Is the reel Jalal a desirable husband? - Page 10

Originally posted by: Clumsy_Wings

Good for the show , but in real life. I would not be able to handle Agra's harem. I would start campaigning for woman rights or would end up declaring myself mentally incompetent.😆 Reality is quiet different from the show.

Originally posted by: ngayou

Dunno abt that mental stranglehold , Radhika, hasnt Jodha always been given freedom to do as she pleases & Jalal has given in to her wishes, & even if what u say is true , isnt the viceversa true too, Jalal seems to be mentally & emotionally too very much affected by Jodha. 😊

Originally posted by: rock&roll

Well said,👏 a bull headed assertive feminist,who knows her mind,gets what she wants,has the brains to differentiate right from wrong and the guts to express it with not a diplomatic bone in her body...Can't think of a man who would like such a wife😆...After she has the brains,capability and guts to challenge him,better him and make him feel insecure 😉.Men mostly prefer to have wives who can massage their egos 😆😆 not wives who are one better than them 😊

Originally posted by: rock&roll

Originally posted by: rpeez

Raksha,

Congrats! You are may be the first one so far to say he makes perfect hubby material, but is it for Jodha or you? 😆

But seriously, during all the events you listed, he was still undecided whether to trust her or not. And at that point in time, he had also been quite a boor himself. Be that as it may, post Ben track also, when Jodha is changing for the better (though she has still not become the passionate lover Jalal would want her to be, according to some), why is his trust still wavering? If you had risked your life for your husband and he still doubted you, would you still consider him perfect?

Originally posted by: RadhikaS0

But how can she reciprocate his feelings with equal intensity when she can never be sure of his trust in her? She is also insecure about her place in his life. He doesn't need a psychiatrist. He needs to let go of his ego and have an open talk with Jodha. Only then can he resolve his confusion and make her believe he trusts her.

I can't say I trust you, so please tell me all your secrets. I have to say, I trust you and let me tell you all my secrets. Only when he reveals himself to her can he expect her to trust him and talk to him openly and then as a next step, love him deeply.

Originally posted by: JeannieJA

Originally posted by: rock&roll

😊She can never reciprocate his feelings/feel for him the way he feels for her..at least not for quite some time(in real life scenarios,not for another 10 years at least..dunno how much that means in reel life 😆 )..The baggage in her life from her past experiences with Jalal is heavy and bitter and it will take time for her. I am only saying that Jalal is hurt that she doesn't reciprocate his feelings(which is unreasonable,but Jalal will not get that)...I am not saying that she should reciprocate his feelings.

I completely agree when u say that he needs to take the first step.He has to first confide his love(yes,he has to take the initiative again)and win her trust..Onus is pretty much solely on Jalal.

As for the psychiatrist thing,i was just joking..poor guy looked so harassed in the last episode...Why even in today's episode Maham begged him(Main aapse darkhwaast karti hoon,apne dimaag par zor lagayiye 🤣).So i thought he shld seek proper counselling...😉.But logically speaking,u r right again,all he needs to do is let his ego go and talk out things with her openly and clearly...But ah,with real life experience,we all know that is easier said than done right? 😉

Originally posted by: RadhikaS0

<font color="#ff00ff">Is the freedom which he has given to Jodha enough to balance wavering trust in her?</font>

One more thing we ve to remember, Jalal is in love, we ve been shown that, infact most of his actions from the start has been due to this inexplicable attraction he felt for her. Jodha on the other hand, didnt display any loverlike feelings towards him though she was willing to give up her life for him. What am trying to say is Jalal s current distrust in Jodha despite the strong faith he has that she can do no wrong is because his love is unreciprocated he thinks. Love as we all know is a very volatile feeling & breeds on insecurities when it s unrequited & craves for the feeling to be returned. If Jalal distrusts Jodha even after he knows she loves him, then he deserves all the bashing & thrashing, I d say,bcos mutual love deserves lots of trust & understanding, but now his actions come out mainly bcos he feels his love isnt returned