Mrs.jasmeet suri!! - Page 2

Originally posted by: Buffie

ITS not even that sharmi...just that she must speak the truth and must not be a hypocrite....she was soooooooooooooooo despo that A must accept the kid...she even went to the adoption centre without even asking A's permission to adopt the kid......she prayed and wished that A must accept the kid...and she was so convinced that A IS THE DAD.....

and then she actually really seriously truly heartily wanted A to accept the kid...BUT yesterday when A told V that he is the Dad, J acted as though she doesnt know anything about it at all and that she was hearing it for the first time.......she acted as though it was an unexpected bolt from the blue...heck, she knew about it....actually na, the problem here is that jassi really wished that armaan should not be the dad...all was a facade..bahar dikhawa karthi thi jaise ki woh is baat ko accept kar sakthi hai ki armaan hi us bacchi ka baap hai aur isliya armaan ko use apnaa na HI chahiye.......magar andar woh chahthi thi ki armaan us bacche ka baap na ho ......(sheena, dont curse me for using hindi😆😆)....that's what was irritating....J was acting like a two faced hypocrite.....😡😡😡..but she would never in her life accept her mistake...infact, A loves J more than J loves A...see, if only A had been in J's place and A has misunderstood J, the way in which he would have asked for maaphi would have been totally different..he would have repented and repented and cried and cried and repented and begged mahaan J for maaphi.....and even after her forgiving him, he would have yet continued to ask for maaphi and would have repented...but J....no repentence at all👏👏😡...just one sorry and over.....how the heck does A like J😕

thats exactlywhat she felt,confusion in her mind.Yes she wanted arman to accept vedika and also acept her out of sympathy for the child ,at the same time she also felt bad as a wife.Howmuch ever u say that u are ok with ur husband having slept with another woman and having a kid and wanting him to accept it,when u actually hear it from her husband saying it,one does feel bad,thts called feelings .Ffeelings are not planned or thought abt,u just feel it.

basically jassi was confused,she herself said it several times.She said I wanted arman to acept the child as his daughter then why ami feeling sad and hurt " ,didnt it show her confusion as a woman and a wife.She was contradicting herself was another proof of her confusion where on one side she wants arman to accept the child as his own and give justice to the child ,on the other hand she wants her husband to come clean .I think it was perfect .

I think both love each other too much and that can sometimes be a problem too.Anyway i think all is well between a-j now and thats what i want.Jassi's love for arman is also strong and deep.I can never question that and so is arman's.Its just theri actions which makes us question like jassi's revenge on amran ,arman's revenge on jassi by marrying mallika and doing "it" with her,jassi's carelessness abt the baby,arman's ego or too much love that was causing problem. both their actions are questionable sometimes butthen in the end ,we all know that thats theonly way the makers know to stretch the show

Overall JandA uncha rahe hamara 😉

Originally posted by: a4j4ever

tauba tauba....how dare you even question her integrity...hands up buffie...ur arrested for defamation of a national holy character~!!😛

buffie i feel like bashing armaan too...why does he put up with her?😭

I knowwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww….what did A see in J that is so obsessed.(yeah, that's the word..obsesseddddddd…A is an obsessed maniac in love)…what did he see in J(dot kill me for this)……and you know, A loves J muchhhhhhhh more than JK loves A….y'day J ran away and hurt A…and what did she do..just said sorry and hugged….if A was in her place, He would have repented and replented and cried and cried and pleaded J for forgiveness and even after J's forgiving, he would have still repented and repented and said sorry and apologized and what no…but J….A is too good for her(looks wise as well as status wise as well as attitude wise as well as character wise…)…J is sooooooooo lucky to have A……she never realizes it, that's what's sad……..she thinks that she did A a favour by marrying him or that A must be lucky to have her when the truth is the opposite of what J thinks…

Originally posted by: tina59

thats exactlywhat she felt,confusion in her mind.Yes she wanted arman to accept vedika and also acept her out of sympathy for the child ,at the same time she also felt bad as a wife.Howmuch ever u say that u are ok with ur husband having slept with another woman and having a kid and wanting him to accept it,when u actually hear it from her husband saying it,one does feel bad,thts called feelings .Ffeelings are not planned or thought abt,u just feel it.

basically jassi was confused,she herself said it several times.She said I wanted arman to acept the child as his daughter then why ami feeling sad and hurt " ,didnt it show her confusion as a woman and a wife.She was contradicting herself was another proof of her confusion where on one side she wants arman to accept the child as his own and give justice to the child ,on the other hand she wants her husband to come clean .I think it was perfect .

I think both love each other too much and that can sometimes be a problem too.Anyway i think all is well between a-j now and thats what i want.Jassi's love for arman is also strong and deep.I can never question that and so is arman's.Its just theri actions which makes us question like jassi's revenge on amran ,arman's revenge on jassi by marrying mallika and doing "it" with her,jassi's carelessness abt the baby,arman's ego or too much love that was causing problem. both their actions are questionable sometimes butthen in the end ,we all know that thats theonly way the makers know to stretch the show

Overall JandA uncha rahe hamara 😉

Another thing. Though jassi knows all about Armaan's past and had accepted it (including sleeping with Mallika), she was not married to him at the time. Yes, i know it sounds strange but when one becomes a wife, a certain amount of possessiveness (only a certain amount--not obssession to the point of infinity like *nudge nudge* someone😉) does creep in. So it was natural for Jassi to feel like that at first.

But it is not as if Jassi really ran away or condemned Armaan for anything. Not once did she think, "Armaan, aisa kyun kiya?" or "mujhe tumse aisi umeed nahin thi." yes, she had taken it for granted that A was the dad, but in her heart of hearts there must have beena hope that once A comes back from Goa, he would prove her wrong. But instead she heard this.

She has not blamed Armaan for anything nor has she let Vedika feel that something was amiss. I think the fact that she wanted to be alone for sometime to sort things out is very natural. I agree compltely with Tina--it was a beautifully done scene and both acted well--except for A's holding back in th e hug.😭

Now the fact that if A had apologised, he would have begged and begged and repented...well, that is A's personality...he cannot hide his emotions and cannot wait for things to sort themselves out. J is different--from the beginning she kept her emotions about A hidden and even now, after marriage, she is less demonstrative than Armaan. I don't see anything wrong in that. Personally, i think A's style of asking for maafi is endearing but maybe, once in a while, he should show some male assertiveness (i'm being very besharam here😳) and solve a few probs by showing J that he still holds a lot of power over her (ahem-ahem!)😉

Originally posted by: blyton

Another thing. Though jassi knows all about Armaan's past and had accepted it (including sleeping with Mallika), she was not married to him at the time. Yes, i know it sounds strange but when one becomes a wife, a certain amount of possessiveness (only a certain amount--not obssession to the point of infinity like *nudge nudge* someone😉) does creep in. So it was natural for Jassi to feel like that at first.

LOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOl...actually, isnt A acting like SS...i mean, i know its an insult to janda if we compare SandA to them but yet...i mean, similarities between SS and armaan...both obsessed, both possessive, and both too much madly in love.......but armaan(and not AA) is countless times better than SS

But it is not as if Jassi really ran away or condemned Armaan for anything. Not once did she think, "Armaan, aisa kyun kiya?" or "mujhe tumse aisi umeed nahin thi." yes, she had taken it for granted that A was the dad, but in her heart of hearts there must have beena hope that once A comes back from Goa, he would prove her wrong. But instead she heard this.

yeah, she really wished that A should not be the dad...and even we do that..., ravindranath tagore has beautifully put it in his short story......."maybe a faint hope lingered in her mind that armaan is not the dad...and that was enough for her......error will go away...logic and reason are slow to penetrate...J clung on with both armn to the false(actually right lol..)hope that armaan is not the dad and when the weightiest proof was in front of her, it ripped her veins and drained her heart's blood".......this was quoted from the story postmaster(names and situations changed to suit the JJKn story LOL)....but then she shouldnst have given those bhashans saying that i can accept vedika when she actually says that i cannot stand A+Vedika(not vidhi..it was vedika) togerher......

Now the fact that if A had apologised, he would have begged and begged and repented...well, that is A's personality...he cannot hide his emotions and cannot wait for things to sort themselves out. J is different--from the beginning she kept her emotions about A hidden and even now, after marriage, she is less demonstrative than Armaan. I don't see anything wrong in that. Personally, i think A's style of asking for maafi is endearing but maybe, once in a while, he should show some male assertiveness (i'm being very besharam here😳) and solve a few probs by showing J that he still holds a lot of power over her (ahem-ahem!)😉

this applies to AA also...read my siggy😭😭...AA as well as A are uxotious, hen pecked and JKG's😭😭...AA ko chodo...he isnt anywhere close to armaan...but where has armaan's individuality and male assertiveness gone...no, i am not asking him to act as a chauvinist pig but he definitely can have the upper hand over J

Originally posted by: Buffie

Buffie, i still stick to what i said on the other thread....it was prob a BLOOPER that she said Vedika instead og Vidhi..i mean, it makes no sense to say that she can't stand A+Vedika together, when she has nothing against the child. She even said, "Issme Vedika ki kys galti hai?" Too many ppl have said Vedika instrad of Vidhi lately...Armaan, Maddy, so maybe it was J's turn. That's waht happens when you keep Kekta-ish names like that!