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Posted: 11 years ago
Lol, jadoo ki jhappi 🤗
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Posted: 11 years ago
I am shocked to see that my bashing is going on in my own thread..and I am not even aware pof it... ppl are saying that it is a public forum and they can post any thing...and they have a right to post...Wrong ...
It is my thread and I am resposible for it...When warning is issued it is issued to me as I have been told by mods repeatedly...
It is my duty to keep my thread fight free...
Warning levels will be raised for me not for any of you ...So when I have to pay the price abt what is happening in my thread then surely I do have a right to decide what post is in the spirit of my thread and what not...and so it is within my rights to ask both stargirl and anamika to leave my thread...
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Posted: 11 years ago
Ela..its ur thread so u have full r8 to give caution..otherwise, for altercation among solo fans at the end of the day result comes, post is closed by mod n i m vouching this issue with u b/c it was witness by me many times..therefore,if some ppl can't get this simple issues then nothing saying to them..
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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: elasingh

I am shocked to see that my bashing is going on in my own thread..and I am not even aware pof it... ppl are saying that it is a public forum and they can post any thing...and they have a right to post...Wrong ...

It is my thread and I am resposible for it...When warning is issued it is issued to me as I have been told by mods repeatedly...
It is my duty to keep my thread fight free...
Warning levels will be raised for me not for any of you ...So when I have to pay the price abt what is happening in my thread then surely I do have a right to decide what post is in the spirit of my thread and what not...and so it is within my rights to ask both stargirl and anamika to leave my thread...

Sorry but if you do not insult people who do not agree with you and pass snide remarks by calling it bashing what is a mere difference of opinion alongwith encouraging others to do the same, then maybe the Mods will not give you warnings. As your responsibility as TM, you should have been polite instead of reacting the way you did. Your threads are so notorious that I received a PM within minutes of posting my comment that I will be jumped upon for my views. Had you behaved the way a responsible TM should have, you would not have acted the way you did with a person having a different view than your own. You cannot incite someone and then act innocent. I was uber polite until I saw my comments being tagged as bashing and you calling a discussion with me as head banging. You dont get to take a moral high ground after that.
If you wish, I am open to talking with a Mod and opening my comments to scrutiny for bashing elements. Don't compartmentalize people and attack in a group and maybe you won't have to be scared of the Mods.
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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: anamika.sharma

Sorry but if you do not insult people who do not agree with you and pass snide remarks by calling it bashing what is a mere difference of opinion alongwith encouraging others to do the same, then maybe the Mods will not give you warnings. As your responsibility as TM, you should have been polite instead of reacting the way you did. Your threads are so notorious that I received a PM within minutes of posting my comment that I will be jumped upon for my views. Had you behaved the way a responsible TM should have, you would not have acted the way you did with a person having a different view than your own. You cannot incite someone and then act innocent. I was uber polite until I saw my comments being tagged as bashing and you calling a discussion with me as head banging. You dont get to take a moral high ground after that.

If you wish, I am open to talking with a Mod and opening my comments to scrutiny for bashing elements. Don't compartmentalize people and attack in a group and maybe you won't have to be scared of the Mods.

I expect you not to post in my thread in future...You probably have still not understood what I am trying to say...I am asserting my rights as TM and asking you to stay away from my thread...Other then that neither am I interested in name calling or being labelled as notorious ...
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Posted: 11 years ago
nabiil in future we should igore such posts...
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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: Star_girl


Well, I cannot refrain from giving my point of view on a topic that was strictly not okay according to me, and if that creates any "disturbances" then I can't help it. It is perfectly okay to express your opinions on some particular thread, but no thread is any group's personal property, except for the Appreciation threads. Other people have every right to comment on the thread, positively or negatively. Nobody can deprive them of that right.

That was the whole point of this argument. This is about the forum rule itself. Not really about Jalal or Jodha. So, let's just please stop the "you are a basher" rants. Because I was just commenting against a completely different point altogether, which has nothing to do with the characters of the show.

Exactly..."if ones points are not defended then the other person will be termed as basher"...not strange actually...
I like both jodha n jalal...both have their faults...n both have their share of appreciation also...that's why some love jalal ...some love jodha n some love both...
but in this thread, one can neither sing praises of jodha if one finds fault with her nor defend jalal for the mistakes he has done...n its an open forum...its not a chat club where only invitees can discuss...n I don't really see anything called bashing here if I am nt wrong...sorry I interrupted u people...but I just couldn't control myself saying what I wanted from last couple of days...
Edited by subha_rath2004 - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: elasingh


Warning levels will be raised for me not for any of you ...So when I have to pay the price abt what is happening in my thread then surely I do have a right to decide what post is in the spirit of my thread and what not...and so it is within my rights to ask both stargirl and anamika to leave my thread...



Ela.
While it is perfectly okay to want to keep your thread fight-free, and cordial, that does not mean you will explicitly order other people to "leave your thread". That is within nobody's rights. I am sad to say none of this would have happened if you did not create your own rules for a public thread. You do not like negative comments about a character on your thread, fine, ignore it since you don't want to fight. But you have, as I said, no right to restrict anybody's movement in the forum.
The problem is you see disagreeing with an opinion as fighting/bashing, someone else may not. People are free to agree or disagree in any thread they want to. If you want to take care of your warning level, then don't get it fights or order others not to enter your threads. Because that is plain bullying, sorry to say.

Don't write your own rules. That is the only objectionable part. You don't understand where we objected at all. This is really not about you. This is about the rule of this thread, and the name-calling of people who dare to disagree.
And the funny thing is people were really not fighting on the thread, it is because some people here have a tendency to tag everyone as a basher, and discourage everyone else to enter the thread, that we had to intervene.
Edited by Star_girl - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: elasingh


I expect you not to post in my thread in future...You probably have still not understood what I am trying to say...I am asserting my rights as TM and asking you to stay away from my thread...Other then that neither am I interested in name calling or being labelled as notorious ...

And I am not interested in what you expect or want. This is an open forum and you have no right to restrict members from posting wherever they wish to. You have a problem, go and talk to the Mods and see what they think of the sheer arrogance of your stand. I will post wherever I want to and however I want to. This is not your personal property.
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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: elasingh

I expect you not to post in my thread in future...You probably have still not understood what I am trying to say...I am asserting my rights as TM and asking you to stay away from my thread...Other then that neither am I interested in name calling or being labelled as notorious ...


And there we have the essence of the argument.
You CANNOT ask people to stay away from your thread.
This is not an Appreciation thread.
This is not an exclusive chat club.

This is a public thread, where nobody has any right to ask anyone to leave the thread alone. Not even the Topic-maker. That is the very point of a public forum.
And I don't know about being notorious or anything for I know you for a long time and follow your threads, but when people from your own group will tag others as bashers and haters because they disagreed about something- is when the thread will naturally gets closed down. It is not because people disagreeing, for people disagree in every thread in every forum. But those threads are not getting locked. It is because people are discouraged to enter here, in a public thread, and if they dare to, they are attacked in a passive-aggressive way. Hence, the result.
Edited by Star_girl - 11 years ago

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