Anyone annoyed of Jodha! Disappointed? - Page 2

Originally posted by: uppaas

me the biggest 1 ...I wonder how jalal is falling for her...😆😆😆

😆 I love her character and everything, but I wish she would be a little nicer. 😊

😊I am also somewhat annoyed with her long ghrina lectures thought after the tiger attack she wont utter the word ghrina but still it is justified she cant suddenly love a person or blush when he is flirting with her she has gone through alot she was not aware till mudikhai to whom she is marrying also in agra there was a new drama every day she has to face a new challenge every day it was really painful where each and everyday she has to listen something about her guroor or blah blah blah insult about her being called as a winning trophy also her death was not also in her hand
Am ok if she takes her own time for this relation😊

i agree jodha's character has been very inconsistent. But i don't find her annoying because she saw jalaal's cruelty before seeing his goodness. You remember the proverb "" first impression is the best impression'' same happening with jodha. Although jalaal has done so many things for her it's hard for her to accept jalaal and move on.

Originally posted by: aanchal_c

no i am not disappointed in jodha bcoz i understand what she feels,if and when she tries to take a step to jalal for whatever reason she has to take 10 steps back...be it bcoz of jalal or anyone else...jalal has done a lot of good but she cant forget the bad he has done bcoz the bad outweighs the good by leaps and bounds...manhandling someone,saying u married the person bcoz u wanted to hurt her and then flirting with her docent nullify jalal's sins...if he has done good he has done bad also and likewise for jodha...jodha hates him bcoz she has experienced his sins firsthand,seen them and heard abt them also...so both have a right to hate each other and both should try to get over that hatred also.

I have always supported and found Jodha's behavior justifiable. I have never felt that she shouldn't be angry with Jalal for what he has done to her because I tried to put myself in her shoes and understand what it must have felt like for her to go through what she has gone through. I am not saying that Jalal is a saint and that she should love him and go gaga over him just yet but I also don't feel that you have to respond to someone's act of kindness in such a rude way. Every time he does something nice for her she responds in such a negative way. She always tells him she appreciates what he has done but knows there is something in it for him. I don't think either of them will ever be able to let go of their hatred toward each other if they respond to each other they way they do. Jalal is being nice so she should be a bit nicer too. I am not saying she should forget everything and love him I want her to take the good with the bad. She should soften up where she needs to and have her guard up when necessary. If he is treating her nicely she should also treat him a little nicer. I think she should appreciate the things he does for not just hate him for the things he has done in the past. I know we have different opinions, but I do understand where you are coming from. It's just that I feel if they are going to get anywhere she is going to have give him a chance.

Riya

Originally posted by: uppaas

I agree with u Jodha sees what is convienent to her...her marriage also she blame and has grinha for Jalal but it was her father who got her married suprising she only blames Jalal...

Also I want to add Jodha took the bullets out from the gun...IT WAS THE SHENSHA the most powerful she was dealing with did she think twice before doing such an act if it was any 1 else it wld be termed as saazishhh...and wld be hanged for endangering the kings life

She got away scott free...

Also want to end my rant ...with this when she needs something from Jalal she goes running to him to protect her family or whatever and he given in..BUT SHE IS NEVER GRATEFUL or does not see his good side but goes on with her so called GRINHA

How come she is willing to take favours from some one she hates!!!!

THIS is what I posted on another postt😕😕😕

I have always thought she had a reason to hate him, but if someone has risked their life for you multiple times and is changing to become a bit better you should appreciate that and respect them for it. I think she has formed an image of Jalal that she is unwilling to change. I don't know about everyone, but I am pretty sure all of us have had people in our lives that have caused us great amount of grief and we've hated them. I sure have and even if I have hated someone beyond words if ever they have done something for me that was nice, I responded in a positive way. Sure the person has done bad things, but that doesn't mean you turn a blind eye on the things they have done right and the favors they have given you! Thanks for commenting. I am glad I am not the only one who feels the same way.
Riya

Hi Riya,

Originally posted by: Star_girl

I don't like Jodha most of the time, but I always thought that's the point. She is not an all-virtuous do-gooder kind. And the majority are slightly disappointed with her, so no you're not alone. I sincerely hope that Jodha at least tries to change her stance. That will be a blessed relief.

Loved your post by the by. Do come to the forum more. 😊 Happy to have you here.

I just wanted to say before I begin that I love your DP! The movie was brilliant. 😃

Jodha has her faults which makes her humanly and that helps me to connect to her character as well because she's not "perfect" like every other protagonist, but I think her imperfections are reaching beyond the point where I can say she is "a sensible person"! I do hope she sees the good in him because if both of them are going to dwell on the past, as Jodha is doing now, I don't think we are going to be able to get a love story because if that were the case then what can Jalal do to change her mind. He's already risked his life so...

Thanks for commenting. I try to post as often as I can but thank you so much! Glad you liked the post!😳

Riya

Originally posted by: ARandKJFan

I feel Jodha's anger is justified because whenever she feels happy about something, then Jalal or Maham or some one else comes and ruins it. Though he may have done some good things, he has done many more bad things to her.

He falsely accused her, forced her into marriage, almost beheaded her, defamed her brother and what not.

Jalal has gotten his punishment in his almost death but when you see from her point of view, she couldn't predict that Mohan was going to come and try to take his life. She accepted the slaps quietly.

Jodha has been insulted and blamed falsely too.

Jalal on the other hand is treated royally by her family and though he has said nothing on her offenses, even he knows that she is justified.

That is just my Point of view. :)

What Maham or people in his household do to her is something he cannot be blamed for. What he does to her is what he can be held accountable for. I agree with you in that she has a reason to be mad and I address that in my post that I have found her anger justifiable up until now. I am in no way trying to say that Jodha should forget what Jalal has done to her because it is quite impossible to forget what someone has done to you even when you have forgiven them. But, what I am saying is that she should be a bit more open-minded when it comes to Jalal. If he is being nice, is it necessary to bark at him? I just wanted her to be more appreciative of what Jalal has done for her. I don't want her to forget the bad, but I also don't want her to neglect the good he has done for her because from what I see she takes the bad and constantly associates him with the bad, but when he does something good for her out of the kindness of her heart she is quick to think of reasons why she shouldn't be thankful or why he isn't so good after all. Her behavior is no longer justifiable. For example, when they went on a boat ride and Jalal asked "I heard you like boat riding." She decided to give him an obnoxious answer and said he always wants to argue. She could have been polite and said "yes" or "no". You don't have to be rude at all times to someone you hate, especially when they are being kind to you. I hope I haven't offended you. This just what I though. Thanks for commenting and hope to hear more form you. 😃

Riya

Originally posted by: KDR81

Hello Riya,
Same feeling here dear😕...(I hv expressed this in other thread also) I really love Jodha's Character and Paridhi as well... but am really very much disappointed as quite a few of us are here...So u r Not alone...I know may be it's the CVs who are the culprit here...but even after today's epi with the Mandir wala scene, I had expected her to act in a mature and dignified manner and to come across as a Real Royal Princess with a BIG heart...But Alas...Was disappointed and bombarded with insensitive and loathsome Ghrinaa dialogue on her part 🤢even after she witnessed the Mammoth step that Jalaal took...!! I am NOT EVEN SURE WHETHER SHE REALLY HAS THE SENSE TO ESTIMATE THE RISK HER HUBBY TOOK AND THE SENSITIVITY HE SHOWED HERE😕...Whereas I must say that she did very well with the MA scene...acted every bit of a Royal princess and Queen...😊 I don't know but with Jalaal in front , she seems to lose all her finesse and sensible attitude ...😭
The Pre-cap gave some hope to us...let's see what the Cvs come up with now tomorrow...😳!!

Regards,
Kamal

I agree with you. The precap gave me hope for a romantic scene, but I hopeless when it comes to Jodha's hatred and anger subsiding. Even when we think she is getting close to that point we are proven wrong. I am not saying her hatred is wrong but when someone you hate risks their life you have no choice but to appreciate that and be nice to them because what they have done in the past may be really bad, but the just saved your life. On top of that, what Jalal did was huge. He bowed down and did that only for Jodha. Just so what she promised to the goddess would not go unfulfilled. Just thinking about the era this show is set in with the fact that Jalal is an heartless emperor makes it all the more breathtaking and unreal. I don't think anything would do that for someone who spews venom almost all the time and especially when the vow was to kill you and cut your head off and bring it and put in the goddesses feet. I would be super angry if someone said they promised god that. I would hate him with every fiber of my being, but what does he do? Go and bow down. That takes a lot of love and courage. You don't do that for just about anyone. Thanks for commenting. Hope to see your comments in my posts again. 😊

Riya