update 9th feb 2010: NUPTUAL preparations, +NEELAM

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Posted: 15 years ago
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Part 1

CM tells Pankaj that she'll be embarrassed if he didn't turn up for the engagement. Pankaj then agrees to be there. However, the sounds of Jyoti's anklets continued to distract him. 🤢

In her class, Jyoti continues teaching. Suddenly, Kalpana shows up, and Jyoti asks the students to keep practicing. Kalpana tells her that this reminds her of old times, and Jyoti agrees. She tells Kalpana about her meeting w/ Pankaj, and how she granted him the divorce. Kalpana is surprised, and asks whether he didn't say anything, but Jyoti tells her that both of them have moved on. She asks Kalpana what brought her here, and Kalpana tells her that due to her weight problems, she decided to join the dance class, particularly since Jyoti was now there.

The next scene introduces Pankaj's prospective fiancee' Neelam, who is sitting there, surrounded by jewelry cases. Her mom comes in and asks her why she isn't ready? Neelam tells her that she doesn't want to marry, and yet, she has to deck herself up? As it is, she got stood up by the younger brother, and now they are giving her away to the divorced and blind guy 👏(Good for you, Neelam!!! We were wondering how come you agreed to any of this?) Her mom tells her that it's a matter of honor, and that her father was very concerned about her, and he wasn't well either. If anything happened to him, Neelam would be responsible,😡😡 so to factor that into any decision she takes (like CM, emotional blackmail is her suit as well?) Neelam is shocked to hear this😲😲, as her mom tells her to get ready. 😡😡

Elsewhere, Padma is on the phone w/ Prabha on Deepu/Poonam's marriage plans. Prabha invites Padma to their place for tea to get acquainted and discuss preparations, while their kids are out jewelry shopping. Padma hands it to KK, who talks to her. She tells Sushma & Dadi to be well dressed, since they'll be going to Deepu's saas that evening. Both Dadi & Sushma are very enthusiastic.


In the Vashisth house, the engagement of Pankaj & Neelam is on. Gayatri puts on the bangles on Neelam, and gets flashbacks of when she did the same for Jyoti. Neelam too gives Gayatri a cold stare. In fact, while CM and Minal look happy, Sudha and Uday are just silently watching all this, while Neelam doesn't seem to enjoy it either. 😭😭 They exchange pleasantries, and CM says that since the engagement is complete, they should send Pankaj and Neelam out.

Part 2

Neelam's mom agrees, but Pankaj asks what's the necessity? Both Pankaj & Neelam get up and leave, and Neelam's mom asks CM whether the divorce would take time? CM tells her that Jyoti has signed it already, and that's what they'll show in court. Uday & Sudha are visibly sad, while CM asks Neelam's mom to prepare a date. She then looks coldly @ Sudha. 😡😡 (What does she expect - Sudha to smile while she watches all this?)

At the Trivedis, Padma, Dadi & Sushma are at their place for tea. Mahesh Trivedi suggests the 10th for the wedding, and asks them what they think? He suggests that they consult KK, who is not there due to some illness, but Dadi tells him that she'll agree on his behalf, and he won't override her. Sushma offers Prabha to help, but she declines, saying that as the groom's family, they shouldn't be doing this. She then offers them a tour of the house. She shows them Poonam's room, which is very well furnished and decorated. They are all impressed. Prabha tells them that Poonam's dad is the one who's spoiling her w/ all those amenities, such as an AC, a TV in the bedroom, et al.

Elsewhere, Deepu is taking Poonam out on Jyoti's scooter. She tells him that she asked her father for a 2 wheeler on several occasions, but he was afraid, and while he gave her the keys to the car, he'd not allow a 2 wheeler. She tells him that she's really enjoying this, and Deepu asks her - is it the scooter ride, or him? He tells her to hold on tight, or she'll fall 😆😆 They stop @ a pani-puri stall, and Poonam tells him that her dad doesn't let her eat things from the road, so Deepu offers to go straight to the restaurant. Poonam however tells him that she wants to eat there, and that her dad won't mind since Sandeep has taken her there, so he agrees. As he takes the plate, she takes hold of it as well, and they share some romantic moments w/ the pani-puris.
🤓❤️

Elsewhere, Kalpana asks Jyoti where her scooter is, and Jyoti tells her that she's sent Deepu out on a date w/ it. Kalpana asks her to go to the adda place where they used to go after dance rehearsals. Jyoti hesitates, but Kalpana insists. She agrees, and they go there, reminiscing about old times. Jyoti insists on splitting the bill this time. They go in, and happen to select a place that's just back to back to Pankaj & Neelam. 🤢🤢🤢

Part 3

Kalpana orders a coffee, and Jyoti a Nimbu-pani. Kalpana remembers that due to her pregnancy, Jyoti doesn't want coffee. Jyoti also instructs the waiter not to make it sweet nor include ice, but just plain. Pankaj, who's sitting back towards her on the other side of the screen, overhears her. Neelam, while browsing the menu, notices that he is not happy. A waiter arrives and asks them if they want anything, and Pankaj declines. This instruction Jyoti overhears. Her mood changes, and Kalpana asks her whether she is okay?

Suddenly, Pankaj's spoon accidentally falls, and as he reaches for it, Jyoti pushes it towards him. She is now lost in thought about Pankaj, while her nimbu-pani arrives. However, since both Jyoti & Pankaj are aware of each other's presence, neither is in the mood to eat. So both sides pay their respective bills and get up simultaneously. As Pankaj takes a step forward from his table, he misses the step and is about to fall, but Jyoti stops him from falling just in time. They stand still w/o saying a word to each other. 🤢 (As Don Henley would say, Get over it!!!)

Precap

At home, Jyoti gets a call, and answers it. It's Pankaj, but he doesn't say anything - all he's doing is calling her to hear the sound of her voice. (Geez, what a loser, after all that rhetoric about moving on)

Comments

First things first - Pankaj is acting like a real loser, who can't live w/ the consequences of his own decision. After demanding and fast-tracking his divorce, he now finds himself unable to move on, and not enjoying the engagement ceremony or anything.


I thought that Uday & Sudha should have asked to be excused from this engagement function, and gone off on their own date. After all, Neelam and Uday have that history, and Uday doesn't at all support this wedding. So why put on that facade? This wedding will happen despite their not liking it, so why force them to be there, and then have CM glare @ Sudha for not looking happy?


First comments on Neelam - I like her, and contrary to what the previous episodes seem to show, she has a mind of her own. She rightly resents being asked to marry the blind divorcee bro of the guy who stood her up. And her mom doesn't have her interests @ heart at all - she has to marry this guy just so that her dad stops worrying? 😡😡 How about the possiblity that she's marrying a guy who doesn't love her, and who she can't love due to the existing baggage? No parent would force their son to marry Jyoti or Sushma, even if they weren't pregnant, but here, Neelam has to marry Pankaj. I feel for Neelam, but where I used to sympathize w/ her family, those sympathies are now gone. And as for Pankaj, unlike Jyoti who looked past the fact that he's blind, Neelam won't, despite this 'izzat' hang-up that her family has. 👏👏👏 (Her family would have done so much better in having her get to know Deepu, but now, I'm rooting for Poonam there)

I liked Poonam's family, by contrast. Not only were they friendly, but they even brought out the warmth in Padma, of all people: hopefully, she'll love Poonam as much as Sushma. Also, this ain't a lower-middle class family like the Sharmas - they seem reasonably well to do, and yet had no hang-ups about the Sharmas (unlike CM). I just hope that Poonam doesn't get too disappointed when she moves into her sasural, despite her dad having pampered her to date. Also, the date scene b/w Deepu & Poonam was sweet - I hope they show a few more of those b4 the wedding.

I just wish the CV's would lose this lame 'co-incidence' of Pankaj & Jyoti being @ the same place @ the same time, and as a result, both their meals being spoilt. Why can't Pankaj take Neelam out to a place that is not near Jyoti's dance class? Aside from that, it was good.

Exit question: Anybody willing to bet that Sandeep & Pankaj will share the same wedding day on the 10th, and some people would be expected to be present at both?

Episode rating: 👍🏼
👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼 One of the best episodes recently!!! Can't say I liked the co-incidence of Pankaj & Jyoti in the same place @ the same time, but the rest of it was good. Hightlight - Deepu & Poonam's romance!!!
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Great summary as usual, Vrisha. However, I think you missed a very important piece of dialogue:

The interaction between Neelam and her mom:
Neelam asks why is she being put in this situation and forced to marry a blind divorcee?
Her mom responds, remember you are yourself to blame for it. If you had never broken the "maryada" of our home, it would never have come to this. Apparently her dad is also ill because of her past behavior.

Wow! So now the story on Keshavji makes a LOT of sense. Here's a girl who had probably been immature like Sushma- had a stupid affair, perhaps an abortion, God knows what. And Keshavji, using his influence as the "son-in-law's father" and applying intense pressure to CM first wanted to help his friend (Neelam's dad) out by getting Neelam married quickly to Uday. THEN he made up a story that she can't get married because of a broken engagement with Uday, and therefore she HAS to get married to Pankaj. Seemed pretty unbelievable then, given that the engagement hadn't even taken place- to marry off your daughter to a blind divorcee.

Now it makes a LOT of sense. Here's a girl who because of her history and past mistakes has screwed up her chances of marriage royally. What better "out" for the girl's parents than to find a reasonably nice and well-to-do household for her, irrespective of Pankaj's impairment?



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Posted: 15 years ago
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Thanks for the amazing update as usual Vrisha!
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Posted: 15 years ago
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My only wish for Pankaj wedding is that Neelam give the whole family hell especially CM and her loser daughter cause that's what they deserve.


Thanks for the update.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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yea... CM needs to be kept on her toes by neelam..then CM will realise how wonderful jyoti was! and i hate minal! especially the way she calls CM..'mamma'.... something about that irks me
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Thank you very much
awesome detail update as usual.
I'll watch coz your views good for epi.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Thank you Vrisha for your splendid update as usual I enjoyed it very much your ability in writing and analyzing the incidents are wonderful by the way at one point I am not agree with you because I enjoyed the co-incident of Pankaj and Jyoti at the same place same time is very interesting for me I cant see this episode because I am a Middle East Viewer and in My country because of Internet Problems I cant see it but I like your updateds it seems to me that I can see the episode through your explantions and writings .I hope CM be punished for what i\s doing this to Jyoti and Pankaj just for her ladla daughter Minal . Thanks again

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good epi
even better are ur comments!!!
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Thank you for the lovely upate..
I second you on that Pyar Ishk....
I hope Neelam will make CM dance in her tune and make her life hell then only she and pankaj and other miniacs will understand Jyoti....
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: mythily

Great summary as usual, Vrisha. However, I think you missed a very important piece of dialogue:

The interaction between Neelam and her mom:
Neelam asks why is she being put in this situation and forced to marry a blind divorcee?
Her mom responds, remember you are yourself to blame for it. If you had never broken the "maryada" of our home, it would never have come to this. Apparently her dad is also ill because of her past behavior.

Wow! So now the story on Keshavji makes a LOT of sense. Here's a girl who had probably been immature like Sushma- had a stupid affair, perhaps an abortion, God knows what. And Keshavji, using his influence as the "son-in-law's father" and applying intense pressure to CM first wanted to help his friend (Neelam's dad) out by getting Neelam married quickly to Uday. THEN he made up a story that she can't get married because of a broken engagement with Uday, and therefore she HAS to get married to Pankaj. Seemed pretty unbelievable then, given that the engagement hadn't even taken place- to marry off your daughter to a blind divorcee.

Now it makes a LOT of sense. Here's a girl who because of her history and past mistakes has screwed up her chances of marriage royally. What better "out" for the girl's parents than to find a reasonably nice and well-to-do household for her, irrespective of Pankaj's impairment?



mythily
Thanks for the correction, as well as the compliments.
Actually, reading it, I wasn't sure what Neelam's mom was referring to - Kesav-j had told CM that the reason Neelam couldn't marry was that people thought that Uday had discovered a fault in her that caused him to back out at the last moment. If you recall, in the episode where Uday & Sudha are brought back home by Jyoti, one of the ladies - maybe the mom (who seems to have changed here, as has the rest of the family members) worried that Neelam would be spurned by other grooms, while another of her relatives re-assured her that nobody would blame Neelam for Uday walking out on her. Yet, that's what seemed to have happened, if Kesav-ji's account is anything to go by.
Now, when Neelam's mom tells her that she's violated the maryada, she could be meaning it in 2 ways. One is that since Uday stood her up, she stood defiled in public. Now I know this is twisted, but it's no different from the entire public thinking that Jyoti is a tramp: just as Padma thinks like that. The other possible meaning is what you suggest - that she had actually done something known only to people in Kota, which is why she is spurned at large.
This then brings up the question on whether the Kota family deceived Kesav-ji as well in order to work Neelam's way into the Vashisth family (incidentally, why didn't they then ask for Pratik, in whose case no wedding would have been broken), or whether Kesav-ji was in on it himself. After all, looking @ it from CM's POV. The reason she agreed originally to Jyoti marrying Pankaj was that she wasn't sure that any girl would accept Pankaj as a hubby due to his blindness, unless enticed by the family fortune, but she wouldn't allow such a girl for Uday. That's why she wanted an aristocratic girl for him, and gave him hell for wanting Sudha. Now, if it turns out that she was being given a vamp even for her perfectly normal son, then her dear sandhan-ji was really out to exploit the family, using Minal's well being as a tool.
I still don't know what to think of Neelam - my views on her are still positive so far based on the story so far, but that could change. I've read all the above posters who wish her to give her entire family hell. But this brings up 2 questions - if she does, why would CM tolerate it any more than she would have had Jyoti been the one doing it? Also, if Neelam gives the entire family hell, wouldn't she get to torment Sudha as well, since Sudha would be her only devrani in the house so far?
But yeah, if she does show her sasural an attitude and they can't do much due to Kesav-ji's influence, then the time will quickly come when they'll want Jyoti back. I doubt they'll get her back though. I do hope the theory about her death turns out to be unfounded, but if Jyoti does come back, I do hope that it's done on condition that CM and Minal be expelled from the family.
One more thing - since Mahesh Trivedi mentions 10th as a date for the wedding, does that mean that the Sannam wedding happens today?
Edited by Vrisha - 15 years ago

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