First half bad but second half makes up! - Page 11

Originally posted by: sweet_diksha

Mansi, Maddy, think in ruku's point of view... why i said Jo has come btw her and Jalal... coz till the time Jalal started falling for Jo, he has even other women in his life... but that women had no faces , for him they were just women bodies, to satisfy his lust... and this was ok for Ruku, coz the moment his needs r satisfied, Jalal would leave those women's bed and return back to Ruku...

her position in his life was intact... but since Jodha came, or Jalal started falling for her, Jalal has stopped going to Ruku... just like those faceless women, Ruku also has become one more for him... Jo is the one with whome he is sharing his entire night , not ditching her like those other women... rather he has started avoiding Ruku...

not wrong of her when she gets the feeling of losing him, and so gets insecure...coz till Jo came, even Jalal was ok with what he got...

in Ruku's POV, it's Jo who has come btw a good relationship of her and Jalal...

and when Jo has problem in sharing her husband with his first wife, how can we blame ruku for same problem?

Originally posted by: sweet_diksha

Mansi, Maddy, think in ruku's point of view... why i said Jo has come btw her and Jalal... coz till the time Jalal started falling for Jo, he has even other women in his life... but that women had no faces , for him they were just women bodies, to satisfy his lust... and this was ok for Ruku, coz the moment his needs r satisfied, Jalal would leave those women's bed and return back to Ruku...

her position in his life was intact... but since Jodha came, or Jalal started falling for her, Jalal has stopped going to Ruku... just like those faceless women, Ruku also has become one more for him... Jo is the one with whome he is sharing his entire night , not ditching her like those other women... rather he has started avoiding Ruku...

not wrong of her when she gets the feeling of losing him, and so gets insecure...coz till Jo came, even Jalal was ok with what he got...

in Ruku's POV, it's Jo who has come btw a good relationship of her and Jalal...

and when Jo has problem in sharing her husband with his first wife, how can we blame ruku for same problem?

Originally posted by: sweet_diksha

Mansi, Maddy, think in ruku's point of view... why i said Jo has come btw her and Jalal... coz till the time Jalal started falling for Jo, he has even other women in his life... but that women had no faces , for him they were just women bodies, to satisfy his lust... and this was ok for Ruku, coz the moment his needs r satisfied, Jalal would leave those women's bed and return back to Ruku...

her position in his life was intact... but since Jodha came, or Jalal started falling for her, Jalal has stopped going to Ruku... just like those faceless women, Ruku also has become one more for him... Jo is the one with whome he is sharing his entire night , not ditching her like those other women... rather he has started avoiding Ruku...

not wrong of her when she gets the feeling of losing him, and so gets insecure...coz till Jo came, even Jalal was ok with what he got...

in Ruku's POV, it's Jo who has come btw a good relationship of her and Jalal...

and when Jo has problem in sharing her husband with his first wife, how can we blame ruku for same problem?

Originally posted by: skanda12

No matter how difficult and complicated his situation there is something called natural justice and if you pput up with glaring injustice it isnt fair to all the people around you, I guess!

Originally posted by: sweet_diksha

Mansi, Maddy, think in ruku's point of view... why i said Jo has come btw her and Jalal... coz till the time Jalal started falling for Jo, he has even other women in his life... but that women had no faces , for him they were just women bodies, to satisfy his lust... and this was ok for Ruku, coz the moment his needs r satisfied, Jalal would leave those women's bed and return back to Ruku...

her position in his life was intact... but since Jodha came, or Jalal started falling for her, Jalal has stopped going to Ruku... just like those faceless women, Ruku also has become one more for him... Jo is the one with whome he is sharing his entire night , not ditching her like those other women... rather he has started avoiding Ruku...

not wrong of her when she gets the feeling of losing him, and so gets insecure...coz till Jo came, even Jalal was ok with what he got...

in Ruku's POV, it's Jo who has come btw a good relationship of her and Jalal...

and when Jo has problem in sharing her husband with his first wife, how can we blame ruku for same problem?

Originally posted by: selvi1275

Second - Ruk goaded him to marry Ben and after Ben truth came out Jalal looked like a fool for almost marrying the one who was there to kill him. Not just saving his life Jodha also saved his honor. Jalal did not even by a word let Ruk feel she was wrong and her pressure almost got him killed. In fact Jalal gave Ruk a gift!

I till date never understood why Ruqs was given a gift...

Originally posted by: abhi786

Diksha I agree with you that's why Ruku didn't bother of JO till the vishpan, after that she saw Jalaal more drawn to her, not only physically but also emotionally getting attached to her..

Ruqu taught that after JO rejected coming to agra with Jalaal, she was happy now she will get her Jalaal back, but Jalaal still started to spend the night in JO Hojra alone instead of her ?

Her anger, jealous has been increased a lot & with JO coming back all praising her & ignoring her while Jallu eyes looking at her & longing for her only...I remember the scene where beginning episode Jallu eyes first look for Ruqu even though he has haram full of women & those women get ready and wait for his glimses..

I think more that love Ruqu craves for that attention & praises that she still holds Jalaal none can beat her, while now Jallu eyes are search for JO, she is feeling defeated to JO, so is jealous & anger that now she holds Jalaal's attention & became his khas more than her...

I can understand her insecurity, hurt ,hatred for the other women (JO) who snached her friend & hubby and now holding the power to draw his attention...

But still JO is also jallu wife so how can JO came between Ruqlal, it's Jalaal who attracted & went his away to get JO even though there is no physical relationship between them till the anniversary..

Ruqu first time facing the jealous, hurt, anger , she is unable to coping up and she needs Salima or Jallu or HB to console her, instead she has MA... Still jalaal told her position will not change, but now she wants the attention and love he showers on JO including all others.

Till the time she can't realize her place in Jalaal's life and accept the change in her relationship & JJ relationship she is going to loose her peace burning with jealous digging her grave doing the worst to Jalaal & her relationship down...

Originally posted by: MaddyO

Exactly what Jodha said to Jalal was she feels bad about sharing him with others because she loves him - even though SHE UNDERSTANDS THAT HE ALSO HAS RESPONSIBILITIES TOWARDS THEM. Jodha said in self talk that others love Jalal and he also loves them. So please do not compare Jodha and Rukayya.

Jodha shared all her feelings with Jalal openly and SHE ACCEPTED him when he told her he loved her. Did Jodha put a condition on Jalal that she will become his if he does not go to Ruk? Did Jodha tell him that in her love she should decide how his and Ruk's relationship should be?

This is the difference between Jodha and Rukayya.

Jodha IS NOT TRYING TO CONTROL Jalal - rather she shared her feelings with him and accepted him - she did not make him say he will NOT do something.

Again please read what I wrote about what Ruk ALWAYS told Jalal what she cared for - did Ruk not tell Jalal she did not care what he did as long as Ruk's BEK status, her haram, her Audha remained intact. Has Jalal taken that away from her? Even with her worst behavior Jalal has always stood by Ruk - not Jodha EVER.

So the fault does not lie with Jalal as husband - the fault lies with Ruk cos she is in fact SO MUCH PAMPERED by Jalal that Ruk THINKS AND FEELS IT IS HER RIGHT - to decide and control how Jalal's relationship with Jodha should be. It is not for Ruk to NOW decide she wants what Jalal has with Jodha. Jalal ALWAYS gave Ruk what she most valued.

Even now with his love for Jodha - Jalal has stood by Ruk always. So if Ruk is doing this fake pregnancy plot cos SHE THINKS SHE HAS A RIGHT TO DECIDE HOW JALAL JODHA MARRIAGE SHOULD BE - it is not for Ruk to decide.

Just like Ruk told Jodha not to come between husband and wife - it is time for Ruk to be shut out of Jalal Jodha marriage and their relationship.

Simply because it is not Ruk's right to control Jalal's life!