husband like jalal in real life????

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Posted: 11 years ago
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frm so many days i had a question in my mind...

in real life is thr any husband who gives time to his wife if she dnt wanna go further...i mean dnt wanna consumate her mrg if she z uncomfortable with her husband...reason can be anything nt same as jo ja...

bcz in arrange marriage wife dnt knw her husband before so she may hesitate for ds...in my side mostly arrange marriage happens nd sometime they dnt get time bw engagement nd mrg so ds ques came in my mind...

plz share ur views...guys plz cmnt nd encourage us to open new thread on new topics bcz if we new members dnt get gud response dn we get demoralise...

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: anshfever

frm so many days i had a question in my mind...

in real life is thr any husband who gives time to his wife if she dnt wanna go further...i mean dnt wanna consumate her mrg if she z uncomfortable with her husband...reason can be anything nt same as jo ja...

bcz in arrange marriage wife dnt knw her husband before so she may hesitate for ds...in my side mostly arrange marriage happens nd sometime they dnt get time bw engagement nd mrg so ds ques came in my mind...

plz share ur views...guys plz cmnt nd encourage us to open new thread on new topics bcz if we new members dnt get gud response dn we get demoralise...





yeah...thr are gud guys also even in this generation like jalal...and had seen them...who had given time to thr beloved wifes to accept them...
Edited by Gem12 - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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no idea much regarding this... institution of marraige

i think how can two people trust each other just after the marriage...

as in arranged marriage u wont be knowing other than what ur parents told about tht guy

i think it takes atleast some months to consumate the marraige ...u need to take sometime to understand your partner first...



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Posted: 11 years ago
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yes i am sure there are instances where both the partners take time to get used to each other b4 consummation specially in arranged marriages
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Posted: 11 years ago
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yeah...ds z what i wanna say. how can a gal go further without taking time.

i dnt knw anything abt these things...mai to abhi bachi hu...

while watching these tv shws i thght abt ds...
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Dis question s nt of my domain dear pepepe:-D:-D
I think its necessary for couple to gt to knw each other before dey gt closer:-)
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Posted: 11 years ago
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actually i think some of the people think that arrange marriage means that a marriage took between those two who dislike each other ... and this thinking is absolutely wrong arrange marriage means that the person are not fallen in love with each other and they themself asked their family for the proposal ! and what i have seen that even if its arrange marriage , some of the bride and grooms have feelings in their hearts for that person till marriage and after marriage grew more ! Well i don't have any experience about it 😆 coz i am 15 only
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: ---Mehak---

actually i think some of the people think that arrange marriage means that a marriage took between those two who dislike each other ... and this thinking is absolutely wrong arrange marriage means that the person are not fallen in love with each other and they themself asked their family for the proposal ! and what i have seen that even if its arrange marriage , some of the bride and grooms have feelings in their hearts for that person till marriage and after marriage grew more ! Well i don't have any experience about it 😆 coz i am 15 only


Agree with ur view point...
Am a practical example for this...Mine is arranged marriage...
And we both love each other even before our marriage...
Of cors we have some 8-9 months of gap between engagement and marriage...
But i have seen my friends too who does nt have that much time..stil they have feelings for each other...So i say Love can happen at any time...
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Posted: 11 years ago
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its a vry hi fi topic for me... nvr thought this way..
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Posted: 11 years ago
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a very interesting question thrown up by u.
As Salima begum said its more of a responsibility of a woman to take steps further .Having said so, u got to be husband like Jalal ! . There r some like that.😊

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