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Posted: 11 years ago
#51

Originally posted by: aashyagh


I agree Anne, even I did not dislike her all the time, I have liked her during Ben track, Badal/Kajri track and even during her ghrina mode I have not disliked her much, barring few instances ( she has been annoying with go die outside Amer or tiger attack), but this track has let down her character completely and have not disliked her as much as I do now. It is like a complete "U" turn from Ben track, she doesn't seem to understand Jalal at all, infact she doesn't realise her mistake, her brother's mistake in this and even suddenly she forgot how much Mirza was hurt due to Shivani's elopment? Just because you are in love or you understand love, does a wrong becomes right? From which POV, shivani was right? And calling Shehensha "heartless" again is completely c**p. Was she not the one, who always told him, "aap jhoot bolte hain Shehansha ki, aap ke paas dil nahin hain". She did not reciprocate or felt the pain he went thru, infact she became so "Heartless" that she didn't bother about his injury. When you love someone, even if the person has hurt you the most, has questioned your integrity, but that will not reduce your love to him, you will be angry/upset on him, but you don't close your heart/ears/eyes when he is hurt/injured. But she felt nothing. She was like a "Robot"😡


Robot at least doesn't lie or twist the fact. For all the pride of princess she has now turned into a liar. The world and Jodha exultation chorus can forget it, but I wont forget the fact that this MU was caused by her and her brother.

Funny thing, the bro ther whom she so confidently claimed will never harm her husband was the one who told him in battle field, its game on. And then she leaves Agra, defeating the purpose of hiding the truth from Jalal that is to find out from where is the danger to his life is coming.

She has totally sold her heart to pride and ego and then has the audacity to claim him heartless. Brainless yes, but not heartless. And you gave the best example of how heartless she was, the way she asked Bharmal why he is in her room, and then adds with the face like she smelt dead rat, why is he injured. REALLY? This is Jodha? Who would have died for Moti? Who jumped into lake for Rahim? Whose head was almost chopped when she claimed she killed Rukaiya's baby so that her brothers can go free? REALLY?

She is a creature so d eformed now from her previous gentle, caring, respectful self.

And she was prancing around Amer in full adorment like a cruise ship at night...full at blaze,,,,,while her supposedly love is in dangling in danger. Did she even look remotely like a woman so lost...??

And its not like Jalal is any better now. Brain is now like some molded cheese.

Munni said he is so eager and that its not only his love but also his guilt. I suppose that means he is now happy to be forgiven and to be accepted by her? What has she done that is so great that its is she and she alone can make his life meaningful?

We are not talking about a drug addict, alcoholic, gambler etc who has found love in a woman, and that has changed him into good. This is Shehensha-e-Hind. What was so great a flaw in him that she has changed so great?

Her non-existent love was never nurturing. She so constantly argued and persistently pushed her idea of goodness right at his face. It was not really a gentle coax, or nurturing way to make him grow. So what is all this hoo ha about then? He can rejoice and be happy even elated for the return of his love, but to do it in such OTT manner is way to disgraceful.

And what forgivness is he celebrating? Her forgiving him for the crime SHE instigated him to do? Where is your brain Jalal? I felt that for him to be happy to be forgiven is the all time biggest crime to have been committed to the character of Jalal.

No, she is not that great. She is not even good nowadays. If he was pining for the previous Jodha I could have understood. But not this Jodha.

And no, you are not that big a sinner that you need to kiss her feet, Jalal. Shame on you. Shame, shame, shame on you
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Posted: 11 years ago
#52

Originally posted by: AJSharma79


Robot at least doesn't lie or twist the fact. For all the pride of princess she has now turned into a liar. The world and Jodha exultation chorus can forget it, but I wont forget the fact that this MU was caused by her and her brother.

Funny thing, the bro ther whom she so confidently claimed will never harm her husband was the one who told him in battle field, its game on. And then she leaves Agra, defeating the purpose of hiding the truth from Jalal that is to find out from where is the danger to his life is coming.

She has totally sold her heart to pride and ego and then has the audacity to claim him heartless. Brainless yes, but not heartless. And you gave the best example of how heartless she was, the way she asked Bharmal why he is in her room, and then adds with the face like she smelt dead rat, why is he injured. REALLY? This is Jodha? Who would have died for Moti? Who jumped into lake for Rahim? Whose head was almost chopped when she claimed she killed Rukaiya's baby so that her brothers can go free? REALLY?

She is a creature so d eformed now from her previous gentle, caring, respectful self.

And she was prancing around Amer in full adorment like a cruise ship at night...full at blaze,,,,,while her supposedly love is in dangling in danger. Did she even look remotely like a woman so lost...??

And its not like Jalal is any better now. Brain is now like some molded cheese.

Munni said he is so eager and that its not only his love but also his guilt. I suppose that means he is now happy to be forgiven and to be accepted by her? What has she done that is so great that its is she and she alone can make his life meaningful?

We are not talking about a drug addict, alcoholic, gambler etc who has found love in a woman, and that has changed him into good. This is Shehensha-e-Hind. What was so great a flaw in him that she has changed so great?

Her non-existent love was never nurturing. She so constantly argued and persistently pushed her idea of goodness right at his face. It was not really a gentle coax, or nurturing way to make him grow. So what is all this hoo ha about then? He can rejoice and be happy even elated for the return of his love, but to do it in such OTT manner is way to disgraceful.

And what forgivness is he celebrating? Her forgiving him for the crime SHE instigated him to do? Where is your brain Jalal? I felt that for him to be happy to be forgiven is the all time biggest crime to have been committed to the character of Jalal.

No, she is not that great. She is not even good nowadays. If he was pining for the previous Jodha I could have understood. But not this Jodha.

And no, you are not that big a sinner that you need to kiss her feet, Jalal. Shame on you. Shame, shame, shame on you


I so totally totally agree with you.

The cvs are doing humungous damage to the image of the real Rajvanshi wife of Akbar. I'm sure she would never have been this egoistic or proud, wrt Akbar.
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Posted: 11 years ago
#53

Originally posted by: AJSharma79


Robot at least doesn't lie or twist the fact. For all the pride of princess she has now turned into a liar. The world and Jodha exultation chorus can forget it, but I wont forget the fact that this MU was caused by her and her brother.

Funny thing, the bro ther whom she so confidently claimed will never harm her husband was the one who told him in battle field, its game on. And then she leaves Agra, defeating the purpose of hiding the truth from Jalal that is to find out from where is the danger to his life is coming.

She has totally sold her heart to pride and ego and then has the audacity to claim him heartless. Brainless yes, but not heartless. And you gave the best example of how heartless she was, the way she asked Bharmal why he is in her room, and then adds with the face like she smelt dead rat, why is he injured. REALLY? This is Jodha? Who would have died for Moti? Who jumped into lake for Rahim? Whose head was almost chopped when she claimed she killed Rukaiya's baby so that her brothers can go free? REALLY?

She is a creature so d eformed now from her previous gentle, caring, respectful self.

And she was prancing around Amer in full adorment like a cruise ship at night...full at blaze,,,,,while her supposedly love is in dangling in danger. Did she even look remotely like a woman so lost...??

And its not like Jalal is any better now. Brain is now like some molded cheese.

Munni said he is so eager and that its not only his love but also his guilt. I suppose that means he is now happy to be forgiven and to be accepted by her? What has she done that is so great that its is she and she alone can make his life meaningful?

We are not talking about a drug addict, alcoholic, gambler etc who has found love in a woman, and that has changed him into good. This is Shehensha-e-Hind. What was so great a flaw in him that she has changed so great?

Her non-existent love was never nurturing. She so constantly argued and persistently pushed her idea of goodness right at his face. It was not really a gentle coax, or nurturing way to make him grow. So what is all this hoo ha about then? He can rejoice and be happy even elated for the return of his love, but to do it in such OTT manner is way to disgraceful.

And what forgivness is he celebrating? Her forgiving him for the crime SHE instigated him to do? Where is your brain Jalal? I felt that for him to be happy to be forgiven is the all time biggest crime to have been committed to the character of Jalal.

No, she is not that great. She is not even good nowadays. If he was pining for the previous Jodha I could have understood. But not this Jodha.

And no, you are not that big a sinner that you need to kiss her feet, Jalal. Shame on you. Shame, shame, shame on you

Anne 😆, I completely understand your outburst and I agree with you in toto. This Jodha makes me madAngry.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: divyavm



Hi Raksha, Love your combo of insightful points and funny ones.

Yes the changing equations on advisors was a good one- you can truly feel Maham Anga's silence.

On Ruqs- great observation on his openness about Jodha. He did it once before after his birthday but seeing her hurt stopped for a bit.

I think SD's turn is next!

On your funny comments I can't respond to each and everyone from my phone but trust me that every one made me laugh.

My three favorites are:
2. Maan Singh's smile: I think it may be because his Buasaa is coming back
6. What about showing winds blowing and thunder crashing with Ruqs outburst?
7. What do you think the women were really scared about?


Hey Divi!

I missed two observations, yesterday, here they are,
1. Those pumpkin heads are beginning to get on my nerves with their griping. Trust me they're like fashion police, nothing, no-one impresses them. If the Hindu subjects had gifted Jalaal Gita, they would have sang, "they're influencing King's religious beliefs". Now what's left? Panchatantra stories? 😡
2. Jalaal referred to Jodha as hi biwi. I know, it's not some epic lines by Bard, but, I feel biwi sounds much more intimate than his regular, beghum.

Now, coming to your post,
2. I like Man Singh smiling. Lord knows the lad needs some happiness in his life. Ususally he sits in DEK with an expression as if he was watching and Avengers movie in his living room, and he was transported to this place, without his knowledge. 😆
6. I think winds of Agra are used to her screams. I wonder if they'll get royally p*ssed at it at blow a kilo of leaves into her mouth just to shut her up.😆
7. Women I guess had two fears, one Jodha leaving in the night. Not many are comfortable with that thought. Even if you have a bazooka and a tanker accompanying you. Two, they were a bit scared as to how this would move forward. They hope their daughter will behave, but, they know her too well to be sure. 😆
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Hey Anne and others ...

Sorry have not had too much online time today ... First, let me address the points on Jodha and then will post again on Jalal ... I think most of the annoyance with Jalal is because your unhappiness with the Jodha he so adores ... So maybe this will address that to.

I completely agree with you ... In this track, Jodha was egoistic, was not able to admit her mistakes, was cold, and did not show herself to be "gripped in love." You know I have been a critique of Jodha in the track ... And I have never expected a "perfect" heroine and there is no point in comparing her with other heroines- so I sat back for quite a bit time to understand my issues with this track and I feel better so I thought I would share it with you to make you feel better.

So, here were the issues for me :

- The aura of perfection around Jodha

Yes, it is annoying that someone who has faults and does make mistakes have this tone that they can do no wrong- how could he hurt me when I was doing everything for him and perfect. However, this is a common human mistake- when we are hurt, our first defense is that we didn't do anything. Jodha was never good at admitting her mistakes.

So, why was I so annoyed when I never expected Jodha to be perfect? I think it was actually reading all the posts justifying Jodha and how she was pure, selfless, and could no wrong. It made me jerk back and say she was not perfect.

Because if you look at the show, everyone called out Jodha as wrong at some point:
- Bharmal asked if she was the same Jodha who was worried about birds and was showing no concern for Jalal
- Jalal called out her share of the MU
- Jalal, Mainavati, and Shaguni Bai called out her ego
- Jodha herself admitted she made a mistake immediately after but buried it later to justify her hurt; and she herself said she went too far into the ego.

To me, making the mistake is not the issue, but improving from it ... So, now that Jodha is realizing her mistake I feel I can give Jodha the benefit of the doubt till her ego comes in again. She is not going back for her kartavya or feeling pity on Jalal- she is going for herself.

- Jodha did not show the same love that Jalal did

This is where I will say my expectations were off. I thought Jodha was equally in love as Jalal but that is not that case. Jalal knew of his feelings of love since Jodha's vishpaan, Jodha had just acknowledged her feelings were rising for Jalal a few days before his outburst. So, this rising love was easily crushed by Jalal's outburst. That is why we did not see the same love, restlessness, and hurt from Jodha as someone "gripped in love."

And I think it was meant to be that way in this track- as even Mainavati had felt that Jodha was ready to settle in Amer and never go back.

However, if Jodha does not show that love now, that does not mean she will not get there. I am willing to give her the chance.

- Jodha needs people around her to tell her her feelings

I realized this was always Jodha- when did she once openly admit she was jealous of Ben in the Ben track? Moti always completed the sentence for her,

When it comes to expressing feelings other then ghrina and advice, Jodha has always needed others to say it for her. I am not sure if this will change, but I hope she does finally opens up. More on this later.

- The issue of the lost and found with Jalal's heart

First, the basic premise of Jalal saying "I have no heart" is a false one. I never believed it when he said it - so I don't think we should get as worked about every time Jodha makes a comment about his heart as it is just Jodha's perception.

Jalal always had a heart- when he forgave the parents' of the little Rajvanshi boy and cried at Ruq's MC. What Jodha helped Jalal do, is openly recognize this heart and use it to connect with his awaam people.

- Along with the issue of Jodha's lost and found with Jalal's heart and her lack of understanding / empathy and different standards when it comes to Jalal vs. others, I was able to understand it in the following way:

- Since her wedding, Jodha always was always harder on Jalal then anyone else. While she always assumed the best and gave everyone else the benefit of the doubt, she always assumed the worst of Jalal. I think there are two reasons for this: (a) her first image of Jalal as a ruthless and heartless person and (b) her hurt of being forced into this marriage.
- this is why I think she never gave him the benefit of the doubt whether it was his intentions for Sukanya's wedding or her sthree ka lalsa accusation after the Dhakka; Jalal had to do a lot of good things and reforms to get her to recognize his goodness and get over the "Heartless and ruthless" Jalal image she had initially built
- With the outburst, in her hurt, I feel she defaulted back to her "Heartless and ruthless" image of Jalal- which drove her statements like "hope you find your lost heart", "how come I never felt his love" or "since when did he understand the words of the heart and love." Almost like the good, loving one she had grown to love was a mirage.
- That is where I felt over time- seeing him ask forgiveness, forgiving Shivani, and abolishing the pilgrimage tax helped her realize it was not mirage and finally trust the innate goodness in Jalal ... Hence, she realized his heart had awakened from her perception ... In actuality, his heart is the same. For her, the test of the trust was to recognize and trust Jalal's goodness and heart.
- I will still say if Jodha had understood her role in the MU she would have understood Jalal's outburst was driven by the pain of his heart and not lack of heart. However, one does not think the straightest in pain and she is only human. So, that is not an issue.
- I always used to wonder what was holding back Jodha from expressing her love to Jalal and I think there were two things: I think somewhere there was a lurking fear of the "ruthless and heartless Jalal" who was just trying to attain her and second was the forced circumstances of the wedding. Now, that she has recognized and trusts his heart (for I hope the last time) and going back for Jalal on her own will, both these barriers for the epic love story are gone.

That is why when I thought of it ... I did not think that any of Jodha's mistakes were irreversible. Hence, since she is taking the step in the right direction, I am willing to give her a chance and leave behind my issues with this current track. People are usually not on their best behavior when they are hurt.

More on Jalal later ...

Edited by divyavm - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: rpeez


Hey Divi!

I missed two observations, yesterday, here they are,
1. Those pumpkin heads are beginning to get on my nerves with their griping. Trust me they're like fashion police, nothing, no-one impresses them. If the Hindu subjects had gifted Jalaal Gita, they would have sang, "they're influencing King's religious beliefs". Now what's left? Panchatantra stories? 😡

Too funny!


2. Jalaal referred to Jodha as hi biwi. I know, it's not some epic lines by Bard, but, I feel biwi sounds much more intimate than his regular, beghum.

It was cute oh cute! He was acting like such a typical husband yesterday!

Now, coming to your post,
2. I like Man Singh smiling. Lord knows the lad needs some happiness in his life. Ususally he sits in DEK with an expression as if he was watching and Avengers movie in his living room, and he was transported to this place, without his knowledge. 😆

Too funny! I loved him in his early days of marriage - which was about when I loved his Buasa more too. He used to stand up to Jalal so well.


6. I think winds of Agra are used to her screams. I wonder if they'll get royally p*ssed at it at blow a kilo of leaves into her mouth just to shut her up.😆

I doubt it ... But we def need earplugs


7. Women I guess had two fears, one Jodha leaving in the night. Not many are comfortable with that thought. Even if you have a bazooka and a tanker accompanying you. Two, they were a bit scared as to how this would move forward. They hope their daughter will behave, but, they know her too well to be sure. 😆

I knew the second fear was what was on your mind!

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Posted: 11 years ago
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@JA: Let's whack each other.
We still watch ALL THIS TRIPE. 😡
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Posted: 11 years ago
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If it wasn't for Rajat, this show would've shut shop ages ago.

He is the PIVOT on which the wheel turns. And is GOLD.

He is a SUPER-STAR & that is the only reason why this show rakes in the TRPs & is a top show, if not No.1


(ok. Enough of the Rajat Jaap. 😆)


The DEK scene. That gesture of gifting the Emperor the Quran Shariff was very touching, and well executed.


Akbar was a man far ahead of his times, who often accepted the simple & heartfelt gifts given to him by his subjects, rather than the gaudy wealth his Amirs showered on him. 😳

I loved this scene for the simplicity & sweetness of it all.





What I didn't understand was why Ruqaiyya, Salima & Co looked like they had stepped out of Arabian nights. 😆


That too in the day. 😆
Edited by Mallika-E-Bhais - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Jalal's use of the word Biwi, was very cute. 😆

Now am waiting for the day he calls Jodha by her name.

Anything is better than that BEGUM!





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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: rpeez

Divi,

I liked today's episode. True, the story didn't move forward, but it focused on the changing equations, in an ever so subtle way.

1. Jalaal and his advisers - Earlier, it would have been a happy Jallu and a silently seething, but play-acting Maham. But, today, it was Jalaal with all the people he trusted truly, I know it's sad, that Shareefuddin made it to the list, but, whatever.
2. Jalaal and Ruqaiyya - Usually he masks his feelings on Jodha in front of her. Covers them up with a laughter and some sardonic comment, but today, no such thing. I loved the change in his attitude! As soon as he got to know Jodha was coming back, it was as if a bulb was lit inside him, there was "nur" in his face. Ruqaiyya seems to be setting up new records for being a haughty queen. She wanted the paigham to wait for the end of a stupid chess game? What if the message was an important strategic one?

A few observations,
1. Atgah, you perv! Why that naughty smile, when he told about sending ghudsavars to get Jodha's her ghante ki khabar? Again he smiled when Jallu repeated it outside. Apparently he knows, the past tense of his litany, "Hum huqm ki taameel kar chuke hain."
2. Man Singh, why the delightful smile on listening to you duty? If I were a Rajput warrior in waiting, I would have been clueless to such events as welcoming a bahu. Apparently Man Singh has some cool hunars as well.
3. Shareef, you're happy she's returning but, sad, not in your life. Son, tell me when was she in your life ever to return? Mad guy! I think, for a moment he was confused which flowers to lay for his crush, or maybe his fav. flower may not be available in the current season.
4. Todarmal's march past out of the hall was hilarious. He seemed to be mentally saying, "left right left"
5. Hamida, wonderful words, on them starting over. I loved she said both of them starting over, and not something stupid like, you do shiraasana or something like that. She and her son had a tiny screaming match, but thankfully Salima didn't join.
6. I am amazed, Jodha didn't get a jolt in her palki when Ruq screamed, "JODHA!"
7. Bidai scene looked great, because unlike the wedding, the daughter was truly leaving for her husband's house happy, and eager. Notice the happiness on Bharmal's face, but the tears and fear in the 3 women. Men! Can never understand.
8. Moti! She might be your friend, but you don't address her as use, when she herself refers to herself as "hum". Where are your manners?

Phew!

Great post! 👍🏼👏




@Bold: But even Moti refers to herself as Hum. This is called equality. 😆

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