Nice post kushi ...
But i wonder if there was ever a jalal's mom or for that matter if there was ever a mom in her... she for sure she loved the concept of being jalal's mom..
Adham could never meet up her high standards of how a son should be a("A class apart from others) Jalal was always an envision of how a son should be for her and that's y the extra guilt she carried till to date that she loved ja;al more " Bari ammi" is a Status Symbol for her a matter of highest pride ... and till the date when jalal fits her envision ,she was controlling adham and the day she realized jalal is slowly changing and not completely fitting her bill ,she immediatedly wanted adham to take that place ...
and when all is lost instead of feeling remorse she is still blaming the shenshah for all that and now wants to meet the son jalal ... so for me she is one of those people who would never understand what love is and without love how could she be a mom ever?