Anubhav, GG and Garima - a short analysis

This is definitely not worth it. The writers will flip and write shit. I'm certain of it. However, I went through many posts of our dear forum members and thought to share mine.

I keep in mind that writers do not write taking into consideration the psychology and the emotional balance of characters, so again it's kinda a waste, but I did waste 4 months on this crap.

Garima - why is Garima caving again and again?

Simple, she was always weak and a doormat. Riddesh previously said that he brought Garima to his house. Riddesh was her support system, her pillar, her strength, the reason she could held her head high. Without Riddesh, Garima is a doormat, cannot take a firm stand. She would never be able to handle a completely broken GG. How could she? She can't handle herself, can't take her own decisions.

GG - I am appalled to see so many people thinking GG would not want to see Anubhav. Regardless of everything, she sees him as a comfort person, something she has herself said before. The person she trusts, still does, is Anubhav after her father and Bua. She cannot think of handling herself right now, how will she even think of getting away from Anubhav? She can hardly think clearly, still in shock and not even grieving properly, you'd think she would think of rights, wrongs or morals? Riddesh was her whole world, someone constant in her life, someone who loved her unconditionally and someone who never left her side even if she was badtameez, arrogant, didn't study or would party all night. She was pampered and lived in luxury, she was dependent completely on her father. It's too soon to expect something from GG.

Well, I admit she lost her sense in this sindoor crap, can't defend that shit.

Fact is GG never lived independently, she was emotionally dependent on her father. Riddesh never trusted GG's abilities to take care of herself, that is why he entrusted Anubhav to look after GG. Nobody can expect GG to be independent, angry at Anubhav just like that. Her world has been ripped apart, she no longer has her rock.

Anubhav, the bigamist.

He is an introvert, closed off, never really dwells or thinks about his emotions. He bottles everything up, gets hyper when GG is around him. He has a side which only GG is privy to.

Anubhav has never made any important decisions in his life by himself. Everything has been done by his elders. He cannot take a decision, he cannot take the responsibility of his actions. For so long, he has been in that family, who is so fake and high on sanskaar, who only care about customs and traditions, put a fake facade in front of the world of how good he is.

Anubhav was never really sanskaari, he has never made a decision for himself, has never took a stand for himself, for 30 years. It's conditioning he agrees to whatever his family said, it's a habit, it's their way of life, something normal. Despite being in such a huge family, he is lonely. He is miserable but nobody cares.

Don't ask me why he married GG then Akriti, I don't know, nobody can explain that shit of the writers.

Anubhav repeatedly tried to convince himself that Akriti is perfect for his family. He married her cos she was his family's choice, same like he was going to do for GG.

But he was always obsessed and far too gone in GG since the first time he met her. He is still obsessed with her, he liked their interactions and tessing her after some point. He genuinely thought himself as GG's husband regardless of contracts that they both signed to and agreed.

He thought moving from GG would be easy, but it's not. One call from Rony and he was angry, GG in trouble, he runs away from his own wedding, GG alone, he is there for her even though she never asks. GG might need Anubhav but she never said it, it's more of Anubhav's need to look after her, make sure she is alright and not hurt. He cannot leave her alone, irony is that he was the one who hurt her.

Now this sindoor shit shaadi makes Anubhav believes his right on GG, he can dominate her "rightfully", even though we all know that is illegal and not valid. He believes it cos it's the best way to be around GG and to justify himself.

He isn't interested in Rkc, especially not when he can't leave GG. He thought moving on would be easy, he always listened to the family, GG was just someone he always thought as unsuited and bad mannered. But he can't move on, he hasn't even tried to.

Can't justify or defend his bigamy. It's not even bigamy cos mandir shaadi isn't valid. Rkc's wedding can be annulled.

Both marriages are invalid.

But writes love sautan, wife and husband drama. They probably didn't think this far.

Best would be GG leaving Anu to deal with his mess which we know won't happen at all.

She was brought up by garima who is weekest person. Children lot learn from parents. So I hv no expectation on GG. All I can see another doormat in GG.

all of this is so on point 👌 & i agree with every word

Very concise analysis on Anubhav dear. 👍🏼

I agree with you 100% that our scientist babu isn't full of sanskar n all. Each time he does something, he needs to voice it out that 'my elders' taught me this, taught me that. What abt his own conception of sanskar? He has been taught things, rules of living, or should i say art of living, à la Kulshesthra's mode.

Though he has often shown that sanskar gayi tail lene, he embarasses his family by denying upfront to marry Gungun, refused to bend to bade papa's emo blackmail to a limit, back answered to many, misbehaved n was rude to Gungun in many instances n even goes to fists n punches with Ronnie.

This man, i tell you, is a warrior. Fighting sanskar drilled in him. 🤣

I think this week, the K family will get shock on shock from their laadla, starting with bade papa. The sanskari patriarch will be shown a mirror by Anubhav on just how ill suited their so called sanskar is when it comes to something called humanity.

Though i know its quite late, but finally Anubhav is using his grey matters n his upper brain. He is thinking critically abt the situation n the veils/misconceptions he had abt RKC are coming up front.

I think subconsciously Anu realizes what a horrible perSon RKC is!! She’s showing her true colours.

Wonder if ever the elders would see her for who she is.

He alwys knew it didnt he ? Ig even he knew she was faking taking care of him n his family wen they were distressed , he even taunted her fr same..his tone was more like a taunt. Sangeet function confirmed me that he did all this agreeing to rishta drama just to annoy n hurt gungun wch is v v sadsitic of him btw..the song n those ugly lines of akriti being perfect looking at gg made it clear akrti never meant anything to him.. I wonder if gf wasn't present in sangeet wa speech he was gonna tell ?

Originally posted by: Namita-M

I think subconsciously Anu realizes what a horrible perSon RKC is!! She’s showing her true colours.

Wonder if ever the elders would see her for who she is.

The K family (except Golu gang) are blindly in love with RKC. For them, she's perfect, n she makes sure to always put her best foot forward to win their trust n approval.

N the way things are shaping up, she'll uses them ruthlessly to 'control' Anubhav n tarnish Gungun's reputation.

Did u guys c one tweet yest where she posted ss of sitara twitter account some quote promting serial that to know how arranged marriages can be wrong for u watch ittefaq ? Was there any quote shared by any official account as i cldt find it

So do they wanna show how he was forced in a loveless marriage n he will suffer?

Originally posted by: Zainu621

He alwys knew it didnt he ? Ig even he knew she was faking taking care of him n his family wen they were distressed , he even taunted her fr same..his tone was more like a taunt. Sangeet function confirmed me that he did all this agreeing to rishta drama just to annoy n hurt gungun wch is v v sadsitic of him btw..the song n those ugly lines of akriti being perfect looking at gg made it clear akrti never meant anything to him.. I wonder if gf wasn't present in sangeet wa speech he was gonna tell ?

You know, I agree with you. If GG wasn’t there he wouldn’t have done all this drama. He was hurt, understandably but he’s crazy. Now he’s realizing that he’s in love with GG!!

His family always said Anu is sorted. 😆

He’s going to show ‘em all that in fact, he’s crazy 😆