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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: deejagi

The way jalal was clunching his fist with a handfull of his Sherwani to get a control on his boiling rage during the Kawali,

Yup it was well shot! I noticed that bit too

Even if there was some love (prem) in their heart for each other, it would have had a natural death the moment they heard about her pregnancy.

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The word TRUST had no place in this scenario as even a mother will not trust her daughter if a doctor declares her as pregnant.

I know...that's why I don't understand why members are confused why Jalal or Jodha are not trusting each other😕

Trust factor doesn't arise at the moment as the pregnancy was declared by a known hakim (if she is one) who had 20 years of great experience in analysing pregnancy... If it was a case of theft or murder, one acts on the trust but not when it is about the conduct.

Conduct is also very very difficult to prove...

It could be either Bakshi Bano for the fear of her husband or it could be Javedha who would have been made fool of by Adham by cajoling her that with that medicine

Javedha...nahin yaar😭 I love Javedha

No, Jodha will not go back to Amer for sure as she has been clearly told by her mother after MC track that, she is not welcomed as a refugee... so, if she choose to stay away from Agra, she might go to Matura, the place of her beloved god Kanha where she might look for some peace.

😭 Jodha ko Meera Bai bana diya

Even if Jalal prove her innocent, it is not so easy to come out of your missery of the fact that her own husband suspected her charecter. So it might take months if not years (in real sense not with so many episodes) for Jodha to come out of that hurt and to collect her heart and soul.

You're right...also I hope Jodha's melting and transition slow and steady...i.e. not dragging with too many days of ghrina...and yet, not one day hatred and next day love sort of screenplay either!😕

Her future pregnancy will for sure kindle all the memories of her current agony

That's true...only loved ones can cure that pain!

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: deepika45

even i liked episode, with same point

awww thanks dear😳

Originally posted by: abhi786

Lashy even though the episode is sad and the track is streching, the episode was good.

You're right - as in a few tit-bits of it were good...

JJ faceoff is so good..
JJ face-offs are ALWAYS good..keeps the interest up!😃

You can see jodha broke down with mothi and angry by throwing the fruits plate and cursing herself hating the day she got married with him.
I felt very bad for her in that scene...😭

Maham, was quick the use the situation according to her motive only to "shame Jodha" in public. So the suspence started with someone mixing in the milk. Salima is a sweetheart heart, testing the milk by drinking herself.
Salima a sweetheart, Maham shrewd and mystery intriguing!

I think tommorw HB will say Jodha to leave agra, while she is ready to leave Salima may help and jalaal may stop side with jodha. I want jodha to stop talking to anyone, not to HB.. I know HB was right, but atleast try to have another check-up to confirm..
Same here...

I think if the culprit is Shariff, may be we will come to know the Durg truth also, which will shake Jalaal much more.
I think the culprit is Shareef too ...
apparently, in history Shareef was pardoned by Akbar thrice after which he was disposed off..when Akbar became fed up of his misdeeds😊

Edited by lashy - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Lovely, perceptive analysis, Jaya. I agree completely about the trust factor being ruled out in such cases.

But as for your "Even if Jalal prove her innocent, it is not so easy to come out of your missery of the fact that her own husband suspected her charecter. So it might take months if not years (in real sense not with so many episodes) for Jodha to come out of that hurt and to collect her heart and soul. " I do not see why this has to be so.

Why is it that only a woman's character has to be sacrosanct, and questioning it, even with the kind of ironclad reasons Jalal has for doing so, is seen as some sort of unforgiveable insult when it is proved to be unwarranted? Which husband, Rajvanshi or Mughal, would have not reacted exactly as Jalal did? He does not hit her or threaten to expose her or behead her, he only says that he will have her investigated. Othello strangled his beloved Desdemona on a similar suspicion with much less "evidence",

Is a man's character and honour not equally sacrosanct? Jodha condemns Jalal and trashes his honour savagely, and she will be proved wrong there too. But when she says later that she had good reasons for attacking him, that will provide closure for Jalal? Why this double standard favouring the woman?

I would want both of them to agree that each was justified in what he/she said to the other, thank Kanha/Allah that they came out of it intact, and treat it as a lesson for BOTH of them.

NOT have Jalal feel guilty while Jodha starts swanning it around as before and being as rude and uppity to him as is her wont (her manners were atrocious when he brings her her birthday gift). She had more reason to trust his word than he had to trust hers, as I have discussed in my last post, but the best is to let bygones be bygones and start afresh.

Shyamala

Originally posted by: deejagi

Even I liked it despite having both teh leads in agony. The way they emoted themselves and carried themselves through out the celebration was wonderful (both as royal couple and as the actors)

The way jalal was clunching his fist with a handfull of his Sherwani to get a control on his boiling rage during the Kawali, I was fearing that he might scream Bus, and hoping against my hopes that let him control himself atleast through teh celebration... The way 2 men were standing in front of him with Danda's in hand looked like preventing him from getting up...

Even if there was some love (prem) in their heart for each other, it would have had a natural death the moment they heard about her pregnancy.

The word TRUST had no place in this scenario as even a mother will not trust her daughter if a doctor declares her as pregnant.

Jalal knows that he had never slept with her and if she is pregnant then it had to be with someone else as a lady can't be pregnant without a man (not by drinking some herbs or with some prayers)... So he is right with his suspecion but...

Jodha knew very well that she was a virgin till that fateful night and she is not aware of anything from that night since she was unconcious and if at all she is Pregnant, then it has to be the result of the stormy noght which brought storm in her relation and by her own husband who had been the custodian of her on that night. So she is right with her accusization, but...

Trust factor doesn't arise at the moment as the pregnancy was declared by a known hakim (if she is one) who had 20 years of great experience in analysing pregnancy... Only if she had said that she suspects pregnancy, they would have tried to look for some proof to prove the theory wrong. Both would have been thought about the possibilities of mis diagnosis and would have looked profs to save the other but here they have no reason to not to believe the lady doctor...so

If it was a case of theft or murder, one acts on the trust but not when it is about the conduct.

It could be either Bakshi Bano for the fear of her husband or it could be Javedha who would have been made fool of by Adham by cajoling her that with that medicine, Jodha will become mother and you will be praised for your efforts or omwthing in that line...The way the lady, who hit her forehead looked more like Javedha than Bakshi Banu...

No, Jodha will not go back to Amer for sure as she has been clearly told by her mother after MC track that, she is not welcomed as a refugee... so, if she choose to stay away from Agra, she might go to Matura, the place of her beloved god Kanha where she might look for some peace.

Even if Jalal prove her innocent, it is not so easy to come out of your missery of the fact that her own husband suspected her charecter. So it might take months if not years (in real sense not with so many episodes) for Jodha to come out of that hurt and to collect her heart and soul.

A word Sorry can never bring a dead person alive ... You stab a person after that if you say it was a mistake and you never inetnded to hurt fellow or if you say you were too angry to realise what you did or said, that doesn't erase the hurt or clear the wound mark. The pain may reduce or subsided but the mARk left by that wound is for the life time if not erased by cosmetic surgery and that also will cause some more pain to some other part of your body. (like in this case, her future pregnancy will for sure kindle all the memories of her current agony)

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Posted: 11 years ago
#94

Originally posted by: sashashyam



Is a man's character and honour not equally sacrosanct? Jodha condemns Jalal and trashes his honour savagely, and she will be proved wrong there too. But when she says later that she had good reasons for attacking him, that will provide closure for Jalal? Why this double standard favouring the woman?

I would want both of them to agree that each was justified in what he/she said to the other, thank Kanha/Allah that they came out of it intact, and treat it as a lesson for BOTH of them.

NOT have Jalal feel guilty while Jodha starts swanning it around as before and being as rude and uppity to him as is her wont (her manners were atrocious when he brings her her birthday gift).

Well worded aunty..

Though I don't agree with the bit that she has more reason to trust his word than he hers (because both have their principles they stick to)..I do agree that both their reputes are being tarnished by each other...
And yes, I'm nearly certain that while Jalal will seek forgiveness for having mistrusted her, she is not going to do so...😆
Edited by lashy - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Lashy my dear,

What sort of love story is this going to be if she is to forever have the upper hand? Why should she have it at all? He does not have to apologise to her at all, nor she to him.

As for @blue, it seems I did not make myself clear enough. I cannot do better than to reproduce the relevant extract from my latest post,. the part about rational faith.

Shyamala Aunty
************************************************************************************************************************ The other is what can be called rational faith. This is anchored in one's knowledge of the other person's character, based on personal experience of him/her, which assures one that this person could not have committed the crime of which he/she is accused. One might have hoped that by now, both Jodha and Jalal might have developed enough of this kind of rational faith to be able to defuse this ugly crisis right away. But that was not to be.

One would have expected this more from Jodha than from Jalal. She has had repeated proof of Jalal's capacity for self restraint, not just on the road to Ajmer, but day after day after day in Amer itself. She must have realized that none of this would have happened if Jalal had been a standard issue husband who claims his conjugal rights at once, and she, as his wife, would be expected to comply.

Then there was his epiphany at Ajmer, and again at the Kali temple, where Jodha herself perceived his capacity for absorption in the Divine.There are the persistent efforts Jalal has made recently to woo her, to take her likes and dislikes into account, and this with rare perceptiveness and sensitivity: the revelation about her lost payal, the exquisitely chosen gift for her.

And above all, his readiness to abandon his throne and his people to keep his promise to her (it is revealing that despite her being a princess born and raised to place a king's rajadharma first always, she does not even think of this, the biggest sacrifice that he is ready to make for her sake, but instead harps only on his standing up to the maulvis).

Any normal woman would taken note of all this, drawn her own conclusions, and developed some rational faith in him. She would not accept so readily that such a man could suddenly lapse so badly.

For Jalal, the breakdown of his faith in her is easier to understand. This faith is limited to believing that though she hates him, she will not plot to kill him. As for her personal morality, all he knows is her distaste for any kind of intimacy with him. All this need not, and does not add up to blind faith in her personal virtue, and it is this lack of trust that comes thru in the Diwan-e-Am scene.

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Originally posted by: lashy

Well worded aunty..

Though I don't agree with the bit that she has more reason to trust his word than he hers (because both have their principles they stick to)..I do agree that both their reputes are being tarnished by each other...
And yes, I'm nearly certain that while Jalal will seek forgiveness for having mistrusted her, she is not going to do so...😆

Originally posted by: sashashyam



Is a man's character and honour not equally sacrosanct? Jodha condemns Jalal and trashes his honour savagely, and she will be proved wrong there too. But when she says later that she had good reasons for attacking him, that will provide closure for Jalal? Why this double standard favouring the woman?

I would want both of them to agree that each was justified in what he/she said to the other, thank Kanha/Allah that they came out of it intact, and treat it as a lesson for BOTH of them.

NOT have Jalal feel guilty while Jodha starts swanning it around as before and being as rude and uppity to him as is her wont (her manners were atrocious when he brings her her birthday gift).

Edited by sashashyam - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Hi Shyamal,
Sorry if I had hurt anyones feelings or emotions in my post (in BLUE). When I wrote that, all I felt was from an emotional front (of a woman), how difficult it will be for a woman to comeout of that and I have never found fault in Jalal's reason's for questioning her. As a husband, he has all the rights to think like and also to question her and I am really wondered at his patience to last so long (almost 2 days before confronting her).
It difficult to come out of the nightmare for a woman than a man as he will be divulging his attention in various acts (say in this case, jalal went for a sword fight practice, where he could vent out some of his anger, frustartion) And in many cases, kings used to go out for wars or hunting just to divert their mind from a burning issue. But that is not the case with a woman. She will be mulling over the same thing over and over again which makes her the victim for a longer time than a man.
These are the sort of things which come afront in the most vulnerable situations like, once after this issue is resolved, just think Jalal goes to Jodha and might look for intimacy, that may be the precise moment she will remeber this untouchable / touchable issues. Still I am not telling Jalal will not get those images, but a man is way too stronger to control their emotions in such cases where as a woman will be too vulnerable.
Jaya

Originally posted by: sashashyam

Lovely, perceptive analysis, Jaya. I agree completely about the trust factor being ruled out in such cases.

But as for your "Even if Jalal prove her innocent, it is not so easy to come out of your missery of the fact that her own husband suspected her charecter. So it might take months if not years (in real sense not with so many episodes) for Jodha to come out of that hurt and to collect her heart and soul. " I do not see why this has to be so.

Why is it that only a woman's character has to be sacrosanct, and questioning it, even with the kind of ironclad reasons Jalal has for doing so, is seen as some sort of unforgiveable insult when it is proved to be unwarranted? Which husband, Rajvanshi or Mughal, would have not reacted exactly as Jalal did? He does not hit her or threaten to expose her or behead her, he only says that he will have her investigated. Othello strangled his beloved Desdemona on a similar suspicion with much less "evidence",

Is a man's character and honour not equally sacrosanct? Jodha condemns Jalal and trashes his honour savagely, and she will be proved wrong there too. But when she says later that she had good reasons for attacking him, that will provide closure for Jalal? Why this double standard favouring the woman?

I would want both of them to agree that each was justified in what he/she said to the other, thank Kanha/Allah that they came out of it intact, and treat it as a lesson for BOTH of them.

NOT have Jalal feel guilty while Jodha starts swanning it around as before and being as rude and uppity to him as is her wont (her manners were atrocious when he brings her her birthday gift). She had more reason to trust his word than he had to trust hers, as I have discussed in my last post, but the best is to let bygones be bygones and start afresh.

Shyamala

Edited by deejagi - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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@ jaya , lashy and shyamala aunty

iam sorry to get into the conversation going on about jodha .

What i fail to understand that even if there are MU's now , would jodha not evaluate the situation after everything is settled . How can she blame jalal, when she did not believe him and how can she overlook the fact tht a third party knew about their state of relationship and took the advantage of the same very easily .

How can she not understand that she and jalal both were victims because the lack of trust . being angry and disgusted about the situation n jalal is okay but the basic fact which stares her in the face would be the one tht she fell prey to the situation not because of jalal, it was because she did not trust her own husband . She is hurt and in pain because she holds jalal responsible for it, but what when she knows that jalal was not the one who did this saazish or foul play . How can she deny that taali dono haathon se bajti hain , fact .

And if she is sensible enough she would clear things with jalal and would let him know tht from now on she trusts him. She has to get an stand strong and beware of the others who try to create rift between her and jalal. SHe might not be in love with jalal but her good is in to protect her relationship and marriage to him fiercly.

Kashi
Edited by ginco - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Loved the epi 😳 N views 😊
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Posted: 11 years ago
Kashi..once all this gets sorted out, I'm sure she'll go back to being herself...because that's how the CVs will want it to be...

They don't want the rational Jo who spoke up for Shehenshah in front of her family because then the story cannot keep fluctuating and thus audiences hooked! They want it to look like the college girl constantly at logger-heads with her handsome arrogant senior - till they both eventually fall in love!😆 Only the story is dressed up as a historical fiction - that's all!

Jaya, I don't think what you've stated is wrong at all..we're all just bringing about different perspectives of the same (nonsensical) track to the table - that's all😃 Besides, such a kind person like you wouldn't be able to offend anyone, even if you wanted to!😳

Aunty, I too am in accordance that Jalal shouldn't be the only one to seek forgiveness - both haven't trusted each other (and I blame circumstances for it)
So, if seeking forgiveness needs be done- both must do it or none do it at all!😃



Edited by lashy - 11 years ago

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