her thinking immediately. 😃And yeah, what u say about Tulsi is true... no one can be that good and correct... she's one step short of being a Goddess... 😆agree with u, all the characters in Kahaani are multi dimensional and that's why the show rocks!!!👏 Just have this to say... Tina's super acting is making all of us go nuts yaar... 😉hey Tina come back soon, missing u, we wanna see a reconciliation scene soon!!!😃 Come back as Shruti, 😃apologise to Parvati and see how much more we love u then,😃 till then... I still hate Shruti, the character...needs to get a bit repentant!!!😉