Originally posted by: cosmosandme
it tastes good, especially when you are hungry and have nothing else to eat 😆
i am not going until 150 pages are done. 😃
u can write right now if u r not tired. ⭐️
Hmmm today jigi on fire ehh ...??😉😆
Okay it was in the year 2008 when I was working in pune ... my maasi also stays in pune , my in-laws are my maasi's neighbor !! so I used to visit my maasi (mom's cousin) very often during weekends ... but I never saw my future husband 😆 though he was my maasi's neighbor !!! so one day my maasi got to know that my in- laws are looking for a bride for their 2nd son that is my hubby 😃 !!! then my maasi thought of me & spoke to my mom to send my kundali to her ... so the kundali was sent & matched ... it matched with perfect 36 -36 !!! so my mom & aunt were happy ...
The next session was to trap me to see this guy 😡, becoz i was very much adamant in seeing any guy as it is I had just finished my masters & was doing job !! so my mom arrived one sudden day & told my brother i,e my maasi's son is celebrating his birthday so we need to go their & I was like okay (P.s - my aunts son is mentally unstable so ) when we arrived at my maasi's home on saturday morning & after an hour these two ladies tell me that evening 4' O clock this one family is coming to see me ... 🤢 & I was shocked ... later it stuck me that their was no birthday n all it was a trap 😡 ... Okay then I carried my crying session 😭 for 3 hours ... mom & aunt were like we are not asking u to jump in fire ... itz just a guy is coming to see u & its not necessary to say yes to him ... Okay so they consoled me ...
Then the famlily arrived ... blah blah talks were going on ... & i was least interested in what they were talking ... i had not even bothered to look at the guy ... then they sent us in the room to talk privately & i was like what the 😡 ... cannot retort, so I went inside ... this guys started introducing himself , his likes , dislikes & i was least bothered what he likes or dislikes ... one moment I felt like slapping him & asking him to shut his mouth ... I was so irritated ... felt like running away at that moment ... 😆 poor fellow then noticed I am not talking & then he saw my red swollen eyes & asked was i crying ... i didnt answer ... then he got up & went outside !! phew sigh of relief !!😆
Then the family left ... I told mom .. i am not interested ... she was like okay !! & then after few days their answers came as YES ... the boy like your girl 😕 ... & all happy & shocked at my home 😡 ... I was in coma 🤢😆 becoz I thought he will reject me as I did not utter a single word 🤣 ... okay i resumed back from coma ... then also I said if the guys is interested I am not interested ... so my answer was conveyed to them ... but this guy was adamant in accepting this ... he stuck to it & said I will marry this girl & will not see any bodyelse & that was his final decision 😡 !!! again me in shock ... as to why this guy is not accepting my answer ...
later this yes no continued for a year ... I stopped visiting my maasi ... & then one day my maasi was too much troubled by my in-laws & other neighbors to convince me ... so she literally begged me to come & see the guy once again ... okay I pitied my maasi's state & went to meet him for the second time ... out of obligation !! then we went in a temple ... their again I told him i am not interested in marrying .. n he was like wat is stopping you ... I said i just dont have the mindset to marry right now , & he was like okay I can wait till u make up your mind & I was like no 😡 I dont like you & I dont want to marry you ... poor guy was shocked by my outburst 😆 ... & then even he bursted out as to why did I come to meet him for the second time ... & I was blackmailed by my maasi & mom to not to let him knw that why I came to meet him for the 2nd time ... so I kept quite ... & he was like ... you do whatever you want ... but I will marry you only & I knw you will say yes to me one day ...😲 & me shocked 😕 ...
again later 3 months , I was forced to meet him ... then we went to CCD !! I tried to convince him that plz see some other girl as I am not interested ... n he was still adamant 😡 ... I told him I have rejected u 3 times ... dont u have self respect ... & he was like when a person is in love ... self respect & ego doesn't matter ...😲 ... me again shocked 🤢 ... I was like how can u love me ... we dont knw each other ... 😡 ... n he was like i fell for you when I saw your photo ... & me shocked 😲 ... I told him do whatever u want I will not marry you 😡 & he was like ... you do whatever you want but I will marry you only 😡 ... arrgghh ... this guy was really irritating me 😭 I left from that place with full anger 😆
then after 2 years ... one day I had a terrible accident & was being admitted in the hospital ...so in a semi conscious state I was blabbering that "say yes to that guy" so my friends were all shocked as to whom I am referring ... next day morning my mom arrived to hospital ... & still I was blabbering the same thing "Say yes to the guy" (P.s - I dont even remember , what I was blabbering ...but my friends & mom said that in semi- conscious state I said yes to this guy... ) so mom was so happy that she called them up & said my daughter has said yes to your son ...😲 ... dont ask ... it was like diwali ... all were happy & he (my hubby) was in the office when he was informed about this ... & about my accident ... when I came back to senses what I see is this GUY & his whole family in the hospital 😲 ... all smiling & saying congratulations you have taken good decision ..blah blah blah ... & my reaction was 😕 what the 🤬 ... when did I say yes to HIM ...??? 😲
Then I told mom that I want to speak to her alone ... then I blasted mom ... what is all this nonsense 😡 ... mom in a shocked state told .. that I said yes to this guy ... 😕 ... & I was like when did I say yes to HIM ...??? I never said yes to him you are lying 😡 ... mom was like plz dont create any scene ... it was you who said yes & we conveyed ur message to them ... now better get married to him as he has waited for 2 years ... & I was emotionally blackmailed by mom ...i felt terrible at that time ...felt like just running away from all of them ... but for the sake of my mom , family, society & maasi I said okay I shall marry him ... I played a gamble !!
My hubby listened to all our talks ... frankly speaking he wasnt surprised ...!! then he came inside & gave a winning smile to me ... which irritated me 😡 ... & then he said to me that one day you will love me & I shall make sure you do 🤢 ... !!! hmmm i was like okay ... let us see ... !! like this we got married 😡 ... & first year of marriage I made his life a hell 🤣 ... becoz I used to only fight with him ...😆 ... second year was better ... third year good ... & this is our fourth year 🥳
Edited by varshaakulkarni - 11 years ago
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