Purab jaroor samja jayega - Page 2

wah wah Laks…..chaa gyee ho….👏

well said pj👏👏…..Jassi's actions of late show that she is not taking Purab's feelings into account at all….and for someone who is shown to be so compassionate to everyone else, it seems a big contradiction in character that she forgets to look at things from her fiance's point of view….

its high time Jassi comes clean abt everything that she feels guilty abt….what tears me is that when she felt guilty abt accusing armaan over the draft incident, she had no qualms abt going and apologizing to him…..and now with Purab, who is supposed to her better half for the rest of their lives, she cant stop procrastinating……

she needs to set her priorities straight….figure out what she wants to do, and then stick to it…..now that shouldn't be too hard for Ms Super-woman-CEO-Walia…..should it???😉

Originally posted by: KK_lassi

Btw...... if Purab is assumed as a postman.... maybe Armaan then should too be unequally low.

You think of your postman as a lowly creature???????😲 You'll hurt the poor guy's selfesteem😉.

Well said Ides.I do think Jassi isn't really thinking of what Purab will go through if she tells him what happened.But transperancy for her is more important.And she never really proclaimed her undying love for Purab.She has told him again and again that she considers him a friend with whom she has decided to tie a knot.And if you cannot confide in a friend without jeopardising the relation then he not a worthy friend.Perhaps Purab himself should have told jassi that look,I know you loved Armaan and I'm not ready to go into marriage unless you start loving me the way I love you.And I'll wait for the day.

The thing is,ppl were ready to cut her down when they thought she was not telling anything to Purab and the same ppl are cutting her down again because she is going to tell him everything.It's called both head and tail are mine😡

Originally posted by: Minnie

You think of your postman as a lowly creature???????You'll hurt the poor guy's selfesteem.

Well said Ides.I do think Jassi isn't really thinking of what Purab will go through if she tells him what happened.But transperancy for her is more important.And she never really proclaimed her undying love for Purab.She has told him again and again that she considers him a friend with whom she has decided to tie a knot.And if you cannot confide in a friend without jeopardising the relation then he not a worthy friend.Perhaps Purab himself should have told jassi that look,I know you loved Armaan and I'm not ready to go into marriage unless you start loving me the way I love you.And I'll wait for the day.

The thing is,ppl were ready to cut her down when they thought she was not telling anything to Purab and the same ppl are cutting her down again because she is going to tell him everything.It's called both head and tail are mine😡

minnie , i agree with you,completely except of what you wrote in second paragraph. as for jassi , she has a right to choose anyone she likes(even though her choice may not seem very wise to me), she has a right to try and achieve her dreams but the equations change drastically when you agree to marry someone and his life is tied down with you....then every decision, every secret, every feeling has equal impact on that other person, and you have to take that in consideration.of course the favour is returned by the other person too.
however if you are undecisive in your choice of course(as in case of jassi), it is wise not to jump the gun and agree to marry somebody....it is unfair to drag some innocent person through your mess just bcoz he cares for you.
let us look at this from purab's point of view....he is engaged to the person he loves and everybody including this person seems to be happy, one nice day he realizes that she gives more importance to her ex than him, when he tries to hint/ ask her about it , she denies it .what is purab supposed to do....break the engagement ....what if he is wrong...what if jassi is over armaan...he ends up hurting walias and jassi and losing his love all because of his suspicion. if he goes ahead with the wedding....and he is right...he ends up with an unwilling bride ...ends up spoiling his life, jassi's life and armaan's life .
bottomline is i am not opposed to jassi's love for armaan but her consenting to marry purab when she was not sure

When she agreed to marry purab she thought she was sure.She'll still sticking to that herself.She is always happy to see purab and has no second thoughts on marrying him even now.And she doesn't know that Purab knows about her feelings for Armaan.She tore the diary beleiving she was over Armaan.
She herself is equally taken aback by her own feelings.And it's only human to want them to sort it out with the help of the one person who professes to be not only her friend but also the one who declares of his trust in her at every opportunity.
That he doen't practise it is a different story alltogether.

well i guess , i view it differently......i consider possesiveness to be a part of love(any form of love). we have seen nandu and papaji get jealous and insecure of purab at a certain time.As for trust...purab does trust her just not blindly. He is seeing something he can't explain given the circumstances and social norms...so he is getting very insecure.unfortunately all the people around him are only adding to his doubts unwittingly(purely circumstantial though).
on a different note if i saw my fiance chatting up with a girl at an odd hour and knew that he has a soft corner for her, i would be very uncomfortable inspite of all the trust i have in him.

Originally posted by: Minnie

You think of your postman as a lowly creature???????You'll hurt the poor guy's selfesteem.

Minnie.. donmnt take wrong.. actually i had blasted myself just on reading purab and postman.
I really agree on ides, pjo4, u..and Lakshmi. U r right .. But I really had no intention of assuming postman low.

Uncomfortable,I agree.But I would also go to them and say hi.Also I would be the first one to call and ask why my fiancee was out late night at the chai stall.Not wait for her to see whether she is going to tell.It's almost like half hoping she wouldn't so that I get a chance to pounce on her 😡 .

but that would be very awkward and might seem like spying....i would rather take time to cool off, rationalize , wait for him to mention it(assuming he shares everything with me), if he does not, drop in the issue and sort it amongst ourselves without any audience. actually purab is reacting exactly , how i would have in his shoes.

Originally posted by: pj04

actually purab is reacting exactly , how i would have in his shoes.

hmmmm....pj could it be that purab is ur long lost twin.... 😉

nope we are soulmates....two parts of a single heart