Its not FAIR on PURAB - Page 3

Originally posted by: lashforever

according to what you've said -

1) no playboys ever change or are ever worth getting married to

2) even if you are in love with someone, if you know a better person is in love with you, its wiser to change your choice

3) people can never genuinely change in love - its good to forgive but never to forget

That's twisting someone's words....I think Rahima should be allowed to vent...even though I like the Purab character but I do think he deserves better than Jassi. Yet I felt bad when I read the account.

Jassi's character has been absolutely butchered especially taking into account the title of the show. A better name for the show would have been on lines with the name the Spanish show was given...something like 'Aik Ladki Jassi" or "Woh Ladki Jassi". This Jassi character has shown herself to be just about as much an emptional wreck as several million women whose lives have become tragedies when they very easily could have been comedies; not that that is the inevitable fate for women like this but in most cases yes

Shariq

Poor Purab! He loves soo much Jassi and that idiot is after Mr. Suri.😕

You cannot force Jassi to love Purab...

Oh! I give up...😕

Originally posted by: beagleboy

Rahima, you are obviously a strong Purab supporter and I respect your feelings and understand that as a Purab fan you are upset. However, I would like to point out a few things in response to your post.

Armaan was PREVIOUSLY a playboy. He changed...Jassi changed him. His LOVE FOR JASSI CHANGED HIM. He fell in love with the old ugly Jassi not the supermodel. This was not only very clearly shown before Jassi became Jessica, but most recently when she was blamed for killing Jassi. In between this time, they have constantly shown Armaan's love for the old Jassi...

Purab is indeed Jassi's dear friend, however, some people always remain dear friends, nothing more nothing less. Jassi cannot force herself to feel things for Purab...she would be doing herself, Armaan and Purab great injustice. Jassi has always loved Armaan. She knows now that Armaan truly loves her. Not everyone is lucky to get the kind of love she shares with Armaan...she would be a fool to throw that away for some misguided sense of friendship or loyalty...you are right, she is intelligent...the decision she took was mature and in the long run will be the most painless for Purab.

In reality things are different from the world of television fantasy. Again you are right...but I can tell you that if I loved someone as deeply and passionately as Jassi does Armaan, and that person loves me as Armaan loves Jassi, I would choose him over anybody, even if my closest and dearest friend loves me like Purab does Jassi. They say that there is a very thin line between friendship and love, but as in Purab and Jassi's case, if it has not happened now, it will never happen ...especially since Jassi loves Armaan...I emphasise that some friendships are meant to remain friendships...

Jassi's papa ji and the rest of the family are conservative, but Armaan to them is a prospective son-in-law, if you ask me...they will treat it the same way they treated Purab and Jassi's engagement. Only this time they can see that Jassi is happy...😃

Finally on your point about Mallika, She is not evil...she is evil, vicious, malicious. The woman spits venom when she opens her mouth! She is no longer Armaan's fiance. They broke up long ago. I truly believe that one of the things that drove them apart was her constant nagging and suspecting Armaan. No one wants to marry a doberman on watch 24x7 😡

MALLIKA IS A CRIMINAL😡. She wrongly accused Jassi of fraud, forged Jassi's signature and blamed her for a murder she did not commit. If you still say she is not evil I will be convinced that you the most forgiving person on earth. I think she should be jailed...either that or she should be admitted to some psychiatric hospital for serious mental illness.

Apologies if this offended you

That was very beautifully said.

In short, you do not fall in love with someone out of gratitude or obligation and certainly not out of pity........

And if your love is such that you leave the moment someone better comes along, then that is not love....

If Jassi leaves Armaan for Purab because he is the better guy, then by that virtue she would leave Purab tomorrow for someone who would prove to be still better than him.......

However, I would definitely like Purab to get a graceful exit if he is not comfortable palying a negative character.

Though his desperation is clearly indicationg he is all set to debut as the desperate lover eager to get happiness at every cost.....

Originally posted by: Minnie

That was very beautifully said.

In short, you do not fall in love with someone out of gratitude or obligation and certainly not out of pity........

And if your love is such that you leave the moment someone better comes along, then that is not love....

If Jassi leaves Armaan for Purab because he is the better guy, then by that virtue she would leave Purab tomorrow for someone who would prove to be still better than him.......

However, I would definitely like Purab to get a graceful exit if he is not comfortable palying a negative character.

Though his desperation is clearly indicationg he is all set to debut as the desperate lover eager to get happiness at every cost.....

That was very well said, Beagleboy and Minnie! 👏👏👏

In my opinion, I think that if two people love each other as deeply and passionately as Armaan and Jassi do, then they have absolutely every reason to be together.

And yes, Purab may love Jassi a great deal, however, Jassi does not ever reciprocate the same feelings.

Jassi loves Armaan. Armaan loves Jassi. By that logic, they should be together. End of story.

Well said Minnie, beagleboy and JD.

Shall I sum up this discussion with a single quote. It beautifully explains the position of Arman and Purab in Jassi's life.

A Friend's Love says:
" If you ever need anything,
I'll be there."

True Love says:
" You'll never need anything;
I'll be there."

- Jimi Hollemans -

That was beautiful Bluelotus..oh I resisted a lot to fall into this discussion but....Anyways I want to ask only one thing- love can be onesided but can friendship be onesided ,If you ever need anything I'll be there, but will you be there if I need anything? NO ,I'M NOT ASKING LOVE IN RETURN OF FRIENDSHIP. But wasn't that conversation a bit blunt one? It was almost like you sacrifice if you are a true friend, I can't ('coz I'm not??) I agree conversation has to be clear but in handling a delicate situation don't you need to be empathetic? we have witnessed all these while jassi refusing to admit her love for armaan she was always upset at his comment that she wanted to be with armaan,their last clear conversation was on the table when she said 'My intention of going to GM is my family & not Armaan suri' I mean in a way she kept on reassuring him that she's not going back to armaan till yesterday when she admitted finally....with that she actually asked for sacrifice, clearly denying her part of it!(Can't u be my true friend even now,I can't leave my love!)She coudn't even talk to him eye-eye ,why she had to bear that guilt ,had been she honest & clear on her part from the begining?'coz she needed him yet till she returns home safe? oh I felt much more pain while writing diialogues for them than did she !! I never expected her love in return of his friendship(so called) but has she been even a good friend??

On monday my eyes glistened when it was confirmed that purab has to turn negative but yesterday I had no regrets..I wondered did they really turn him negative or HER negative?

Originally posted by: bluelotus

Well said Minnie, beagleboy and JD.

Shall I sum up this discussion with a single quote. It beautifully explains the position of Arman and Purab in Jassi's life.

A Friend's Love says:
" If you ever need anything,
I'll be there."

True Love says:
" You'll never need anything;
I'll be there."

- Jimi Hollemans -

That's a beautiful quote, Blue! 😊