What is this Love?? Does it make one blind?

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Alakh

@Autumn_Rose

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Posted: 11 years ago

#61

Originally posted by: nabiii
Love is an abstract noun which is untouchable only is understandable..baas mujhai aur kuch nahi pata..
Paar tumhai kaya huya! Payer ka side effect jo now a days u r making many posts on isqk/mohabaat/payer? Lol

Trying to figure things out.😆

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KDR81

@KDR81

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Posted: 11 years ago

#62

Love is like water ...it takes the shape of the medium holding it...If the medium is tainted , then the Love in it gets tainted too...😊
Like water , it can wash you away when comes as a flood...
Like water, Can soothe and cool you down when left withered by cruelty and enmity
Like water , Can quench your thirst after being left parched by Hatred...

But in reality of life, it's like having selfless trust in someone and NOT expecting anything in Return...😊( Which again is surely a very very rare phenomenon..😆.)

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sonia_1

@sonia_1

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Posted: 11 years ago

#63

Love is trust, respect , admiration and kindness.😊

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Riya

@princessonline

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Posted: 11 years ago

#64

Amazing topic and I really mean it! Very thought provoking. I kind of wanted to relate this to Bakshi Bano and her love for her husband. I can't speak for everyone, but I know most people have one person they blindly love. It doesn't have to be a significant other, it can be their child, sibling, parent or etc. When it comes to that person they are usually pretty weak and cannot make good decisions. Now, I am not sure to what extent that person can go, but most often people will do the wrong thing just to please the person they love but I am not sure they would go to such extremes.

On a personal note, I tend to stand up and support the person I love, and I am sure I ignore some of their faults, but at the same time I am also quick to point out any major problems or issues anyone I love has. I don't think blindly loving someone is ever a sign of a healthy relationship; therefore, I suggest making sure you're taking others, including yourself into consideration before blindly making choices. At the end love to an extent and never love someone more than they love you. One sided love is what makes people go crazy and do all sorts of things.

But at the end, when we love we ignore certain things and that's just a human thing to do. Maybe not the right thing to do, but we are human so cannot expect to be perfect at every domain in life.

Love means to me: I think love would be best described has feeling close and secure with someone. Being able to trust and run to them with your problems. Or just feeling an emotional bonding.

Even love that brings out the worst in you is love. Not the kind of love you want to experience though. 😆. For Jalal it's being able to trust Jodha that showcases his love. Love is different for everyone one it. Different people love for different reasons. Not selfish reasons, but for different things. Love for your significant other is different from love for your child and so on and so forth.

Riya

Edited by princessonline - 11 years ago