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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: pupumon

Bhavya u felt so bad when i said u Pataka 🥺

no dear ...but i felt bad that forum is being divided ...and all will keep pointing fingers at each other ...
even though there is no negativity in the forum...
the negativity is catching fire by making others feel bad for making post against jalal...

OH NO dont say that i felt bad on you...i loved your posts...and replies to me...

But one thing is all are getting carried away with the fact that Its Jalals bashing post, and all hate Ruquaiyya

but the truth is no one can hate Jalal and ruquaiyya ...

because of one persons negative thinking and their self decalaration that this is bashers group...

all in the forum are called as bashers it hurts a lot when i think before posting anything...why cant they open their eyes and see that its actually criticizing post...

it makes me depressed when i think a lot before putting my POV in the forum...after all we come to forum to relax our hectic schedule and if we see the complx atmosphere in this illusion world too than think of the position of members who come here to find little happiness


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Posted: 11 years ago
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I agree with you completely..everyone has their own taste, own opinion, own take, and also has the right to express..besides, we show our disappointments through posting..nothing is wrong here!
sabse badi baat, we criticize the behavior of characters only when the expectations r high...and expectations come from positivism of the character.

we all r here coz we love JA and AkDha way too much.❤️ and love gives us the right to express disappointments.
Edited by tamy267 - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: pranavvikas

Yah i too agree that every one has right to post their thoughts
But it would be better if we go in a humble way and not
to spread any negativity in the forum

actually dear people are not able to differentiate what is bashing and what is criticizing post...
actually there is no single posts which are done for bashing purpose but people will make us feel that we have made the post to create the bashing atmosphere...

hope they understand the difference between criticizing and bashing posts
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: elasingh

What I have seen in this forum is that bashing is when you critisize Jalal...Only then posts for maintaining positivity will start coming...Jodha doesn't matter and is bashed all the time...and it is called having a different point of view...


if we show disappoint against Jalal or ruquaiyya its being termed as bashing post...


i have not come across Jodha bashing post from long time other than during tiger track...

but why people will think that if we made post against episode on jalla they will think we are Jodha supporters...

they should also see we have made post against Jodha too when she was wrong and have appreciated jalal too when he was right...

Instead of calling us as Jodha akbar fans they term and group us as Jodha fan/jalal fan/ruquaiyya fan...


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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: tamy267

I agree with you completely..everyone has their own taste, own opinion, own take, and also has the right to express..besides, we show our disappointments through posting..nothing is wrong here!

sabse badi baat, we criticize the behavior of characters only when the expectations r high...and expectations come from positivism of the character.

we all r here coz we love JA and AkDha way too much.❤️ and love gives us the right to express disappointments.

@ Bold thanks tamy we have a right to express our disappointments ...love you for that line😊
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Posted: 11 years ago
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without seeing jalal's reaction( which will be aired on monday), if we comment on him that his love is vague...he didnt say anything to ruks...he is not doing anything for his love jodha n etc etc, then definitely i will term it as bashing...

and yes ofcourse if he doesnt say anything to ruks or behaves selfishly from the point of view of jodha on MONDAY, then one can bash him..,..his character...no problem...

but before that how can one mercilessly say so that he is a coward n etc etc...

n yes everyone has a right to voice their opinion...no issues...but if one character is to be bashed based on future happenings, then i feel there must be a " if clause"...
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: subha_rath2004

without seeing jalal's reaction( which will be aired on monday), if we comment on him that his love is vague...he didnt say anything to ruks...he is not doing anything for his love jodha n etc etc, then definitely i will term it as bashing...

and yes ofcourse if he doesnt say anything to ruks or behaves selfishly from the point of view of jodha on MONDAY, then one can bash him..,..his character...no problem...

but before that how can one mercilessly say so that he is a coward n etc etc...

n yes everyone has a right to voice their opinion...no issues...but if one character is to be bashed based on future happenings, then i feel there must be a " f clause"...

actually if anyone have crossed the limits of criticizing you have MODS to look after...
but even though there is no bashing actually happening you term it as bashing and bashers is too hurting yaar

hey we gave reaction for fridays episode what we saw, if you ask us to hold on not to react till monday episode airs means its wrong dear...

why should we stop posting till monday when our mind is not able to digest the fact on that day...

dont you think you are trying to control others POV ...

even on monday episode if the person keep on bashing when jalal was actually right than u can call them as bashers, but on friday episode he was wrong till the point it was aired...so why should we wait till monday for future...
why cant we make posts on jalals character on friday itself...

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Posted: 11 years ago
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I completely agree with u. The forum gives us a chance to vent out our frustration when we see our fav . Character behaving in a way which we find disappointing and I for one would like to do so immediately instead of waiting for a day or two. Similarly when a character is behaving in a manner which we love we do flood the forum with posts which appreciate them like we did for Jalal's heartfelt prayers for jodha when she was dying. For me bashing is when one criticizes an actor instead of the character he/she is playing and that too not for the acting part but for reasons that are personal to the actor like when pp are putting down rajat's girlfriend or when one is commenting on religious sentiments of so done. Beyond that I do believe we have right to say what we want.
P.s. we did appreciate ruqqaiya's character when she felt for jodha when she was dying or when she gave up her gift to Rahman n salima begum, we did not wait for another day or two till her character was once again shown in a bad light.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: vinitaj27

I completely agree with u. The forum gives us a chance to vent out our frustration when we see our fav . Character behaving in a way which we find disappointing and I for one would like to do so immediately instead of waiting for a day or two. Similarly when a character is behaving in a manner which we love we do flood the forum with posts which appreciate them like we did for Jalal's heartfelt prayers for jodha when she was dying. For me bashing is when one criticizes an actor instead of the character he/she is playing and that too not for the acting part but for reasons that are personal to the actor like when pp are putting down rajat's girlfriend or when one is commenting on religious sentiments of so done. Beyond that I do believe we have right to say what we want.

thanks vinita ...that we know the difference between bashing and criticizing...
when appreciation and love posts are not counted why we need to keep an emotion when we are disappointed and want to free our frustration on the character that day only👏
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Parijatrocks

actually if anyone have crossed the limits of criticizing you have MODS to look after...

but even though there is no bashing actually happening you term it as bashing and bashers is too hurting yaar

hey we gave reaction for fridays episode what we saw, if you ask us to hold on not to react till monday episode airs means its wrong dear...

why should we stop posting till monday when our mind is not able to digest the fact on that day...

dont you think you are trying to control others POV ...

even on monday episode if the person keep on bashing when jalal was actually right than u can call them as bashers, but on friday episode he was wrong till the point it was aired...so why should we wait till monday for future...
why cant we make posts on jalals character on friday itself...



see dear...everyone has a POV ...so do i...i replied whatever i felt is correct according to me...rest all r also welcome to post what they feel like...

if indeed one character has to be bashed or criticized by some, then if others are defending that character then it should nt affect the former and vice versa...

let everyone do whatever one feels like...just it shouldnt go to a limit where forum actions will have reactions in ones mind after logging out also...

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