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I dont understand why ppl think jalal is not doing anything and only jodha is doing everything and now jalal is jo poodle I am strictly against these thingsand feels bad rreading such stuff akdha make eachother conplete the things jo didn't had she have now and same goes for jalal show is abt these 2 diff ppl coming together and becoming one right realy frustrated qith such things jo never lecture jalal its there tunnibg how they talk
both never take shit from each other its quiet balanced I need to right more but I am so frustrated ki ab I will keep away nyself from foru

Originally posted by: preetgurti

I dont understand why ppl think jalal is not doing anything and only jodha is doing everything and now jalal is jo poodle I am strictly against these thingsand feels bad rreading such stuff akdha make eachother conplete the things jo didn't had she have now and same goes for jalal show is abt these 2 diff ppl coming together and becoming one right realy frustrated qith such things jo never lecture jalal its there tunnibg how they talk
both never take shit from each other its quiet balanced I need to right more but I am so frustrated ki ab I will keep away nyself from foru

I strongly dislike when POODLE is used for Jalal and BHASHAN for Jodha.😡🤢 Neither Jalal is a Poodle (he has his own thinking/independent brain which he uses without making others known) and neither Jodha gives BHASHAN (it is her way of telling/explaining Jallu her POV, as he doesn't use his heart while making decisions. Her talks are much needed as it gives him a different perspective). THIS IS MY POV😃

Originally posted by: MaddyO

I agree with your post that Jalal should continue to care for Rukayya.

What I do NOT agree with is Jalal has somehow left Rukayya behind! He STILL did not bring her truth in Murti kand in front of everybody. Jalal still pampers her and HE lets her get away with worst tantrums and pettiness.

Jalal ONLY intervened AGAINST Rukayya in Hojara issue of Jodha that time also he pampered her into audha, baddapan and hatred for Jodha, how he would not want to look at Jodha even if she is dying talk. Jalal has pampered Rukayya too much, it is still 16th Century story.

If Jalal has EVOLVED and Rukayya has not it is not JALAL'S FAULT. One cannot make another person grow mentally, they have to do that themselves.

If Jodha brought the extreme ghrina and hatred relationship to this level the credit for that goes to both Jodha and Jalal.

If Rukayya has brought her relationship with Jalal to this level, how much is Jalal responsible? Has he changed much towards Rukayya? No, he is loving Jodha but he STILL respects Rukayya and has loads of affection for her.
If he DOES NOT LIKE RUKAYYA's behavior - so JALAL IS WRONG with Rukayya is totally not valid - so if Jalal STANDS UP TO ALL OF RUKAYYA's bad behavior then ONLY he becomes good husband and cares for her?

Rukayya has HER HUSBAND and her RELATIVES like HB, GB, SB etc.
It is JODHA WHO WAS MOSTLY ALONE IN AGRA. Her mother refused to accept her back so she is MORE ALONE IN AGRA THAN ANYBODY ELSE. Jodha was SO ALONE WHEN EVEN JALAL was against her.

It is Jodha who by her behavior has got HB SB on her side. while it is Rukayya who due to her SELFISH INSULTING behavior alienated the very people who love and pamper her.

I HONESTLY wonder what everybody WANTS Jalal to do? That he HAS TO TELL RUKAYYA ABOUT HIS FEELINGS FOR JODHA?

I AM SORRY BUT WHY THE H*** FOR? WOULD YOU EXPECT JALAL TO TALK ABOUT HIS RELATIONSHIP WITH RUKAYYA TO JODHA? NO

In polygamous relationships it USED TO BE DUTY of 1st wife to welcome other wives - SEE IN MRP who the 1st wife behaves!

It is Rukayya who has rod rough shod over others by treating them life bandis, Jodha is also a Rajvanshi and Rukayya has treated her despicably most of the time.

The fault for this current situation lies with Rukayya's extreme selfish nature, her greed for audha and HER BELIEF AND ARROGANCE IN THINKING SHE SHOULD CONTROL JALAL'S HEART AND MIND.

Originally posted by: Pals2411

I strongly dislike when POODLE is used for Jalal and BHASHAN for Jodha.😡🤢Neither Jalal is a Poodle (he has his own thinking/independent brain which he uses without making others known) and neither Jodha gives BHASHAN (it is her way of telling/explaining Jallu her POV, as he doesn't use his heart while making decisions. Her talks are much needed). THIS IS MY POV😃

pallu I am so frustrated with these 2 words I feel like leaving forum and enjoy show

Originally posted by: preetgurti

I dont understand why ppl think jalal is not doing anything and only jodha is doing everything and now jalal is jo poodle I am strictly against these thingsand feels bad rreading such stuff akdha make eachother conplete the things jo didn't had she have now and same goes for jalal show is abt these 2 diff ppl coming together and becoming one right realy frustrated qith such things jo never lecture jalal its there tunnibg how they talk
both never take shit from each other its quiet balanced I need to right more but I am so frustrated ki ab I will keep away nyself from foru

Originally posted by: tamy267

Preet cannot agree more and thank you for talking about it here!! I commented in the other thread (call to Zee) about this...check that out!

I am tired!🥱

tammy its sad u know as akdha relation now going to diff level with understanding ppl thibk diff
cant ppl see it jalal character growth hpw he is changed man with no heart to a heartfull of love

Originally posted by: tamy267

bas tune kehdiya meri jaan...keh diya👏👏👏

Nobody should be blamed for Ruqaiyya's faults, she is no kid..she herself has to take the initiative to change. And even if Jalal talks with her, will it bring any change in her ? She will be more mad and turn more vicious, she may harm Jodha then. None of Ruqu's actions can be justify.

I agree with both of you. Ruq is no kid. Cant she see the changing equations between Jallu & Jo, when everyone can see? In fact MA is always there to do the needful. If she is in denial then it cannot be helped. She just doesn't want to hear/see or accept that Jallu is now more close/in love with Jo. In fact if Jallu admits the same to Ruq, I fear that she will start doing all todfod, she will start crying, start blaming Jallu that why did you do this to me when I loved you so much. I sometimes sympathise with her condition, but sorry Ruq you need to help yourself first. You need to see things as others see and not what you want to see. That makes a lot of difference.😊

Originally posted by: preetgurti

I dont understand why ppl think jalal is not doing anything and only jodha is doing everything and now jalal is jo poodle I am strictly against these thingsand feels bad rreading such stuff akdha make eachother conplete the things jo didn't had she have now and same goes for jalal show is abt these 2 diff ppl coming together and becoming one right realy frustrated qith such things jo never lecture jalal its there tunnibg how they talk
both never take shit from each other its quiet balanced I need to right more but I am so frustrated ki ab I will keep away nyself from foru

I too hate this i mean WTH? its so annoying to see all that.

Originally posted by: MaddyO

I agree with your post that Jalal should continue to care for Rukayya.

What I do NOT agree with is Jalal has somehow left Rukayya behind! He STILL did not bring her truth in Murti kand in front of everybody. Jalal still pampers her and HE lets her get away with worst tantrums and pettiness.

Jalal ONLY intervened AGAINST Rukayya in Hojara issue of Jodha that time also he pampered her into audha, baddapan and hatred for Jodha, how he would not want to look at Jodha even if she is dying talk. Jalal has pampered Rukayya too much, it is still 16th Century story.

If Jalal has EVOLVED and Rukayya has not it is not JALAL'S FAULT. One cannot make another person grow mentally, they have to do that themselves.

If Jodha brought the extreme ghrina and hatred relationship to this level the credit for that goes to both Jodha and Jalal.

If Rukayya has brought her relationship with Jalal to this level, how much is Jalal responsible? Has he changed much towards Rukayya? No, he is loving Jodha but he STILL respects Rukayya and has loads of affection for her.
If he DOES NOT LIKE RUKAYYA's behavior - so JALAL IS WRONG with Rukayya is totally not valid - so if Jalal STANDS UP TO ALL OF RUKAYYA's bad behavior then ONLY he becomes good husband and cares for her?

Rukayya has HER HUSBAND and her RELATIVES like HB, GB, SB etc.
It is JODHA WHO WAS MOSTLY ALONE IN AGRA. Her mother refused to accept her back so she is MORE ALONE IN AGRA THAN ANYBODY ELSE. Jodha was SO ALONE WHEN EVEN JALAL was against her.

It is Jodha who by her behavior has got HB SB on her side. while it is Rukayya who due to her SELFISH INSULTING behavior alienated the very people who love and pamper her.

I HONESTLY wonder what everybody WANTS Jalal to do? That he HAS TO TELL RUKAYYA ABOUT HIS FEELINGS FOR JODHA?

I AM SORRY BUT WHY THE H*** FOR? WOULD YOU EXPECT JALAL TO TALK ABOUT HIS RELATIONSHIP WITH RUKAYYA TO JODHA? NO

In polygamous relationships it USED TO BE DUTY of 1st wife to welcome other wives - SEE IN MRP who the 1st wife behaves!

It is Rukayya who has rod rough shod over others by treating them life bandis, Jodha is also a Rajvanshi and Rukayya has treated her despicably most of the time.

The fault for this current situation lies with Rukayya's extreme selfish nature, her greed for audha and HER BELIEF AND ARROGANCE IN THINKING SHE SHOULD CONTROL JALAL'S HEART AND MIND.

Jalal has undergone transformation and has become more self aware. He is moving towards self realisation and reach greater heights. Ruq whereas is still stuck in the old time warp. Since Jalal lead her to this life style and thinking, he can make an attempt to make her realise the changes in time. Jodha had her childhood full of love and affection, care, meaning of relationships, life and values. As a husband and friend, he can help his wife to come out of the time warp and her misdemeanour. We learn differently but surely everyone gets influenced from others. For Ruq, her world is Jalal and she is influenced deeply by him. Ruq is not that mature or understanding to grasp the change, she needs support and guidance. Just like weak students need coaching, similarly Ruq needs extra support.

Why not a Halo? Jalal does deserve a halo⭐️ ( BTW unlike the prevalent comments, I was joking😆😆). As I had stated earlier, the SWs have balanced both Jalal and Jodha characters very well with both their goodness and flaws.

Originally posted by: preetgurti

pallu I am so frustrated with these 2 words I feel like leaving forum and enjoy show

My advice would be to leave those threads, not the forum. Because I have done the same😃 Instead of reading negative stuff and getting all disturbed, it is better to stick to threads that have like minded people. We will all enjoy.😛 One of them is Ela's😆😃