husband like jalal in real life???? - Page 2

well ya swati bahut log aise hai..coz not only wife but husband also want to spend some time knw his wife before consummation..coz before consumation i think there should be love and trust between hus and wife rather than lust...some give time like Jalal...but aise log bhi hai who is opposite to Jalal...😆😆well i dnt knw much more all i will say that there should be love frm husband to his wife..not lust

Originally posted by: pavaninirupam

Agree with ur view point...

Am a practical example for this...Mine is arranged marriage...

And we both love each other even before our marriage...

Of cors we have some 8-9 months of gap between engagement and marriage...

But i have seen my friends too who does nt have that much time..stil they have feelings for each other...So i say Love can happen at any time...

i hv nvr seen any love mrg in my F*Ly yet...i knw it hpns bcz i hv seen successful mrgs even m more than 100% sure dt my mrg vl be arrange mrg...

bt i just want to knw dt giving time or all ds hpns only in serial or in real life too...bcz in serial i hv nt seen any couple who consummate thr mrg on wedding day

Originally posted by: nisha26

its a vry hi fi topic for me... nvr thought this way..

hahaha...it ws a hi fi topic for me before joining IF...when 1st time i read an ff nd sr part i ws like omg wt these writers r writing bcz i nvr read any book at all so didnt knw much abt story books bt now discussions on sr z common here...i dnt participate in dt discussions bt i read dt...

nd dnt knw how ds ques came in my mind.

@Swati

i like you topic nice post buddy ⭐️ yes in real life husband like jalal do exist even far better than jalal i can say 😊 i want to share 2 real stories one love marrige(mine) ISA
2nd arrange marrige (my friend)

1st story ..recently 19 dec 2013 i have engaged & my Nikah will be happen in febuary ... it will be a simple marrige no bidaai to groom house... reason i always wanted to do my fine arts studies from England but my family never allowed ... since 2 years i left my studies it was like a cold war .. after marrige only husband permission matters & my fiance Shasmen wants i continoue my dream to study abroad ... so he is taking a stand puting my dream before of his own feelings doing all this for me
after my Nikah in the end of Feb just after a week from our nikah i will be leaving for England for my studies ISA & he will contineou his studies & job here in AE ... we will start our marrige life as we both done with our studies & ofcourse then there will be our grand marrige celebrations.. ISA

2nd story ..i had a friend recently married 3 months back it was a arrange marrige & she haven't consumate her marrige yet ... will not go in full details but according to her she told her husband that she is not ready to take there marrige to that level both have talked about it & he respected her wife feelings & said that whenever she will agree then they take there marrige to that level..both are living together happily means when you see them both are holding hands ,smiling showing love & care for each other.. once i asked my friend do they sleep seprately... she says no they share same room & bed they are not faking anything both are comfortable & they respect each other ...

for consumate a marrige there should be approval & love ... trust & respect will come with them.

Originally posted by: Parijatrocks

@Swati

u got all this idea because of FFs and tv serials

yes di...actually in every tv shw it hpns so i related it vd real life...

i hope ds topic vl nt ruin my image😆.

Originally posted by: Tohru

i like you topic nice post buddy ⭐️ yes in real life husband like jalal do exist even far better than jalal i can say 😊 i want to share 2 real stories one love marrige(mine) ISA
2nd arrange marrige (my friend)

1st story ..recently 19 dec 2013 i have engaged & my Nikah will be happen in febuary ... it will be a simple marrige no bidaai to groom house... reason i always wanted to do my fine arts studies from England but my family never allowed ... since 2 years i left my studies it was like a cold war .. after marrige only husband permission matters & my fiance Shasmen wants i continoue my dream to study abroad ... so he is taking a stand puting my dream before of his own feelings doing all this for me
after my Nikah in the end of Feb just after a week from our nikah i will be leaving for England for my studies ISA & he will contineou his studies & job here in AE ... we will start our marrige life as we both done with our studies & ofcourse then there will be our grand marrige celebrations.. ISA

2nd story ..i had a friend recently married 3 months back it was a arrange marrige & she haven't consumate her marrige yet ... will not go in full details but according to her she told her husband that she is not ready to take there marrige to that level both have talked about it & he respected her wife feelings & said that whenever she will agree then they take there marrige to that level..both are living together happily means when you see them both are holding hands ,smiling showing love & care for each other.. once i asked my friend do they sleep seprately... she says no they share same room & bed they are not faking anything both are comfortable & they respect each other ...

for consumate a marrige there should be approval & love ... trust & respect will come with them.

awww...how swt...u r so lucky. ur fiance z vry supportive. i thnk most happiest moment of our life z when we achieve r goal nd u r vry near...bcz support z vry big thng for achieving a goal...

many many coungratulation for ur wedding nd all d best for ur future..

nd yes now i got my answer...it means ds kind of guys really exist in ds world now i can say...

If I speak honestly, the chances are very, very slim. Men generally equate sexuality with love in their heads. So, in the real, normal instances of the arranged marriages ( that I have observed closely and talked to the respective members), the consummation happens fairly soon. And before they "fall in love". This "taking one day at a time" doesn't happen in real life. Very very rarely, if ever.

Originally posted by: anshfever

yes di...actually in every tv shw it hpns so i related it vd real life...

i hope ds topic vl nt ruin my image😆.

even i dont know much about this after marraige stuffs