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Originally posted by: subha_rath2004

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Exactly..."if ones points are not defended then the other person will be termed as basher"...not strange actually...

I like both jodha n jalal...both have their faults...n both have their share of appreciation also...that's why some love jalal ...some love jodha n some love both...

but in this thread, one can neither sing praises of jodha if one finds fault with her nordefend jalal for the mistakes he has done...n its an open forum...its not a chat club where only invitees can discuss...n I don't really see anything called bashing here if I am nt wrong...sorry I interrupted u people...but I just couldn't control myself saying what I wanted from last couple of days...

Thank you. I honestly dont know what the heck is wrong with the people here. Everytime someone disagrees, it is tagged as bashing! Why do people have to defend whose fan they are before commenting? Isn't the sole purpose of a public forum a discussion? Is everyone supposed to have the same view? My comments were nowhere close to bashing. It was going well with the person I was discussing it with and then I see all sorts of snide comments in later pages against it. What the hell is it with the intolerance?

Originally posted by: subha_rath2004

Exactly..."if ones points are not defended then the other person will be termed as basher"...not strange actually...

I like both jodha n jalal...both have their faults...n both have their share of appreciation also...that's why some love jalal ...some love jodha n some love both...

but in this thread, one can neither sing praises of jodha if one finds fault with her nor defend jalal for the mistakes he has done...n its an open forum...its not a chat club where only invitees can discuss...n I don't really see anything called bashing here if I am nt wrong...sorry I interrupted u people...but I just couldn't control myself saying what I wanted from last couple of days...

Originally posted by: anamika.sharma

Thank you. I honestly dont know what the heck is wrong with the people here. Everytime someone disagrees, it is tagged as bashing! Why do people have to defend whose fan they are before commenting? Isn't the sole purpose of a public forum a discussion? Is everyone supposed to have the same view? My comments were nowhere close to bashing. It was going well with the person I was discussing it with and then I see all sorts of snide comments in later pages against it. What the hell is it with the intolerance?

Originally posted by: Star_girl

This. Thank you.🤗

I have been trying to drive this single point home here.

This disagreement is not about character-bashing at all.

This is about someone dictating what we should and should not do in a forum. In an open, public thread.

And I am not okay with that. I really cannot care less about the character-bashing or praising otherwise. Because I blame everything on Miss Kapoor.😆

Did you know I did the same? I summarized the situation and said I am not happy with this aspect of Jodha's and this aspect of Jalal's and I blame it on the CVs. And thats bashing for some intelligent souls.

Originally posted by: subha_rath2004

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I understand dear...but I don't think anyone is going to understand here ...that's why I wanted to avoid it...but seeing u people's comments I couldn't control myself...if anyone has to understand by now he or she would have understood what we are trying to say...alas...if such a thread is really needed, then it can be named as appreciation thread or can be opened in chat clubs...but to open it n then expect none to post anything against the views is simply ignorance n saying others to go away from this thread with a different POV is arrogance which should nt be tolerated...

You echoed my thoughts. I am not posting with the intention of making the smart guys understand the point. I am posting because I am against this sort of behaviour. And I am probably one of the few on the forum who don't get intimidated by bullying of any sort. I had left the thread when stargirl commented and I didnt want her to feel alone when I hold the same views she does. So I came back.

Why should people be scared to post on a thread by a particular TM? Isn't it bullying if people have to secretly warn others through PMs to stay away from being attacked for their views? I am happy you broke your silence. Its just not fair to attack people and intimidate them into avoiding your threads.

Lets not start about name calling star girl...It is obvious from the comments how much name calling has happened and by whom... I cant take part in this cheapness...

Originally posted by: elasingh

Lets not start about name calling star girl...It is obvious from the comments how much name calling has happened and by whom... I cant take part in this cheapness...

BTW I have also received many pms saying that I should ignore such posts...

Yes Ela... just ignore such posts... why boil your head for this...

Originally posted by: elasingh

Lets not start about name calling star girl...It is obvious from the comments how much name calling has happened and by whom... I cant take part in this cheapness...

BTW I have also received many pms saying that I should ignore such posts...

Too bad then that you are the one who starts the cheapness in the first place. You received PMs after an issue escalated from the friends you made here. I got it within minutes of posting here from a stranger highlighting the bullying that is practised on your threads. There is a big difference.

You can ignore something you do not like but you cannot dictate terms on a public thread, whether you made it or not.

With regard to name calling, do you really want to take it up with the Mods? Can you even afford to do so going by the trouble you and your cronies create on the forum? Let them also see the OTT reactions of the bully gang and decide whether what I have said with regard to the level of immaturity was justified or not.

I have already asked mod to close the thread as too much mud is being spread...Very soon it will be closed ...So be fast and post as much as you can...

Topic will be reviewed.
Closed on TM's request

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