My heart went out to jodha today - Page 2

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Posted: 12 years ago
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Agree with your post. Felt really bad for Jodha today😭. Though she has been wrong too in not understanding Jalal, I feel such a personal matter should have never been discussed in court. She was left with no other choice after being ridiculed in such a manner.



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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: john909

i dont understand why it is so terrible. jodha herself is responsible for her situation. i get it that her marriage to jalal was not under normal circumstances and she was the ultimate bakra for saving amer. but after that she hated jalal to no extent despite of seeing how lenient he has been towards her when it came to her wishes. he never crossed a line wid her. i am not saying she should fall in love wid him but start acting like grown up by accepting current circumstances instead of nagging abt how much she hates jalal and how suffocating she feels in agra. has she ever even tried to understand jalal? today her subconsious was right. she was prejudiced since the day she entered agra. she never even tried to understand the traditions or jalal. jalal atleast has been trying. there are certain things that jalal is at fault too but i do not blame jalal for jodha's current state coz it was her wish to leave agra. jalal never said so until that holi incident. before that he was simply respecting her wish and trying to set her free.


yes i agree with u but still i think this desnt need a public announcement n shud b sorted privately. This humiliation cannot be tolerated even by 16th century woman let alone a princess.
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Posted: 12 years ago
#13
i felt bad for when esp when jalal said that he wont let her humilaite mughal sultanat like that...
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Posted: 12 years ago
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I also felt bad for her because at that moment she feels she was unwanted in both Amer and Agra..😭
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: Maano_billi



Agreed it wz Jodha's wish who wanted to go bck not Jalal's , Jodha is resonsible 4 d situation herself , the prob is she isnt able 2 get rid ov her grihna nd understand dt Jallu is her legally wedded husband now therez no turnin back she shud try nd understand him!! no1 is perfect I admit Jallu has faults too but nothing is as big as Jodha's grihna nd unacceptance ov d situation rite now 🤢


thank you. that is what i have been trying to say. its just people are actually feeling bad for her. i would have felt bad for her if she was in this situation due to reasons other than herself but that is not the case here. she is not a kid. she does 3 things throughout her day. judges jalal by taunting him all the time by giving him those irritating lectures, tell him she hates him and keeps saying she feels suffocated in agra.

from the lectures she gives to jalal all the time, it is quite evident that she understands emotions but she fails to understand jalal's behavior coz of her prejudice against him. loved the dupatta scene. jalal was bang on over there. the whole point is i want jodha to grow up and behave like a queen not a kid by accepting her reality and moving on with it instead of creating problems for her family and jalal. 😊
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Posted: 12 years ago
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I am not debating about who is right or wrong here..but royal affairs would have been discussed in court...not behind closed doors like a family meeting today...it is the merger/disintegration of two cities/states...its a political issue... not just two people involved here...if it was a major thing equivalent to the 'Talaaq' obviously a court would have to be summoned to it...😕 there were different kinds of courts for discussing different things...this must have been a private court called Diwaan-e-khaas (thanks to khush for raking my memory!)
Ironically, kings had all the power to overrule decisions...and yet decisions on their life were generally discussed in court in consultation with other people

When J-J were still in talks about it initially, he'd asked her not to mention it to anyone since nothing was decided then...also, at that time he was still cordial...
however; now after the Holi fiasco, he had NO intention of keeping her back...so he summoned a court meeting to have her sent back...
It all sounds bad enough for today...but I can't imagine it would have been out of the norm for that day..especially since its a political marriage forming the alliance of two regions...

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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: Annu_Pari

U said it all dear,Agreed!
I cried wid Jodha today 😭 😭




exactly my thoughts. i did 😭 too when mainavati did not accept to take her back but especially when she said in front all. although, somethings that mainazati said jodha should work on her marriage was right bit blaming her completely for this marriage and saying what they lost was wrong bec it was them who forced jodha.
Edited by ashpat - 12 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Good Post

But It was jodha's decision to leave agra...her husband never asked her to leave for amber Jalal only gave her option to choose. He even tried to make her stay pleasant in the last two days allowed her to play hoki (BR]
Though marriage is personal Jodha-Jalal marriage is political alliance which is subject of deewan e khaas as leaving is nullifying marriageR]

Even I felt bad for Jodha when menavathi rejected her publicly...still I loved menavathi for trying to mirror the flaws of jodha. Though she stayed as true rajputani queen...I wish she spoke to her daughter in private.

But this public rejection is needed to bring the suicide track and to move further
Edited by nandininandu - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Good post dear...yes it was a very emotional scene...poor girl had no place to go 😔

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