does jodha love jalal enough? - Page 6

Originally posted by: Rashmi81

The credit goes to Sindhu.Because of her faith in Akdha,I am seeing all that .She is my inspiration

Thanks for always liking my posts.

Originally posted by: PadBear

Rashmi I don't know if we are trying too hard to see haathon mein haath fitting perfectly kinda love-shove. 😆 I thought we are non romantics ... jusss kidding.

I agree about this Khyb and Jo in the hut thing being a non-issue. Jallu-Atifa thing is meant to be steamy but I cringed at the clumsiness of it as did many.

Originally posted by: Rashmi81

Mandy ,

If Jodha never loved Jalal ,then she wouldn't have waited for him.She wouldn't have hoped for him to come ,though previous day he had declared he doesn't love her anymore.

And Mandy I shouldn't say this but from yest,I read a comment from you that she "slept " with paraya mard .What meaning it has I don't know .But dear if she was so low virtue then Jalal wouldn't have loved her madly .She would be among those girls who seek his attention.

Why he loves her ,is she is different.That lap love of which we all make fun of including me too but he still does it you know why ,in her lap he finds those missed days of childhood when his mother wasn't there for him.Though Maham was there and she loved him but we all know what the reasons were behind this.

Have you seen he sleeping on Ruku's lap? You may say that Jo is like mother to him.Then Mandy ,wife does take the role of mother later on in husband's life and when the husband finds one in his wife then she has def become his most closest one for him.Now this whole scenario has nothing to do with physical relations of husband and wife.

And she had no choice to make KZ sleep there as he was not letting her go alone.You saw it,He even took her dupatta and slept.You saw that when she opposes him ,he became aggressive.And his aggression is dangerous for her safety too.

When she was drowning she said "Shehenshah " .when we are in trouble ,we take that persons name whom we love the most.Mostly you see kids when they fall down they say "Mumma" .Even we too say that .Because we love our Mom.In Jodha's life ,Shehenshah has taken a place much ahead of Mainavati and Bharmal too.

He is her everything but if he isn't there then there is nothing not her life too.Just look at their famous handholds .Her hand fits in his hand as if it was made for his hand only.

Originally posted by: SindhuMenon

I will not say a person who has a temper cannot love. What I was pointing to was how u compared it with Ruks hukkah wala scene..Can agree with temper etc, but to go to an extent that he feels his wife is not good enough for his love etc, telling his wife that he has a relation ship with a married lady, can we say this is out of concern. I agree he is faking it but as of now it is only for us viewers not for his wife...

again that said I am mad at Jodha as well.

Originally posted by: divyavm

Mandy, thought provoking post indeed ...

Can love only happen between perfect individuals? No ... because no one is perfect.

Hence, I feel two points are confused often ... the faults of the individuals and whether they love each other.

You know I am one of the people who finds the most fault with Jodha ... but all being said that is separate from her love for Jalal. As Jodha-Jalal do not have to be perfect to love each other.

Jalal has impulsive anger ... this is not a Jodha specific thing. We cheered him when he yelled at a "pregnant" Ruq's for smoking hukkah out of concern for her ... but now his anger means he has no love for Jodha? Absolutely not. Anger is a character trait, love is beyond character traits.

Similarly my issue with Jodha is she always has a different set of standards for Jalal vs. the rest of the world. She will trust SD's intentions to save him ... but distrust Jalal's intentions in Amer even after he saves her sister's wedding. But, Jalal likes her for this ... the fact that she is so hard to please in a world ready to please him.

As Lashy always said , "Jalal is the most selfless when it comes to Jodha, and Jodha the most selfish when it comes to Jalal." But, they love each other for exactly that reason and there is nothing we can do about it.

The most telling moment- yesterday when Maan Singh talked to Jalal about Jodha Buasa's troublesome helping habit ... the smile when he said "Hum jaante hai Maan Singh" said it all. He loves her for exactly who she is.

For sure, the CVs do injustice to Jodha as she does not express her love for Jalal openly ... for that they won't do any 21st century natkiya rupantar 😆 But, the fact that the love she had given up on supposedly was the one she called out to in the river ...said it all.

So, I agree completely with your analysis of Jalal's strengths and Jodha's mistakes ... but they love each other exactly for who they are.

Originally posted by: Rashmi81

Paddy I am really non romantic.But It was for the Akdha believer Sindhu.

Originally posted by: Rashmi81

Mandy ,

If Jodha never loved Jalal ,then she wouldn't have waited for him.She wouldn't have hoped for him to come ,though previous day he had declared he doesn't love her anymore.

And Mandy I shouldn't say this but from yest,I read a comment from you that she "slept " with paraya mard .What meaning it has I don't know .But dear if she was so low virtue then Jalal wouldn't have loved her madly .She would be among those girls who seek his attention.

Why he loves her ,is she is different.That lap love of which we all make fun of including me too but he still does it you know why ,in her lap he finds those missed days of childhood when his mother wasn't there for him.Though Maham was there and she loved him but we all know what the reasons were behind this.

Have you seen he sleeping on Ruku's lap? You may say that Jo is like mother to him.Then Mandy ,wife does take the role of mother later on in husband's life and when the husband finds one in his wife then she has def become his most closest one for him.Now this whole scenario has nothing to do with physical relations of husband and wife.

And she had no choice to make KZ sleep there as he was not letting her go alone.You saw it,He even took her dupatta and slept.You saw that when she opposes him ,he became aggressive.And his aggression is dangerous for her safety too.

When she was drowning she said "Shehenshah " .when we are in trouble ,we take that persons name whom we love the most.Mostly you see kids when they fall down they say "Mumma" .Even we too say that .Because we love our Mom.In Jodha's life ,Shehenshah has taken a place much ahead of Mainavati and Bharmal too.

He is her everything but if he isn't there then there is nothing not her life too.Just look at their famous handholds .Her hand fits in his hand as if it was made for his hand only.

Originally posted by: mishtidoi

I love their hand hold..though now it has become mutual...I loved earlier ones dearly it started with marriage wala hand holding

Originally posted by: Rashmi81

Paddy I am really non romantic.But It was for the Akdha believer Sindhu.

Originally posted by: mandyg

rashmi, i honestly did not like the hut scene and i blame cvz for showing such a disgrace to such an honorable real character..and even worst was when jalal had to see hi wife's clothes hanging in the hut and then people telling him that they both slept in the same hut..but hats off to jalal who still had the faith in her..imagine if jodha had a husband like shariffu,,he would have killed jodha and khybu on the spot!