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Originally posted by: fulfillurdreams

The fact that you took the time to tell me that my post was boring, was that not rude or criticizing me?

And, to the rest of you who have questioned how my mother and father don't beat me for taking the time to write all this, first of all, how the hell would you people know how long it took me? And, second, don't just assume that because you have exams that everyone else does. Third, you just assume I'm young enough to be beat? How the hell do you know how old I am?

Additionally, this "holier than thou" attitude that you claim I'm having...yea that began with you. You want me to practice what I preach? That's fine... I'd be glad to. But, that rule doesn't only apply to me. Why don't you people also stop having this "holier than thou" attitude? You think I'm the one turning this into a huge deal... I'm not the one that commented on someone else's post trying to find any way to ridicule them. Yes, I brought up upbringing but that was only because you people seem to think that it's ok to pass judgment and ridicule random people on the internet. Anonymity doesn't make blatant rudeness ok.

You want to think you know who I am... go right ahead. At the end of the day, you people don't know anything about me, about my life, the type of person I am... so by saying stuff like "this proves exactly the type of person you are," you people are just being ignorant and hypocritical. No, nothing I say or do proves "exactly the type of person I am." Because if that's the case, what can be said about your characters from your posts?

Originally posted by: sosweet

TM why is it so difficult to practice what you preach? Though I like your post yet your reactions are not inline with what you preached.

Originally posted by: -Chandramukhi-

Hahahaha, this is the example of "Pot calling the Kettle black"

Firstly the same applies to me when you questioned my upbringing and parents. So if you were ready to pass such judgements, you should be ready for the same, weren't you the one who mentioned tit for tat. God this is exactly what is called "ulta chor kautwal ko dante" First throw in the personal remarks without knowing the person and when others do the same, you can't take it and you start your tape of "you don't know me" crap. Well, here's the news for you "What applies to you applies to others" If you don't wanna be judged for what you write, why do the same to others. So in future, if you are ready to get personal, be ready to be targeted as well.

And when people are blind to their own flaws, there is no point in trying to show them the mirror. So, that's it from my end.

As for replying to your thread and your posts, nah, it doesn't bother me, cuz no amount of insults or attacks on virtual forum are to be taken seriously since it only reflects others' insecurity and narrow mindedness. So feel free to throw any insults or remarks my way, it isn't going to lessen me or my existence. I did reply to you to show how hypocritical you sound and you even proved it by getting personal and bringing in my parents. Thanks for proving the point. Ciao.

Originally posted by: fulfillurdreams

That's what I was attempting to say. I mean, I don't dislike Drashti...but, my point was that we should leave our preconceptions outside and just look at this from a solely dance point of view. I like basically all of the contestants on the show (Shweta's great, Karanveer's dances haven't been scoring as well as they should, Aarti's incredible, Ekta's adorable... yada yada yada... should I point out all the good in everyone now? 😒). My point wasn't to try to defend Drashti... my point was to say that the show is a dance show, let's leave it at dance. If DD fans are bashing other contestants, they're being petty and ridiculous. There's no point in bashing other contestants just because you want someone to win. How far is that going to take you? But, apparently, making a post at all was a bad idea. I guess, now that my intentions have been twisted and the post has kind of been butchered, I'll just move on with my life... and I know now that I shouldn't make posts on this forum again. Because, apparently, making one post gives people the right to accuse you of bad character, and insist that you have too much time on your hands (and...if I do, how the hell is that anyone else's business).

And, I appreciate the civility in your reply even if you don't necessarily agree with me (which is totally fine.)

Originally posted by: fulfillurdreams

Ok...then I'll apologize for getting personal. I shouldn't have said that. But, do you honestly think you did nothing wrong? It might be me that's the pot calling the kettle black, but I don't appreciate your attitude either because you're doing the same thing. Yes, I shouldn't have jumped to the personal stuff, but if you're really hell bent on this whole "I'm the victim" speech, then why did you pull the same card? And, I'm not the only one proving any point. You're proving all the points I make about you too. You're really not taking what I say to your heart? No, it doesn't lessen you or your existence... just like what you say doesn't to me... but if what I said wasn't getting to you... you wouldn't bother replying. I'm not buying that whole "I was just trying to prove a point" bullshit. Just like you wouldn't buy that from me. Stop pretending as if you're the bigger person here because, as far as I'm concerned we're both doing the same thing; two sides of a coin, if you ask me.

Originally posted by: -Chandramukhi-

I have been on IF for many years and I have seen it all. So you or anyone don't get to me that easily, at least till now you haven't. I don't take it to heart either. My favorite can be bashed or mocked, forget them, even I have been bashed for stating an opinion. I don't get personal with members for their opinions until I have to reciprocate. My comment was made in reply to your "ignore and move on if you don't like what is written" It's a free forum and everyone is welcome here, you can use the AT if you don't want everyone to participate in your post, be it positives or negatives. Thus I simply used the word you used "Bhashan" and replied in your own style to see your reaction, which wasn't personal unlike what you did. So please don't even compare me with you, since until now I have never questioned anyone's upbringing or their parents, so definitely not two sides of the same coin.

And you can buy my "proving the point" bullshit or not, doesn't matter. What I wanted to see has been shown 😉

P.S: Don't take such altercations to heart since you will come across many in your virtual life.

Originally posted by: shonit411

@Fullfilldreams yani ki TM, Bhaiya Behan whatever, i don't ever think your dreams can be fulfilled by writing long boring essays just to defend some Actress, who you idolize day night, in internet. Your dreams can rather be fulfilled when you write meaningful essays in your Exams.