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Posted: 11 years ago
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luvly post Mandy👏👏i luved ur topic name tarazu a lot😊nd i ws realy laughing hard wen ruqu ntered his hojra i felt bad fr her bt i ws more busy thinking how many censored words cvs wud hv received fr themselves dat very moment😆nd as she fainted i rofld down my sofa on seeing ja carrying her in his arms nd jo jst standing there🤣seriously yar cvs ne to band hi bja daali jajo romance ki nd cherry on the cake ws the forehead kiss👏👏
bt seriously i liked the warmth of the kiss no matter watevr others think bt fr me it ws much needed one...afterall she is also his wife nd dat to chief wife...nd i luved the fact that she didnt try to be fakingly sweet to jo...it ws not needed also...one shud show wat he/she xactly feels...i jst want her to maintain the dignity nd nt show her jealousy on her face evry moment which i dnt cvs will let happen😡instead they will butcher her character like anything to jajo close
bt i ws really shoked wen jo said dat HUMARA PRAN pura ho gya😲i ws like which pran,wat pran nd wen the hell did she took so much pain of taking pran fr jalal😕
i didnt find the apology balanced coz i wanted much more emotional response frm jo's side kyki ja ja did a lot...bt sb cvs ki leela h...
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Nice post Mandy...being an AkDha fan its really painful to watch RuqLal scene but as u said she's also his wife & most importantly his best friend so he can't ignore her. I agree with u & I say he will never ignore Ruq until she herself does something drastic. Whatever he did yesterday it was very natural & I think if Salima or any other begum was there he should have done the same. As a wife her jealously is very natural but she never felt so much jealous before. Earlier also Jalal married many women & slept with them but she had no prob then why this treatment with Jodha? What I didn't like was what she said to herself, " Humare rehte hue apne Jalal k itne kareeb ane ki himmat kaise ki Jodha begum...?" Why? Isn't Jodha also his begum? Doesn't she also have right to spend time with him? The problem is that she was ok at Jalal's spending night with other women if she was the only chief queen & BEK in Jalal's life. What she is not able to digest is now same privilege Jodha shares. She's feeling insecure but if she really claims to be Jalal's childhood friend she should understand that her ahmiyat in Jalal's life will never be sidelined. Naye ko ahmiyat dene se purane ki ahmiyat kam nahi ho jati. Ruq just needs to understand that. People here talk so much abt polygamy. They must all know in polygamy one wife has to accept other wives of the husband. Ruq is not doing that. Her jealousy is natural. Even Jodha felt jealous when Jalal went to Ruq but remember what she said to herself, "Ruq begum shehenshah ki patni hain...shehenshah k apni dusri patniyon k liye bhi kartavya hain phir hume bura kyun lag raha hai..." See Jodha is also jealous here but she accepts his other wives.

Somebody said here in the forum that polygamy is all about equality. But tell me when was this followed in the show? If such was the case there wouldn't have been just one "Begum-E-Khas". Ruq should understand what other begums must have felt when only she used to take all the attention of Shehenshah. But you see there can't be two heroins in a love story toh ek ko negative toh banana hi padega. I hope one day Ruq will accept Jodha in his life willingly. Then we'll be able to see real polygamy. And my Jallu he knows how to balance relationship & he'll always do that.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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I loved Ruqaiya !

She was dignified yesterday and did not throw tantrums when she saw them together. I don't care if she plans and plots against Jodha, CVs have already decided to degrade her character and their is no point in sulking about it.

Jalal has already given her freedom to walk into his room whenever she wants to. Last time when she did not bother to check with him during the boat ride fiasco he clearly told her she is BEK and she can meet him anytime without anyone's permission. If Jalal has given her this freedom then who are we to question it ?

When she realized she has disturbed his privacy, she walked away despite being in a shock of her life 😉. Whatever Jalal did when she fell unconscious was expected from a husband and bestie of years. I would have thrashed him if he did not care for her just because he found his love. He knows its she who will have to adjust with the his newly found love, he knows its her who is going to suffer the most ! When he left her room, he turned back and their was a little guilt in his eyes, somewhere he has let down his friend of years, a wife who always craved for his love but finally blindly trusted his laments of no having a heart.

Jalal is done with his part in making it clear to Ruqaiya that he loves Jodha ! Now he does not need to sit down with her and explain everything, its not easy for him and to her also. Some things are better left to be understood than explained.
And about Ruqaiya's rude behavior with Jodha ? Oh Please ! She has already made it clear to Jalal, Salima and in fact everyone else that she dislikes ans is jealous of Jodha. When you dislike someone, everything that person does for you seems fake to you ! This is what exactly Ruqaiya feels about Jodha. If there is anyone that Mahaan to be on good terms with the person you hate and you are jealous of then congrats to them !

In the end, I have no problem with Jalal's intimacy with Ruqaiya or any one of his begum. He is not supposed to be a ek patni vrata pati and ignore his first wife.

Edited by Shweta16 - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
#34


thank you sweety🤗
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: alapi

luvly post Mandy👏👏i luved ur topic name tarazu a lot😊nd i ws realy laughing hard wen ruqu ntered his hojra i felt bad fr her bt i ws more busy thinking how many censored words cvs wud hv received fr themselves dat very moment😆nd as she fainted i rofld down my sofa on seeing ja carrying her in his arms nd jo jst standing there🤣seriously yar cvs ne to band hi bja daali jajo romance ki nd cherry on the cake ws the forehead kiss👏👏
bt seriously i liked the warmth of the kiss no matter watevr others think bt fr me it ws much needed one...afterall she is also his wife nd dat to chief wife...nd i luved the fact that she didnt try to be fakingly sweet to jo...it ws not needed also...one shud show wat he/she xactly feels...i jst want her to maintain the dignity nd nt show her jealousy on her face evry moment which i dnt cvs will let happen😡instead they will butcher her character like anything to jajo close
bt i ws really shoked wen jo said dat HUMARA PRAN pura ho gya😲i ws like which pran,wat pran nd wen the hell did she took so much pain of taking pran fr jalal😕
i didnt find the apology balanced coz i wanted much more emotional response frm jo's side kyki ja ja did a lot...bt sb cvs ki leela h...



alapi😆..tell me about it!..the forehead kiss was more convincing than the hug..hope ja jo improve next time..fingers crossed!..even i did not get that pran thing..when where and what was it..i am concentrating on selective scenes..i just get the juice out and enjoy instead of sulking on what i do not get😉!
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: AbHer_neha

Nice post Mandy...being an AkDha fan its really painful to watch RuqLal scene but as u said she's also his wife & most importantly his best friend so he can't ignore her. I agree with u & I say he will never ignore Ruq until she herself does something drastic. Whatever he did yesterday it was very natural & I think if Salima or any other begum was there he should have done the same. As a wife her jealously is very natural but she never felt so much jealous before. Earlier also Jalal married many women & slept with them but she had no prob then why this treatment with Jodha? What I didn't like was what she said to herself, " Humare rehte hue apne Jalal k itne kareeb ane ki himmat kaise ki Jodha begum...?" Why? Isn't Jodha also his begum? Doesn't she also have right to spend time with him? The problem is that she was ok at Jalal's spending night with other women if she was the only chief queen & BEK in Jalal's life. What she is not able to digest is now same privilege Jodha shares. She's feeling insecure but if she really claims to be Jalal's childhood friend she should understand that her ahmiyat in Jalal's life will never be sidelined. Naye ko ahmiyat dene se purane ki ahmiyat kam nahi ho jati. Ruq just needs to understand that. People here talk so much abt polygamy. They must all know in polygamy one wife has to accept other wives of the husband. Ruq is not doing that. Her jealousy is natural. Even Jodha felt jealous when Jalal went to Ruq but remember what she said to herself, "Ruq begum shehenshah ki patni hain...shehenshah k apni dusri patniyon k liye bhi kartavya hain phir hume bura kyun lag raha hai..." See Jodha is also jealous here but she accepts his other wives.


Somebody said here in the forum that polygamy is all about equality. But tell me when was this followed in the show? If such was the case there wouldn't have been just one "Begum-E-Khas". Ruq should understand what other begums must have felt when only she used to take all the attention of Shehenshah. But you see there can't be two heroins in a love story toh ek ko negative toh banana hi padega. I hope one day Ruq will accept Jodha in his life willingly. Then we'll be able to see real polygamy. And my Jallu he knows how to balance relationship & he'll always do that.



neha dear no doubt our jallu will eventually find a way out to resolve such issues which will prop here and there in a polygamy set up😉..ruk so far has been used to getting jalla's sole attention but now things have turned the other way round..she was in denial..now she knows how jalal feels for jodha..now she will try various tricks as per our great natkiye rupantars to separate the two but that will bounce back on her with even greater force..she will fall and get hurt badly..maybe jalal will stop talking to her for a while..then realization will come that she cannot afford to loose jalal and will have to accept jodha at the end..and hopefully a happy ending!
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Shweta16

I loved Ruqaiya !


She was dignified yesterday and did not throw tantrums when she saw them together. I don't care if she plans and plots against Jodha, CVs have already decided to degrade her character and their is no point in sulking about it.

Jalal has already given her freedom to walk into his room whenever she wants to. Last time when she did not bother to check with him during the boat ride fiasco he clearly told her she is BEK and she can meet him anytime without anyone's permission. If Jalal has given her this freedom then who are we to question it ?

When she realized she has disturbed his privacy, she walked away despite being in a shock of her life 😉. Whatever Jalal did when she fell unconscious was expected from a husband and bestie of years. I would have thrashed him if he did not care for her just because he found his love. He knows its she who will have to adjust with the his newly found love, he knows its her who is going to suffer the most ! When he left her room, he turned back and their was a little guilt in his eyes, somewhere he has let down his friend of years, a wife who always craved for his love but finally blindly trusted his laments of no having a heart.

Jalal is done with his part in making it clear to Ruqaiya that he loves Jodha ! Now he does not need to sit down with her and explain everything, its not easy for him and to her also. Some things are better left to be understood than explained.
And about Ruqaiya's rude behavior with Jodha ? Oh Please ! She has already made it clear to Jalal, Salima and in fact everyone else that she dislikes ans is jealous of Jodha. When you dislike someone, everything that person does for you seems fake to you ! This is what exactly Ruqaiya feels about Jodha. If there is anyone that Mahaan to be on good terms with the person you hate and you are jealous of then congrats to them !

In the end, I have no problem with Jalal's intimacy with Ruqaiya or any one of his begum. He is not supposed to be a ek patni vrata pati and ignore his first wife.



shweta, very well written!..ruk is the first wife..she had learnt to live with the fact that he has no heart, although whenever he used to claim of having no heart her eyes went moist..but she hid her pain from him..that shows her dignity!..her character is being and will be butchered in future as well..we all know that!..what she felt after watching the two love birds is where she missed or is she lacking something in her that she could not get what jodha is getting today..! does not matter how grey she is, after all she is just human!
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Posted: 11 years ago
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very nice post mandy. nowdays m looking forward for ur posts also...😃
watever u said u sad it just right .jalal has always stayed true to his character but want more passionate akdha scenes ...
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: sunshine_sun

very nice post mandy. nowdays m looking forward for ur posts also...😃

watever u said u sad it just right .jalal has always stayed true to his character but want more passionate akdha scenes ...



oh! i am honored dear🤗..yes, i want to see more passion😳..i hope we get to see something tomorrow..main thing is execution should be good, they should not look forced or half baked!
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Shweta16

I loved Ruqaiya !


She was dignified yesterday and did not throw tantrums when she saw them together. I don't care if she plans and plots against Jodha, CVs have already decided to degrade her character and their is no point in sulking about it.

Jalal has already given her freedom to walk into his room whenever she wants to. Last time when she did not bother to check with him during the boat ride fiasco he clearly told her she is BEK and she can meet him anytime without anyone's permission. If Jalal has given her this freedom then who are we to question it ?

When she realized she has disturbed his privacy, she walked away despite being in a shock of her life 😉. Whatever Jalal did when she fell unconscious was expected from a husband and bestie of years. I would have thrashed him if he did not care for her just because he found his love. He knows its she who will have to adjust with the his newly found love, he knows its her who is going to suffer the most ! When he left her room, he turned back and their was a little guilt in his eyes, somewhere he has let down his friend of years, a wife who always craved for his love but finally blindly trusted his laments of no having a heart.

Jalal is done with his part in making it clear to Ruqaiya that he loves Jodha ! Now he does not need to sit down with her and explain everything, its not easy for him and to her also. Some things are better left to be understood than explained.
And about Ruqaiya's rude behavior with Jodha ? Oh Please ! She has already made it clear to Jalal, Salima and in fact everyone else that she dislikes ans is jealous of Jodha. When you dislike someone, everything that person does for you seems fake to you ! This is what exactly Ruqaiya feels about Jodha. If there is anyone that Mahaan to be on good terms with the person you hate and you are jealous of then congrats to them !

In the end, I have no problem with Jalal's intimacy with Ruqaiya or any one of his begum. He is not supposed to be a ek patni vrata pati and ignore his first wife.

Shweta, I agree with you in toto. And my only concern is Ruq will do dumb thing of playing fake pregnancy and this will defintely be her downfall, we know that you cannot like a person whom you are jealous of.
my complain was, if Jalal had advised that, no one should disturb, or put the curtains down, it would have been better😆, but yeh toh hona tha, as the consummation will happen with lot of drama and passion and not just accepting I made a mistake and with a hug, they will show some romance and ched chad from Jalal before they consummate.
Edited by aashyagh - 11 years ago

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