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Posted: 12 years ago
#51

Originally posted by: Azmatazz

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Agree to you whole heartily. Even i would not like it if someone tries to push down their fav down my throat. And agree you have all the rights to criticize her for her dance. Having said that there are certain things that i fail to comprehend being a fan of Drashti

1) If someone tries to make peace he / she is mocked
2) Generalization of all Drashti fans. We need to understand that every fandom has an impulsive lot. But how correct is it to generalize everyone and judge and scrutinize all of them and call them names because of a few certain impulsive ones?
3) Statements like "I hate Drashti because all the her fans make her out to be a goddess or an angel and blindly just follow her". Why should following her be a problem to anyone as long as you are not abused or harmed. I mean is that not what a fan does?

Since the day the forum is open i have been around. More of a Silent spectator but i can assure you that way Drashti was bashed and abused for anything and everything under the sun, just shocked me and saddened me. Not because I like her but because i think NO WOMAN who ever she is ever deserves that. Again there must be a reason why people did that so i would not want to judge anyone based on it, but what ever the reason my question is, WiLL this TIT FOR TAT attitude work? It definitely did not. it only invoked more people to do the worst and made situations worst... And now all that we see are all actions and reactions.

I'm not blaming anyone in particular here because we all are collectively responsible for this mess. In my opinion ,the problem is everyone did their share of mistakes, saw the problems and added to the problems and then cried foul. Never did one look beyond the problems or tried finding a solution to the problem and the ones that tried were mocked and made preachers or essay writers...

Oh good lord! I did write an essay. So now I wouldn't be surprised if i too would gain that name. 😃Anyways thanks for reading my essay (if you did) I can only hope that things change for the better and we all learn to co-exist with each other. Though at present that seems like impossible


Very nice comment Azma!
Edited by happygolucky - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
#52

Originally posted by: Wiseman


Thank god I don't play that kind of favorite ... That's much more that just favorite...😉


Well, not to the fans, but people who instigate fights... Beside not all fans are the same...




Edited by Silence_Gold - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
#53

Originally posted by: Silence_Gold


Well, not to the fans, but people who instigate fights... Beside not all fans are the same...


Fights are triggered by OTT fangiri. There are Sane fans and insane fans.

I'm not your enemy if I don't like your fav stars and shows. You know what I mean 😊
Edited by Wiseman - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
#54
nic question Tm
we want DD to win bcz we are her fans
bt i wud luv to see anyone frm ST SHAAN LAUREN SONALI SUMANT KARANVIR to win... as a viewer i care abt entertainment nt abt the winner
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: Wiseman



Fights are triggered by OTT fangiri. There are Sane fans and insane fans.

I'm not your enemy if I don't like your fav stars and shows. You know what I mean😊



There is nothing wrong about disliking anyone, no one can force u, me or anyone to like anyone, sabke apne favorites 😊
I am against crossing the line of respect...
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Posted: 12 years ago
#56
Insensible question
They are her fans then why wouldn't they want Drashti to win
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Posted: 12 years ago
#57

Originally posted by: Silence_Gold



There is nothing wrong about disliking anyone, no one can force u, me or anyone to like anyone, sabke apne favorites 😊
I am against crossing the line of respect...


Respect of whom, Other Fans & Members of the forum or The stars?

I care for the respect of the members more than the stars.

Like; talking, mocking and joking with Salman licking her legs or Crush on Remo etc are not disrespect to the star, because she knew that this will be a talking point from the moment she decided to do it... So she basically wants people to talk about it.

But for doing what she wants, if her fans start abusing that person, that's disrespect.

Definition of respect is different for fans and public figures. When they play a role, they want it to be discussed, good or bad. That's how they become stars.

Fans or posters want their posts to be discussed if needed, not themselves. That's disrespect...

So, I do agree with your POV completely, but don't know if you also meant the same.
Edited by Wiseman - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: SayanoraVViegas

Insensible question

They are her fans then why wouldn't they want Drashti to win


There is no problem in that.

Problem is when they abuse people who are not her fan and according you the same logic you used; doesn't want her to win.
Edited by Wiseman - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
#59

Originally posted by: Wiseman


There is no problem in that.

Problem is when they abuse people who are not her fan and doesn't want her to win.


But should all fans of Drashti suffer just for some major Drashti fans
I am not a Drashti fan but I don't want her to win as is she wins everyone will say Colors rigged the results
So I want Lauren or Shweta to win
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Because their fandom clouds their judgement of talent and even d average or below average performance seem appealing.
Edited by Minerva24 - 12 years ago

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