Jodha Akbar 10th April 2015 ... Post on Jodha-Salim Updated on Pg-1.. - Page 3

Originally posted by: ghalibmirza

diksha i m agreeing on someone's statement that cvz 4 bottle vodka peekar history ka NR likhne baithe hain😆

Originally posted by: sweet_diksha

joke of today... Akbar considers Shah e Iran responsible for this mess... but the biggest traitor in his own family , Ruku , she is his Jaan 😡

Originally posted by: akdhaalways

Actually jalal himself lacked a proper father figure in his life, his own father was hardly there with him, he was brought up by bairam khan who was very very strict and Mahamanga who was very calculative and political. Jalal though later went against bairam khan, he never said he disliked bairam khan's upbringing of him, before leap he told jodha that even he somrtimes felt angry towards bairam at childhood but when he grew up he understood it was for his benefit only that bairam was strict with him, and he knows salim will also understand. And thats where jalal went wrong, he felt his son is like him only, salim is his oldest son, granted after so many prayers, and Salim chisti told JALAL salim will be a great king like him,. so jalal from salim's childhood started making him more of a future emperor than a loving son, and here he felt he should do the things bairam did with him, be strict and firm, because jalal has always showed that he respects bairam a lot, and feels baira,m is the one to be credited for him being the empeor, he even said he loves and respects bairam more than his own father.Jalal felt with examinations after examinations takn, salim will come across as a strong individual.I think he never really thought there are other aspects of beinfg a father because he himslef never got to experience that, sometimes people who face a tough childhood, wants their sons to become extra hard so that if they face difficulty they will come untouched.And now ,the problem is that salim is utterly disrespectful, so when jalal goes to talk with him, salim says something horrible, jalal loses temper, and things get messed up more and more, jalal should learn to think like a father, something he maybe never got from bairam khan himself

Originally posted by: -aady-

So sorry for bringing in Previous discussion here. Just thought it will be easier for accessing it. Sorry Abhay. 😆


Exactly my point. Jalal's stern upbringing played an important role in the huge empire that he was able to set up, and he felt that like he got past his stern upbringing so would Salim. But that did not happen because Salim is more of the romantic kind. See that's the thing even after Salim left Jalal told Jodha, that he might be angry with me now, but later on he will realize that I dod this for his betterment. Some people are the Kind who learn from experiences like Jalal, but some can be like Salim and take into account only emotions, and instead of learning he preferred in wallowing in self pity.

For Jalal the monarch, being a good father means making your son strong enough to face any situation that comes his way, however harsh the situations he has to be put in. But that ideology does not and will not work on Salim. So unless Jalal realizes that he has to adapt accordingly, the problems will never stop. Its going to be this continuous cycle of Salim rebelling-Jalal yelling- Problems increasing. He will have to change his approach in such a way, where he is able to train Salim and keep the guy's ego intact.