Is Ruq taking Jalal's silence as consent for bad behaviour? - Page 9

Originally posted by: sweet_diksha

Hi Mansi... nice update...

i m out , so can't write more... but i ll be back on Monday, and will try another post..

Just one thing...It's time Jalal should stand up for the one he claims to love... or is he waiting for Jo to defend herself first in front of Ruku, and then if ruku tries to insult Jo, he will shut Ruku's mouth?

Diksha missed your post today

You said it bang on👍🏼

Originally posted by: sweet_diksha

Hi Mansi... nice update...

i m out , so can't write more... but i ll be back on Monday, and will try another post..

Just one thing...It's time Jalal should stand up for the one he claims to love... or is he waiting for Jo to defend herself first in front of Ruku, and then if ruku tries to insult Jo, he will shut Ruku's mouth?

Originally posted by: elasingh

It is highly unlikely that he is wating for Jodha to retaliate...Remember during hojra issue he had clearly told Ruku that her oudha is much above than Jodha...He had said it before also during Ruku's divorce issue when all were their in the room...So how can Jodha stand up for herself?

Again it is futile to say that now he has changed becoz he has realized his love for Jodha...Infact when he was crying and praying for Jodha at mazaar , he had said that he hid his love from the world but cant hide it from god...So obviously he knew that he loved her but that didn't stop him from mistreating her or let others mistreat her...

Originally posted by: Joja

Ela a few think ruq is a pampered kid. whatever she is, how long can Jalal tolerate this. Just because she is pampered, has no parents , childhood friend doesnt mean she insults everyone.

Jodha is also a begum like she is, how can she treat her like Bandi.

A few days back she said she is so greatful to her and can give anything for her(ya , except Jalal, as if he is her property). Did she forget about Jo taking poison to save him.. isnt she greatful about it now. forget greatful, she even asks her to go out and sleep. Is this kiddish ness.

It is really very high time, Jalal puts his foot down and makes things clear.

Yes, Jalal knows her from childhood, no one wants him to leave her or ignore. Do justice for both relation. Just because Jodha is adjusting and undestands doesnt mean you allow her to sleep out

And its not just out in cold, it also not safe. which husband can allow his wife to sleep outside alone?

Had mixed feelings seeing the precap.

Originally posted by: elasingh

Joja fault also lies with Jodha...Why does she let Ruku insult her? In yesterday scene when Ruku is folding blanket why does Jo says that why Ruku is doing this? Let Ruku prepare bed for herself?...

Again after recovring Jallu came to Jo's hojra and Jo was literally falling on his feet and asking abt Ben's beauty and comparing herself with her...So Jo herself think she is a bandi...

Originally posted by: elasingh

It is highly unlikely that he is wating for Jodha to retaliate...Remember during hojra issue he had clearly told Ruku that her oudha is much above than Jodha...He had said it before also during Ruku's divorce issue when all were their in the room...So how can Jodha stand up for herself?

Again it is futile to say that now he has changed becoz he has realized his love for Jodha...Infact when he was crying and praying for Jodha at mazaar , he had said that he hid his love from the world but cant hide it from god...So obviously he knew that he loved her but that didn't stop him from mistreating her or let others mistreat her...

i understand ur disappointment , ela... but the thing is that i think Jalal is waiting for Jo to stand up for herself, before he confronts Ruku.. and when he will see thst Ruku keeps humiliating Jo, and Jo is not defending herself, first he will confront Jo as to why she takes all insults from Ruku... and i do expect Jo to ask him in definite words... that she will reply Ruku in what rights, when he (her husband) hasn't given her any right and wants her only to fulfill her duties... then Jalal will understand his wrong behavior and his faults in their relation and only then he will confront Ruku... ( i m expecting this... let's see)

and anyway, it's always said... God also helps them who help themselves... So it's time now Jo stand up in front of Jalal (not Ruku) for her own... Ruku is secondary...

Hello di..I haven't been regular here in the past week, have been busy.

Mansi, I can see that you were quite upset with Jalal's silence on Friday's episode. I too was little upset initially, but after thinking a while I thought that I should wait till Monday to comment on this.
Also please note that Jalal was not in the room when Ruqu was telling Jodha about the sleeping arrangements. So he does not know that it was Ruqu who asked Jodha to sleep outside. He came inside and saw Jodha going out of the khema telling that she prefer sleeping outside. So he probably thought that she herself wanted to sleep outside. I am not telling this is the actual scenario, but this could be one possibility.
Another aspect is that we have seen how Jalal always gets Ruqu to work in favor of him without telling anything against her. This is the way he has been handling her and he was successful in the past with that. So he will not change the way he handles Ruqu so soon until he is sure that his ways are not being fruitful. If you remember he was treating Ruqu in the similar way during Jodha's birthday, after Taslim track and in many other occations. Ruqu always went from her grey shade to good shade each time Jalal spoke to her in his trademark manner reserved for Ruqu. So I think we should not expect him to change his ways with Ruqu completely and that too so soon. I think he will slowly realize that his mild ways are not working with Ruqu now and then he will reconsider his methods. We should wait and see how the dynamics change between Jalal, Jodha and Ruqu and I am sure they are going to change gradually.