Originally posted by: sanfan
But what advice can you give her at this stage… she is doing what she should be doing - staying away from Ani cos she knows this doesn’t lead to anything as their family unit is alive and kicking… even if you are able to break down her other defensiveness… it’s all in the past… the mistakes the misunderstandings etc …
As of now what advice will you give her knowing that baby is still in the picture? Will you ask her to marry Ani as he co-parents with Arshi? But that’s a call for Ani not her alone right?
I would give her advice of not be sacrificial all the time and putting herself at the forefront atp...and that means not remain in any matters of Anishit including bachha...if she really wants Arshi to have sukhi sansaar with Ani, she would have looked for her own arrangements in Kolkata once she came back to the city...instead she took up Arshi's responsibility...what was the reason? Reason was she considers Ani as her husband and hence apne pati ke paap ka bhaar utha rahi hai...this is not the way of staying away from Ani or Arshi!
. ..once she is out of jail, her only focus should be staying in Kolkata, looking for a job and focus on herself only...and if that's means directly challanging Arshi professionally, she must not hesitate...If we consider Arshi, evil BH and even Runak's pov that Runak came close because Arshi was hateful to Jhanak, then also Jhanak did what she could...she has foregone her wife rights...but professionally Arshi can be challanged by anyone...waha pe Jhanak agayi isliye meri zindagi barbaad ho gayi is a bullshit and just reflects her inability to accept her own inferior dancing capabilities..
...regarding counselling...she is just 23...and seen things that none should see at such an early age...she has literally become a zombie...she needs some handhilding for navigating her own life, not just her lovelife...
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