The Fear of Rejection - Page 3

Originally posted by: peepu

Radhika and abhay...epic posts...

Loved bith rejection and negation...

Hats off..will reply too..laters

But on a lighter note abhay please don't call it sunshineMaiya is too capable of resurrecting the dead ..what will happen to jallu if sunshine is back lol...😉

Originally posted by: kmmdesai

Wonderful wonderful post radhika.👏

I have few things to add this beautiful piece of writing. But can do it only once I have my laptop.

Love

Kshithi

Originally posted by: Priya_nv

Well thought and wonderfully written post, Radhika 👏👏.

Now that both are actually separated, it will be interesting to see how they cope without each other. The change with-in and understanding of the other that develops during this separation will determine the direction of their love journey. If both are able to overcome their fears, this journey will be truly beautiful.

Loved your list of Rejections sections 👍🏼. And agree with your caution statements.

Thanks for the well thought footnotes.

Originally posted by: history_geek

I am shocked .!.What is happening these days ..??.. 😆
Continuous Posts after posts from you and all are to the point straight from the core of heart. 😃

You may be shocked by me. But the whole forum is shocked by you! What is happening these days?? 😆

Continuous post after post from you (on all threads) and that too long and emotional ones, all straight from the core of your heart. 😃

You have summed up the journey and from a different perspective this time -> "Rejections".

At one place you have quoted lines from my previous writeup. Here are the exact words:

" It is difficult to know at what moment love begins; BUT it is MORE difficult to ACCEPT that it has begun. "

Yes, it's a beautiful line. I love it. 😊 As also the one about barriers.

Jokes apart. This post of yours is fantastic. 👏
Thank you! Hope this is not a joke too? 😛

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But i differ on some points. I am mentioning one of them. 😊

Footnotes:

1. The vishpan allegation.

I still remember what Jalal said to her regarding the poison drinking and i STILL do BELIEVE that he negated her Vishpaan.

She drank that poison for saving her husband.
He thought she drank it due to the Love she had for him.
Fine.

But there was this dialogue that made everything look as if the Vishpaan act was negated TOTALLY ->> " Till today I thought that when you drank poison and survived you did it for me, but now it looks like you came back to life for the love you have for that man? ".

The last words in blue color, clearly show this.
So, I still hold that her act of Vishpaan was negated by Jalal.

Moral :
She drank it for him and went to the doors of death, but he interpreted and said -> "I was WRONG in thinking so."
This is what we are calling negation.!.
I agree he did not mean revenge and anything, and he was hurt and hence he "deduced" this, but ultimately he mistook the act, and said 2 things.

1.
"" I thought that you drank the poison and survived for me, but now it looks like... ""
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@bold underlined ..>>>>>> "thought" <<<<<------Clearly Means that NOW he thinks the above words were wrong.


2.
but now it looks like you came back to life for the love you have for that man

This is a CLEAR negation of what she did. Infact he negated his OWN soul talk with Jodha by saying so. 😕

Don't MU this comment, but i am convinced that Jalal negated that act. 😊
No MU. I am glad you are presenting your view and I support you. I also believed as you do till I read Jaya. I do feel (and this is my perspective) that he stated that she came back to life for the sake of the man she loved and not because Jalal had called her back in his soul talk. That he did not say anything against the act of poison drinking in itself.

The words are open to interpretation and we have interpreted them differently. It is possible that you are correct and I'm wrong. But still I want to give the benefit of doubt to Jalal in this instance. I try to think good of people and not the worst. Let's agree to disagree on this point and move on. 😊
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I am NOT finding faults in Jalal 😉 and i am very much a Akdha shipper(throughout) and looking forward to the sunshine, but those lines by Jalal were not justifiable .!.
Wonderful post and keep writing. 😊
How can I keep writing - I don't want to shock you again! 😲

PS - Made a Second comment about Vishpaan. Check this Link on Page - 3. :)
https://www.indiaforums.com/forum/post/105386892

Thank you for elaborating your point. You have almost convinced me. 😆 But still let's respect each other's views and leave it at that. 😊

Originally posted by: ashpat

Radhika, it is a brilliant post. Thank for showing Akdha's problems through new angle of "rejection". Superb job listing all the rejections endured by both of them. I also liked your caution not and loved the footnotes.

When you make more posts, plz pm me so I do not miss it. Thx,