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insouciance

@insouciance

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Posted: 19 years ago

#11

well, i am not at all ashamed as everyoen knows it(even those who are in denial) that he looked ugly 🤢 ...he better NOT get clicked in any such hideosity in future 🤢 ewwwwwwwwwww.....how the 🤬 did i once like this fellow 😕

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Priya the Pink Chaddhi Don

@priyaaa

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Posted: 19 years ago

#12

hemaaa...you must realise..when we tease apu..we are not
bashing him..we are simply poking fun 😛

i can tell you one thing..i loweeeee apu more than anybody does, ewer
will, and ewer can (you wanna fight this out? i'll be glad to 😉 )

but that doesn't mean we can't get a good laugh from looking at some
funny-looking photos, na?

being in lowe with someone doesn't mean praising them endlessly,
worshiping them, and ignoring their faults. it's about noting their
imperfection, and lowing them all the more, despite it; or even..FOR it.

there are many things we lowe about apu. and there are many things we
hate. but teh fact is, for those who really lowe him, teh things we lowe
dominate ower teh things we hate. so why then cannot we comment on
the minor trivial flaws? especially when we know that it's not the "real
apu" (the real apu meaning the apu we'd like to think he is)

so yea..don't leawe just for that 😛 we need you.. 😳

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Mauritian

@Mauritian

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Posted: 19 years ago

#13

oh dear,i am sorry you took it so bad hema. i did not see those pictures either.but i can feel your anger alright.everyword you say is true.....

no one is perfect whether it is physically or otherwise...

and we must always keep in mind:
do unto others what we may them do unto us.

a simple mantra that helps us keep within our limits, especially on a public forum...

having the right to speak our mind does not mean we become careless about other's sentiments, whether it is apurva or yours and mine...

will miss you and your posts hema. hope you change your mind for sake of people who really love reading what you write.

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Siddhi

@Sidlum

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Posted: 19 years ago

#14

Hema, cutie, I'm not sure if I had posted something in that thread..to be honest, I might have..if I did, & if something I had said offended you, please don't take it to heart. Everyone knows how much I love my Dimples & yes, in those pics, he looked far from perfect, but I do understand that they were taken during action..which obviously would distort the actual picture in context..& I also understand that you would be hurt by that b.c we're all aware of your love for Apoorva.

Please try & rethink your position for those of us who really enjoy your passionate, involved posts. And it'd also be nice if some people wouldn't try & say the same things that Hema says hurt her in her own thread. Sometimes, as much as it may not want to be accepted, you have to curb your right to "personal opinion" on a "public forum" & your right to "freedom of speech" to spare the feelings of someone who may be your friend.

Don't go, Hema..we'd miss you lots.

L❤️WE,

Sid

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sana

@koolsana

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Posted: 19 years ago

#15

v wnt do it again hema....even thought i wasnt a part of it....n i think ur completely right a person cant look his best at all times....so i wud like to apologize frm everyone....plz dnt leave us 😭 😭 ....plzzzzzzz 😊

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Sharila Lal

@Sharila

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Posted: 19 years ago

#16

OH MY GOD.

Pls dont leave. Why is that most of the people here is leaving. we are a family and we will go through ups and downs together, and I really mean it together

So Hema reconsider about leaving and pls stay

Love
Sharila

Edited by Sharila - 19 years ago

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Kay

@sweetsorrow18

Rocker

+ 3

Posted: 19 years ago

#17

HEMA i am so mad at u right now 😡😭

i cant believe u are leaving IF because of THIS.....what gives u a right to hurt someone? ....i am already sooo pissed off because of bhootu (mallika) and now you....what the hell is going on here....this is ridiculous........you are apart of this family.....WORK THINGS OUT BUT PLEASE, DONT MAKE IT WORSE BY LEAVING.......😭

firstly, I APOLOGIZE for saying anything about APU and those SPA pics...but i dont take them back, because what i said was ENTIRELY for fun...and isnt IF about having fun????? I DID NOT MEAN IT AT ALL and i DOUBT anyone here meant an iota of what they said about APU......

[quote=priyu]
being in lowe with someone doesn't mean praising them endlessly,
worshiping them, and ignoring their faults. it's about noting their
imperfection, and lowing them all the more, despite it; or even..FOR it.
[/quote]

PRIYU stole the words out of my mouth......we ALLL loweeeeeee APU HEMA....tum akeli nahi ho....and we love him so much that we have fun poking fun at him too...because hes not perfect, and thats what makes us love him even more.....its tru that those pics were probably taken when he wasnt looking as good as he usually does, but shouldnt be consider a person for who they are as a whole..if we only worship and idolize a person's good times, then its not really loving them as a whole.....

anyways i dont want to get into a whole lecture like ms. jassi madam on whats right and whats wrong...i just want u to know hemz that we all love ya here and we enjoy all ur posts...please reconsider what your thinking of doing.....because im sure u will hurt alot of friends here....

Edited by sweetsorrow18 - 19 years ago

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Anjali

@blyton

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Posted: 19 years ago

#18

Hema, I just read your comments in the other thread "Armaan or Apu" and also Buffie's replies.

The way i see it, both of you have different perspectives of looking at things, and that is causing the apparent "disagreement."

Hema, you love Apu UNCONDITIONALLY. Unconditional love dictates that you love the person inspite of his shortcomings because you value the person he is at the core, despite his external flaws (this includes behaviour as well as looks). So for you, Apu's behaviour at SPA or other setbacks don't matter because you genuinely believe that he is a gem of a person. 👏

Buffie's love, on the other hand, is CRITICAL. She looks at stars (not only AA but others also) by evaluating every bit of information about them, and draws her conclusions from that information. So if she comes to know something about someone that is really offensive by her standards, her opinion about that person will go down. Moreover, you love only AA wheras Buffie probably has many other favourites, so the loss of one "idol" does not matter much to her.

I am not going into AA's faults and virtues. AS i said earlier, i bashed him hard aftr SPA, and i still believe it was wrong to behave like that. Also, his lying about his smoking and drinking put me off. 😕 I do not apologise for what i said, per se, BUT i do apologise for hurting your feelings. 😭 Also,i take back one thing that i said at that time--that AA is a casanova. I was very angry when i wrote that. I am sorry about it.

But yes, i do believe that it is wrong to bash a person SOLELY for his looks. None of us is perfect, and perfect faces do not necessarily make for beauty. Aishwarya Rai has a perfect face, but i do not find her beautiful, because her face has no animation or warmth. No offence to Ash fans, it is just my way of looking at it. To me, expressiveness and vulnerability make for beauty. That is why i find Mona beautiful, and so i hate it when ppl call her fat or manly-looking. 😡 What is the point of watching a serial like JJKN if at the end of the day, you judge a person by looks?? I never liked AA only because he was good-looking; if that were so, i would have loved him from his PArdes days but it was only after he excelled in the portrayal of Armaan Suri that i really started liking him. I also thought he was a humble, simple person going by his interviews and Sid and tabs's accounts of him. I was really disappointed after seeing that SPA party and now i don't like him so much as i used to; but i still believe he is basically a good person who needs to grow up a bit in his approach to life. Now this opinion is independent of my views as to his looks, dressing sense et al.I will not excuse all his faults simply becoz he looks great; by the same token, i will not condemn him for looking bad occasionally.

As regards that thread on AA's SPA pics, i thought that was a pretty funny one. I don't think nayone really meant to be mean. Sometime back there a thread which had some really awful pix of Mona (before she landed JJKN) and ppl said that she looked 🤔 like a bhootni and whatnot. I just laughed it off becoz though i heart Mona, i have to accept that ppl do like having fun at the expense of their fav celebrities. I suggest you adopt the same attitude. Either laugh and brush it off, or if you can't do that, ignore it. Of course, you can and should defend your fav when you feel he is unfairly criticised, but also remember that ppl do not change their opinions so easily. 🤔

Hema, i love reading your passionate posts and i admire the fact that you never criticise or bash up any person. 👏 For the sake of those who love your writings, please. STAY ON!!! That's an order!! ❤️

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@mermaid_QT

Inactive

Posted: 19 years ago

#19

Yo Hema!
Cheer up young lady! All these friends here love Apu too. In fact, results of my polls showed how honest these lovely girls are and that 80% of them admitted that they Ewwed apu only cos he was PDA-ing with shilpa.. in fact they would never have commented if mona were to be his real wife! so probably the eww was all about SS in an indirect way :) not for apu!
also, look at how many of us don't want u to leave!
don;t leave okay? aa rocks.. everybody has bad hair days, so does he. and everybody knows it!

🤗 🤗 🤗 from everyone & me. so stay!

qt

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insouciance

@insouciance

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Posted: 19 years ago

#20

Originally posted by: priyaaa
hemaaa...you must realise..when we tease apu..we are not bashing him..we are simply poking fun 😛
i can tell you one thing..i loweeeee apu more than anybody does, ewerwill, and ewer can (you wanna fight this out? i'll be glad to 😉 ) but that doesn't mean we can't get a good laugh from looking at some funny-looking photos, na? being in lowe with someone doesn't mean praising them endlessly, worshiping them, and ignoring their faults. it's about noting their imperfection, and lowing them all the more, despite it; or even..FOR it.there are many things we lowe about apu. and there are many things we hate. but teh fact is, for those who really lowe him, teh things we lowe dominate ower teh things we hate. so why then cannot we comment on he minor trivial flaws? especially when we know that it's not the "real apu" (the real apu meaning the apu we'd like to think he is) so yea..don't leawe just for that 😛 we need you.. 😳

I can vouch fot hat one...she says that same bloody thing on MSN everysingle say that "i just cannot stop loving that 🤬"....she says it everyday and she also tells me that she loves apu more than anyone(even more than you hema😆😆)..and please...endless praising is not love..that's FLATTERY.....true love and concern means to point out the flaws and mistakes ...my mom loves me more than anyone else in the world!!!but does that mean that she doesnt point out my mistakes and never scolds me when i am wong?????those pics were hideous and i repeat myself again, AA better not get clicked in any such hideosity again in future...look hema, you yourself know...sheena and me are saying from october that he needs to dress well....how many threads have been locked and how much of warnings and bashings have we been confronted to!!!!..so now we have given up and when the media pokes fun or mocks, we do rejoice as that means that our viewpoint was cent percent right!!!!cant we do that????....its infact a treat to see him badly dressed these days as point blank........we are just seeing how badly a person can dress and how low he can stoop....and AA never disappoints us there😛

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