Can somebody understand how much ROHIT IS GOING THROUGH !!!! - Page 3

Originally posted by: alvina

Hum hai Rohit ke saath

Baksh do bande ko

Abhi kuch ghante beete hain and his family is asking him to choose between sona and Raima

Bande ki duniya hil gayi aur Ghar waalo ko - a and b mein se choose karo ki padi hai

Exactly...

He needs space right now to think properly..

So many people saying so many different things.Like kis kis ko kya bole bichara😅..

Gusse n irritation mein bichara kuch b bol de rha hai.

Whatever you said is true and I had made a post about this earlier. He is suffering and is torn apart. But but but

What he did infront of the family was WRONG and nothing justifies it no matter what. He had no right to demean someone’s reputation in front of his family when in reality it was him and his needs that they had pretended. It was never Sonakshi’s idea or need to pretend. No suffering gave him the right to get her accused for the favour she did to get him out of that situation.

Originally posted by: sahisri

If u feel rohit character is abusive then they will be no change in upcoming too because he is the same person from starting....

What raima has to do in him alone not taking the blame of nautanki

Why u guys bringing Raina again and again in this

Some r demonising Rohit dad and some raima

This letting Sona get blamed is entirely Rohit decision and no one is there for him to be a scape goat for his cheapness

Originally posted by: sohit-mishbir

Ok.. So they are lot of debates about abusive relationships and all..

Abusive relationship is when one partner tries to harm the other mentally, emotionally and physically ... As in like controlling whom they meet, what they should talk what they should wear.. Not asking for the other's consent..... Telling mean things and making the other person feel unworthy about themselves...

I have read psychology , I don't hold a degree.. But I can give a clarity as to why rohit's behavior is like that..

Rohit is a doctor but at the same time he is turning into a patient.. Because he cannot openly express his emotions.. Nd when anyone is not able to openly express.. It gives mind all the burden and stress and the mind uses its own defence mechanisms to counteract it...

Moreover before sona entered his life... For 4 years he had formed a pattern of behaviour.. Going to hospital treating patients... Whenever he was free or say he was with himself his mind was always preoccupied by raima...

Then suddenly sona comes into the picture and all the pattern of behavior which was formed from 4 years starts to break all of a sudden... Which rohit's mind doesn't want to let go and his defence mechanism starts...

He shouts at her during the pooja's malfunction thing not because he didn't know her or didn't trust her.. It's because just before that he went to sona and put medicine when she was getting burnt... After he put the medicine he unconsciously is attracted towards her pain.. Again which was not accepted to his mind to like someone or to care for some other girl except for raima... So when the malfunction takes place.. He shouts at her tells her she is an actress that's why she can do this to get fame and all.. But all this he said in assurance to himself that he.. The rohit sippy cannot like an actress...

Finally when their friendship starts to grow... He starts to express.. And I don't know if u guys have noticed or not but... His every expression with sona is very raw.. Be it anger, love, frustration... All those emotions which were pent up for so many years starts to flow... Nd the only person who could bring out all those emotions was sona.....

In psychological counselling we tell.. Whenever the therapist tries to counsel the patient

There will be a stage where the patient attaches all those emotions of past with the therapist... Be it anger love, frustrations, sadness... Anything...

But this is a therapy and client relationship... Which can generally be bought in any relationship where one person wants to help the other one..

Like say mother daughter.. Mother son.. Literally anyone.. But that person needs to be head strong to deal with any thing the other one is telling...

In this case sona is head strong lady.. Who can let rohit rant to her anything because she understands all his pent up emotions.... (So their relationship is not abusive as rohit first has to get everything out from his mind and heart)

When rohit blames her for forgetting raima's birthday.. That is normal human tendency... Count the number of times we have blamed people in our life and not apologised to them... We do blame others because in our mind we can never go wrong... So this is also a defence mechanism...

Now when suddenly raima comes in... He is clear with all his emotions... He doesn't shout at sona or holds her responsible for raima's conditions... Cause now his mind is clear of all emotions...

The reason he discloses the fake drama is because he doesn't want to carry any burden of past to the future of his and sona.. He didn't kill his relationship with her but he actually feels the need to start a fresh his relationship with sona... Because before raima entered he somewhere compared her with raima.. Took out all his anger, rants, frustrations of raima on her... But now his mind is clear as to whom he actually loves... So he wants to start the relationship again by trustinf her from the beginning.... Standing by her side..

He not chiding his dad when he called sona cheap... Because he felt the one has gutter mind will continue to have tO so... Even if u give them thousands of explanations...

What matters to him the most right now is his and sona's relationship...

I cannot tell how the story further proceeds...

But till now all his impulsive behavior was because of those 4years of angst and pain... Mind u 4 years is really really long time...

I know the post is really big... But could not help to stop myself from expressing... When constantly people where questioning rohit and sona's stand for him...

Wow...

You explained it so perfectly 🙂

What perfect explanation ..Rohit might under go what ever he has to

But that does not give him right to demean a gal character who self lessly helped him

Raima and Naren not at all are scapegoats for Rohit cheap selfish behaviour ..don't blame them for Rohit sake

Yahaan pe log hamesha Rohit pe bill phadne baith jaate hai. Abhi ruko sonakshi ki poori sachahyi aane Do. Mein sona ki bhi band bajaunga .

If she indeed wasn't able to help raima cos of her mother's pressure, she is going to get it atleast from me big time . And that too a girl who helped her. And now also she is in no mood to get karan her ex fiance arrested.

Rohit did all this mostly as raima is critical. She cannot be under stress at all. So he said all this.

I believe he was very smart here.

Her thoughts reg sonakshi r confused right now. We have seen from the BTS that he comes to talk Nahi lekin Rohit ko thoda sa time bhi nahi milega.

To chalo. Ab jo logon ne Rohit ke khilaaf morcha nikala hai naa sonakshi ko defend naa karne kaa, hopefully koi chup nahi baithega jab saari sachayi baahar aaye .

Originally posted by: intruderfast

Yahaan pe log hamesha Rohit pe bill phadne baith jaate hai. Abhi ruko sonakshi ki poori sachahyi aane Do. Mein sona ki bhi band bajaunga .

If she indeed wasn't able to help raima cos of her mother's pressure, she is going to get it atleast from me big time . And that too a girl who helped her. And now also she is in no mood to get karan her ex fiance arrested.

Rohit did all this mostly as raima is critical. She cannot be under stress at all. So he said all this.

I believe he was very smart here.

Her thoughts reg sonakshi r confused right now. We have seen from the BTS that he comes to talk Nahi lekin Rohit ko thoda sa time bhi nahi milega.

To chalo. Ab jo logon ne Rohit ke khilaaf morcha nikala hai naa sonakshi ko defend naa karne kaa, hopefully koi chup nahi baithega jab saari sachayi baahar aaye .

Cool it man. Rohit will act all possessive and sprinkle some kisses, sonakshi will walk behind him and we forum folks will swoon.

This too shall pass

Originally posted by: VARUNI2014

What raima has to do in him alone not taking the blame of nautanki

Why u guys bringing Raina again and again in this

Some r demonising Rohit dad and some raima

This letting Sona get blamed is entirely Rohit decision and no one is there for him to be a scape goat for his cheapness

Did u see me saying something bad or ill about raima?? If not then dont pass judgements

Yes raima is the reason because he loved her and he failed her operation...when he moved on she came back....raima knows rohit as her lover ,she donno rohit moved on and she is a patient who just came from coma, how can he suddenly tell to her that I have moved on???

Who blamed Sanakshi??Naren ?? He is like this before too...

Originally posted by: intruderfast

Yahaan pe log hamesha Rohit pe bill phadne baith jaate hai. Abhi ruko sonakshi ki poori sachahyi aane Do. Mein sona ki bhi band bajaunga .

If she indeed wasn't able to help raima cos of her mother's pressure, she is going to get it atleast from me big time . And that too a girl who helped her. And now also she is in no mood to get karan her ex fiance arrested.

Rohit did all this mostly as raima is critical. She cannot be under stress at all. So he said all this.

I believe he was very smart here.

Her thoughts reg sonakshi r confused right now. We have seen from the BTS that he comes to talk Nahi lekin Rohit ko thoda sa time bhi nahi milega.

To chalo. Ab jo logon ne Rohit ke khilaaf morcha nikala hai naa sonakshi ko defend naa karne kaa, hopefully koi chup nahi baithega jab saari sachayi baahar aaye .

The level of rohit bashing making us to think like this....seriously some are rohit should back to raima,rohit dont deserve sona...so on...

Purpose of rohit should be either comic or for romance...

He as an individual character is not needed😷

Originally posted by: intruderfast

Yahaan pe log hamesha Rohit pe bill phadne baith jaate hai. Abhi ruko sonakshi ki poori sachahyi aane Do. Mein sona ki bhi band bajaunga .

If she indeed wasn't able to help raima cos of her mother's pressure, she is going to get it atleast from me big time . And that too a girl who helped her. And now also she is in no mood to get karan her ex fiance arrested.

Rohit did all this mostly as raima is critical. She cannot be under stress at all. So he said all this.

I believe he was very smart here.

Her thoughts reg sonakshi r confused right now. We have seen from the BTS that he comes to talk Nahi lekin Rohit ko thoda sa time bhi nahi milega.

To chalo. Ab jo logon ne Rohit ke khilaaf morcha nikala hai naa sonakshi ko defend naa karne kaa, hopefully koi chup nahi baithega jab saari sachayi baahar aaye .