Originally posted by: sanfan
Absolutely interesting points…About the mockery… if I might say..she is placed expeditiously at the same place where Ani’s character trait of not challenging status quo is… it’s just that one gets the high moral ground and the other gets trolled
But it is situated in an entertainment set up where the expectation from a female lead is that of upright behaviour without placing that behaviour in context. I don’t how to explain this better but it’s like the writers know that getting revolutionary things done by men only goes so far in this societal set up where the burden of propriety is woman’s. We are a limited online audience that argues on relative merits but out in the hinterland, I doubt they expect Ani to do anything drastic 😂😂😂 which is why Leena plays this way with his character
I wrote a character sketch for Jhanak once but never posted it…😂😂😂
I called her the original Do naav ki savaar.
If you go back, at the start there were so many scenes that were so provacative, probing questions she used to ask of Ani.. Ani was absolute dudh ka dhula then 😂😂 but pad hi gaya uske pyaar main dheere dheere 😂😂 one of my very favourite episodes were the ones where she was testing the status quo…& Ani baffled beyond his wits!!
She got an opportunity to break free in strange circumstances, having to place faith in the person who saved her but knowing that she shouldn’t expect more than that. Yet, her naturally optimistic nature couldn’t stop her heart from wanting more. The wedding in strange circumstances was a way out but as a girl from a traditional background, she couldn’t help associating some significance to it and wondering if it meant anything at all to the other person. but her meeting with a person like Ani has had the biggest influence in the shortest possible time.. How could she not have lost her heart to this incredibly sweet man who didn’t have one malicious bone in his body?
But khair chodo… water under the bridge!! No point!!
Jhanak always had double standards from day 1. To me it has always seemed like J is indirectly making Ani pay for his mistake of marrying Arshi. She has just never outright said this and it is a sorepoint for me that Leena never had either Ani or J raise this.
Like Bodoma said no one put a gun to Arshi's head to get her to marry Ani. Similarly no one put a gun to Ani's head to get him to marry Arshi. He begged her to; accepted the marrriage, keeps begging Arshi to stay and is not lifting a finger to end it, only asking J for her saath.
Stupid thinkgs Ani has said include - end of day he will always go back to Arshi. Tejas telling J - Ani will romance her but he will never marry her...all played into J's flip flopping.
Soo many times J has looked accusingly at Ani for marrying Arshi - their aashirwaad, when she said he gae his gift to someone else, when she said she was forced to remove her sindoor and also the annulment. J was the one to volunteer the end of Runak marriage - yet she blames Ani fully - which means she had expectations from him, does not align with the didi sacrifice story then....
Ani's double standards came out only when Aditya came in. Ani is simply weak and undecided. The Ani of first 200 episodes has not surfaced even once since. Has he had any intelligent thought since he rescued J from Tejas in Kashmir. Nope.
Even in IV Hiba said Ani is letting J go. J def wants a stronger reaction from Ani regarding
She asked him to marry Arshi before she left Calcutta for her exams as a sacrifice because she thought it was morally the right thing to do,
When she came back to Calcutta she hope Ani would call off his wedding after their consumation. She even asked him why he was marrying Arshi if he did not love her. Ani's ego again convinced J then that he had a bond with Arshi that he would never break and after the aag incident she moved away.
Arshi is grabbing, lacks self respect, weak, vile, but there is at least consistecy with her.
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