STUPID …….STUPID…..APAALLING….DISGUSTING…..TRACK…🤢🤢🤢
How can one even justify this storyline anymore….except in this dirty, cynical world of showbiz anything is justified for TRPs…..🤢
I am sorry dear bhootnis…but I felt utterly disgusted and sick at yesterdays epi….🤢and would have been better to have avoided it…for various reasons
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And I have some strong words to say about
Shreya – 🤢I knew you would do anything in your desperation to up TRPs….but never imagined you could stoop so low….marital rape …sexual violence is the most deplorable experience in a womans life. Especially if it is a marriage…the mental, emotional and physical devastation and trauma a woman goes thru as a victim cannot be described in words….please watch…some of the shows…they have on the subject. Do visit the website of Domestic violence, and perhaps maybe your cocoony world can get a bit of the reality of the horrors of those victims….
Kaajjal – 😡😡
You were always immature, slowitted and impulsive. You were terribly nave ready to jump to conclusions, and believe anything blindly – whether the worst or best. There was no grey shades in your dream, fantasy world
But what made you special was your innocence, your lovely bubbly nature, the way your wore your heart on your sleeve, the way you were gutsy enough to stand up for what you believed was right. When you threw the resignation in devs face, we loved you(cause he insulted you and hurt your respect). When you gathered all mussoorie against an arrogant Dev it was admirable for he was acting out of turn. Or when you slapped him in the hotel after he misbehaved with you. When you learnt the truth, and tossed every caution to the winda as your only concern was his welfare, we supported and rooted your daring efforts.
But slowly you have been losing credibility. With Raju, one could forgive your daftness in jumping to conclusions about Dev/Raju as undoubtedly he had brainwashed you earlier to believe he was Raju. But somewhere down the line, you began to listen less to your heart and more to your non-existent brains. If you had listened to your heart like the kaajjal from mussoorie you wouldn't have done what you did and suffered as you did.
After receovering from ML you blindly accepted Aditya, his lies his inability to look for your family and then waited for his permission to marry Dev…you losy your credibility there.
You have been slowly becoming stupid, stupider, dumb, dumber….but after yesterdays display of shamelessness you have become worst than Ameesha's, malliskas and the vamps that dot the horizon of these stupid shows. 🤢
You have lost your respectability. A woman who loses her respect falls lower than the lowest. 🤢
A married woman cannot behave as you have. While your idea of expressing your love and passion to your husband was alright. But you could have done it in so many ways more aesthetic, respectable and acceptable.
Why couldn't you have hired a similar hall for Devs eyes only. Why couldn't you have danced for him, alright seduce him if you have to…he is your husband after all…but this …was deplorable…
Now if your husband kicks you out can you blame him. Have you lost your mind – Aditya is your ex-lover. ?He wanted to marry you – you stupid dimwit. How could you have moved your body, your eyes at him like that. Are you mad? You are lucky he didn't rape you. You will be very lucky if he doesn't morph your pictures and makes a dirty film out of it. Very lucky indeed. I feel sorry for your father, your family, your in laws…not too long ago they had to swallow the humiliation of your alleged affair with aditya, and the revealing photos…After such a shocking experience any woman even as stupid as you would have had the good sense of staying away from Aditya, but not Kaajjal madam. She thinks no end of her non existent intelligence. So good luck to you.
Go and Marry Aditya after all this mess is over, and see even if the stupid Ape will accept you?
Dev – Ahhh! Have you lost it completely, finally.
At first you were scared even to be with her and ran away in the opposite direction. You have seen pain, suffering as no one has, yet you were never weak not once. You were honourable and righteous even in the most adverse conditions – whether it was saving SPji or Kaajjal…despite her hate campaign against you. You always arose above the mediocre and stood by your high principles. You had too much respect for yourself and others even if it meant standing up to your family time and again for what you though was right.
You decided to boldly sacrifice your love and boldly decided to do the hotel charade so that she can hate you and marry Dhruv. Even when Dhruv became negative you just were filled with remorse. Such a soft and loving heart you had.
Even in the raju days, you were just concerende about kaju. You were so sensitive to her feelings that when she fell unconscious you carried her like a baby – so tender, so gentle.
That's the Dev we knew and loved. Yu were so afraid to touch erh even in the hospital when she was in coma. You stayed by her side without sleeping a wink. You loved her so much you couldn't even bear of burning her locket in the fire. The mere thought of fire singing her photograph even was unbearable to you.
You preferred to hurt yourself before you could hurt Kaju. You preferred to make her hate you than see her in pain.
Yet you went to the extremes of grief and hurt her more than anything after NT moms death She made a mistake and was ready to beg for forgiveness, but you were too far gone…just as you had a love-hate relationship with NT mom, you hurt Kaju beyond belief and to what. You hurt a lot more in the end when you learnt the truth. As soon as you did you were ready to forgive and ran to her. Did you expect it would be so easy? Maybe there was some naivety or ego there.
But during Adityas track, it seemed slowly something was changing. You were subdued, where was the spark, the fire ,the self respect. You were ready to take kaju back even if you though she was someone elses wife. I had begun having doubts about you then. Have the fears, hurts, pain and suffering finally taken a toil on you. Maybe you were becoming weak. The Old DPs would have never stayed back and accepted the dumb proposal of pretending to be her husband. The old Dev would have slapped her hard and demanded the truth. Haq tha uska.
But I still believed in you and rejoiced when you held your head high and finally walked away from her. In the end you agreed to an unconvincing patch up by Aditya. Who is Aditya. Why did you need Aditya to tell you Kaju is right for You. She was in two minds, why didn't you leave her to it then to sort it out in her head, and let her come to you than accept the second best. She should have come to you then, not you ready to accept her back so easily. She had to do it from her heart not being led like a puppet by Aditya.
So now no wonder, she is still a puppet in his hands. She takes you for granted. Wants to do a dumb video to wish you a happy birthday. She has become arrogant in case you haven't noticed. She has become selfish in case you haven't seen she spends more time on the mob with her boyfriend than you in the bedroom. She is more keen on satisfying her own whims and adis than your needs. She tells you what a mahaan act she did, by marrying you and accepting your faults. Where was your self respect man– dammit Dev. You should have slapped her hard or walked out of the room. Might have made her think.
You come back after 10 days barely after spending 24 hours with your bride. And she holds your hands like a stranger and thanks you formally for saving her from a catastrophe and humiliating press conference. She misused your offices for a stupid thing. Any other man would have kicked her out then. But you loved her, ready to believe her. But why didn't you let her tell you the whole story about shivansh. Why didn't you explain to her what she was doing was wrong. And how it maligned your name. So what if things deteriorated, it was important to have the truth out. You more than anyone else ought to know that. You are far more mature than Kaju. You have seen the world unlike your dumb foolish wife.
And after yesterday, I have lost respect for you too. How can you now justify, that you love Kaju at all. It has become an obsession. Obsession leads to only one thing – destruction. How could you have dropped so low as to forcing yourself on to her. In even in your darkest hour, you wouldn't have done it in the past. And now totting a gun, what are you trying to prove – how much you love her. That If she cant be yours she should be killed or attacked brutally. Then in that case SRK in Darr should have been the darling.he should have been hailed as the hero. He was an obsessed lover wasn't he.
If you think like that, then you are a fool my friend. No one thinks of murderers as heros and a jealous, obsessed lover as great. Othello still goes down in history as a weak man, no matter how passionately he loved Desdemona.
Jealousy and obsession destroyed greater men. And now you are walking on that path. Come back before it is too late. For your sake and some hope of this marriage I hope it was a dream.I just hope so, for your sake.
APu – 😳
A brilliant performance, yet again. No praises as enough for your sheer talent. A powerhouse of a emotional extravaganza only you are capable of. Your presence alone lends some life into this otherwise dead show. You always have and continue to give your heart to it though on occasions it felt you weren't there ang going thru the motions, not surprisingly as it was a dead role. It had lost its essence and you couldn't make it creditable anymore.
But Apu what have you agreed to. I am apaalled. Are you going to say that you are a professional and have to do anything they ask you to do, in name of performance. You are a senior actor.You can demand things.YOu know as well as the makers how much they need you to keep this show goin. You were in a position to make changes.
You are a role model for millions of girls and boys across the globe. They look up to you. They love you and want to become like you. What message are you sending out to these youngsters that it was justified what Dev did.
That if a wife cheats on her husband he can rape her and try to murder her.
Shreya are goners, but at least you were in a position to have suggested expressing your anger and grief differently. Dev could gone to madh house or kicked Kaju out when she returned. He could have done it so many ways. Not this. Not this. I am now slightly disillusioned after seeing you do this. I don't know what to say.
Surveen – 😳
I loved your innocent, dazzling smile, your wided eyed looks, your bubbliness. You were sexy, passionate and in love with kaajjal It showed in the first few months.
But what is this now – Kaajjal become into this stupid, brainless, shallow twit. How can you identify with her character anymore. It shows in your acting. Your heart isn't in it anymore. You are mechanical. Occassionally waking up now and then. How can you convince people this is the old Kaju from mussoorrie…thoudands of fans mostly youngsters would look up to you. Want to copy your hairstyle, your clothes, your style. What kind of message are you giving by this shameless dance. Or were you just making a video for your portfolio into films…Is that now what you all care about. Is kaajjal now only a showcase for your skills. Where is your heart gone. Where is the honesty I had glimpsed in you. I am disappointed in you too. What can I say.
And all my fellow bhootnis – I strongly believe that as women we must never accept something as degrading as marital rape. I work in a sector which deals with domestic violence and I have met some devastating cases in my line of work. Believe me it is very ugly. There is no passion in it. No woman can talk of It without a shudder. It is a criminal offence in the UK. It is very painful and the emotional damage can be far worse than anything. It takes years for the women to be normal again. Some go mad even.
Despite Apus sex appeal and powerhouse performance lets not accept this – no matter what it wasn't justifiable, not acceptable.
I know many will protest as right now we are revelling in his performance, maybe some of you may hate me for saying this.
But this is my beliefs...as a woman and i am proud of being one and saying what i did.
I plan to send this post to Kacon, and a few strong statements for her thick skin. Kektha has destroyed all relationships made a mockery of marriage, destroyed innocence.
Is kacon now selling her soul as well, i want to see.
Sammy
Kyunki Saas Bhi Kabhi Bahu Thi 2
