I think Its time for me to leave..too - Page 3

hema pls donmt leave,as we all know that JJKN is ending in may,pls be there till then after that we may never interact abt JJKN or arman or jassi ever so pls dont go for JJKN sake.
infact its a requst to all who were upset and angry and left ,pls lets rejoin on the last days of JJKN .....cmon guys we can all do that for JJKN

Originally posted by: mermaid_QT

Yo Hema!
Cheer up young lady! All these friends here love Apu too. In fact, results of my polls showed how honest these lovely girls are and that 80% of them admitted that they Ewwed apu only cos he was PDA-ing with shilpa.. in fact they would never have commented if mona were to be his real wife! so probably the eww was all about SS in an indirect way :) not for apu!
also, look at how many of us don't want u to leave!
don;t leave okay? aa rocks.. everybody has bad hair days, so does he. and everybody knows it!

🤗 🤗 🤗 from everyone & me. so stay!

qt

LOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLL.....atleast i didnt do that....well QT, the real reson for the uproar was because it is a known fact that SS is insane and is a goner in love...but we thpought that apu has a steady shoulder and was mature...his juvenile and childish behaviourdare i say faggy behaviour) freaked us out....that's the reason!!

Originally posted by: blyton

Buffie's love, on the other hand, is CRITICAL. She looks at stars (not only AA but others also) by evaluating every bit of information about them, and draws her conclusions from that information. So if she comes to know something about someone that is really offensive by her standards, her opinion about that person will go down. Moreover, you love only AA wheras Buffie probably has many other favourites, so the loss of one "idol" does not matter much to her.

actually blyton, i USED to like AA and everyone knows that....I ONCE used to like him😊..even hema knows that...hema, remember what i told you the last time we spoke over the phone???that even i like AA but only that his flaws cannot be overlooked!!......ONCE UPON A TIME, i liked him..........why do you think i used to bash SS?????because i was jealous???NO!!!...i really admired apu's non-chalance and his introverted nature and i really felt that he deserved a much better and dignified wife!!!!i did feel that his cuteness was wasted and his soft spoken nature and his dignity was all down the drain......but that SPA was a shocker!!!!...i never expected AA to behave in that manner!!!....it was a bolt from the blue and it left me speechless with disgust and contempt🤢😡.....and that was when i realized that he is NO DIFFERENT from the loadsssssssssssssssssssssssssssss of other stars who work in television and have no dignity or class or style(except perhaps hiten_gauri, ronit_rohit_mansi-aashka-rakshandha-gaurav)......i was pissed to say the least!!!!.....you know, when a person whom we admire let us down, it is just so disappointing.....tht uproar was a mixed emotion.....there was disgust, contempt, shock, disappointment and query(as to how my sizing up of a person can be so damn wrong)....AA was my favourite at one point of time (during the provogue fashion show and the zaib show)....but not now!!!!!AA is DEFINITELY not th most good looking guy as LOADSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSS of people look better than AA....

First of all let me confess to each one of you who have written a message..That I am overwhelmed with your love..and let me tell you..that it is almost impossible for me to be away..from IF..which is a place where I let out all..my feelings..!!Thank you one and all for your warm love filled thoughts..I am thrilled to know there are so many who will miss..me..NOW COMING TO THE POINT..

I DONT KNOW ABOUT ALL OF YOU..BUT WHAT I HAVE LOVED ABOUT "JASSI"..THE MOST..FROM DAY ONE..IS....SHE IS ALWAYS.."POSITIVE"..SHE IS ALWAYS PASSIOANTE BE IT HER WORK..HER FRIENDS HER FAMILIES..HER BOSS..HER VALUES..!!She has always..from day one..as i have watched..stuck to what she beleived or loved or liked..she never changed her point of view..about anything or person..unless..it was really..out of control..!!What I am trying to underline..her eius the LOVE that she felt for her boss..at first sight..It might have been the infatuation..at begining..but as days passed..she was convinced..that she love her bos..HER ARMAAN SIR..with all the flawess that he had..!1 Sh eknew every bit of his chaacter..she knew he was big time flirt..emotionless..man..a rich casanova,,who was cheating his fiance..his parents in business..everything..infact Armaan cheate don herscoled her 3 to 4 times..and she knew that Raj and Armaan were only making fun of her..fro behind yet she loved him..once in her diary..I remember she writes,.."Armaan sir..Aap ko yeh sab mazaak lagta hai na..lekin mere liye yeh haqeeqat hai..Mein sirf aapse pyaar karti hoon.."She did try to STOP AND CHANGE HIM IN HER OWN..SOFT YET ASSERTIVE WAYS..SHE NEVER POUNCED ON HIM..GIVING BAD REMARKS..OR EGGXAGERATING WORDS..DID SHE..?..ONLY at the end when she really couldn't..help ...and she thought it is going out o fhand did she..open up his pandoras box..and made him pay for his mistakes in the boar meeting..!!And that too..she did it after lot sand lots and lots of thinking..and when there was no other way left she took the drastic step....She loved him sooo much that..she ignored all his ruthlessnes and faults and casanova behaviour because deep deep inside she knew there was GEM a KOHINOOR DIAMOND..inside his heart and soul..!!So the REAL ARMAAN WHAT WE ARE SEEING NOW IS POLISHED AND NURTURED BY JASSi..So it is her LOVE that changed him..not..TAUNTS & CRITISISM...like what MAL used t do..Mal used to say everything staright forward on to his face..BUT HE DID NOT CHANGE..but JASSIS NEVER ENDING PASSIOANTE..FALTERING LOVE MADE.HIM WHAT HE IS..!!PYAAR HI NAFRAT Y ABURAYI KO MITA TA HAI..NAFRAT YA DUSHMANI NAHIN..PYAAR HI SAB KUCH HAI..ISSILIYE WHEN YOU LOVE SOMEBODY..YOU SHOULD ALWAYS nurture them with unconditional..unending LOVE ..and change them with LOVE not arrogance..and critisism..!! You can tell them that they are erring or fumbling BUT IN A DIGNIFIED..way..If you all are saying that APu has behaved a little badly...then what have you all ODNE..??? You have behaved the WORST..EVER..!!You all ned to correct yourself first before pointing at others..!!!Please dont misunderstand me..or my words written here..IF I HAVE HURT .you allk in this explanation process...I am sorry..BUT I LOVE APU THE SAME WAY AS JASSI LOVED ARMAAN..and till date ..even after SPA..I have not found even milliont of millianth of a percent wrong in what APU did...!!And even if I find he has said or done a mistake..I will not talk such harsh & rubbish words or sentences..!! It is so difficult to know a person even when you are living with them..for years..where n you all have not even met him once except for sid & tabyu..and what right do you all have t abuse him soooo badly..WHAT EVER YOU ALL SAY..YOU HAVE DONE IT IN REAL BAD TASTE..I AM REALLY REALLY HURT..!!SPECIALLY Asome people putting the smilys of puking..near the snaps..GOOD NESS GRACIOUS ME..!!How can you stoop to such drastically low level with just one insatance..!!I just cant understand..

And ofcourse..I know..that all of you love Apu ..but when you love somebody..you cant HAVE FUN BY CRITISING HIS OR HER SNAPS..OR a simple mistake..which the person must have done by mistake..or at that instance when he got a little carried..(well I dont considerr it a mistake at al..what so ever..)...HOW CAN YOU HAVE FUN..BY CRITISING A PERSON THAT YOU LOVE..!!Do your parents or loved ones..have FUN critising you..???My loved ones dont..they afcorse..scold..me..but in a manner that dosent hurt me..!! And that is what you should do to a person that you LOVE..not change your views..every hour..that is not LOVE..that is..just haviong fun and that means you never were serious..!!

WELL I DIDI NOT TAKE THIS DECISION OF LEAVING YOU ALL WITH GREAT HAPPINESS..I THOUGHT IT VERY CAREFULLY AND DECIDED..BECAUSE MORE THA YOU ALL I WILL MISS YOU..EACH AND EVERY ONE..BUT I USED TO COME HERE TO SHEARE MY FEELINGS WITH PEOPLE WHO WERE SOFT & PASSIOANTE ..AND COMPASSIONATE..NOT RUTHLESS..AND OVER CRITICAL..FOR LOOKS & APPEARENCES..AND SINGLE MISTAKES..WHICH IS SO NEGLIGIBLE..!!
AND PLEASE NOTE ..THER EMAYBE ZILLIONS OF..HANDSOME AND GOD PEOPLE...EVERYBODY KNOWS...BUT FOR ME..I SAID FOR ME..APURVA IS THE BEST EVER ..HANDSOMEST PERSON..EVER..AND HE IS A GEM..!!(SHILPA..IS RIGHT..AND I LOVE HER FOR THAT..)

LOVE-HEMA..( I AM SORRY IF I AM HARSH..BUT I HAD TO SAY)

Originally posted by: LOVE_APURVA

I cannot take anybody commenting on a person whom I adore the most in life..be scrutinised by all sorts of remarks..BY STILLING HIS MOMENST and taking the snaps..when his mouth & lip movements are awkward..IT IS GETTING ON TO MY NERVES...!! YEs..I am speaking about Apurvas snaps in SPA..awards which you people have stilled it at odd times and are amused by laughing & commenting on it..!! ITS A SHAME ON ALL OF YOU WHO DO THAT..Mind you .if you people take your own anaps..and paste it ..when you are all ecited and talking with all sorts of expressions and take stills of it..and paste it..then I will give you a zilion bucks..!! Whether one is a celebrity or not..he is first a human being and no one in this world has the right to insult another person..!! Specailly I cant take it..as I dont give looks that importance..when one is relaxed..and enhoying & talking..everybidy gets distorted..!!including the god..of good looks himself..!!Fine no point arguing..I am fed up..I am off..!!

Hema

Hema - I feel your grief. I totally argee with you no one has any right to insult other human being or to anyone. But someone makes himself to be a nut to be thrown in the air. Specially celebrities moments are always observed very meticulous by their Fan and also their Anti medias. I myself is very hurt with his action in SPA. He would have gone their after ending of JJKN. I love AA so much again I forget the injury of SPA when I see him in JJKN, specially JandA. I may be wrong it might be his professional need. Since all the JJKN fan don't adore Kekta they did not liked that their Dil Ke Armaan should be present in SPA. Still I felt some how AA was forced to go.

But for you dear for this silly reason don't go and leave us. We all love you so much.

I will miss you dear

Love

Fan no. 1 jjkn

Originally posted by: blyton

OK Hema, i was one of those who bashed AA really hard after the SPA PDA.I am sorry if that hurt your feelings. I did not make fun of his face, though. I agree that evryone looks bad at some time or the other. I never liked AA only for his looks and so i will never bash him only for his looks, either. I admit i had a good laugh at his expense at the time, but that does not mean i hold it against him. And it was done for fun, Hema. PLease don't leave because of this. I am really touched by your adoration of AA; all of us here love your posts about JandA magic and AA; so lz stay on and keep contributing!! 🤗

Its OK Hema, Don't take it personal yaar!!!!!!!! They are celebrities, they are supposed to be criticised, no matter how much Fan Support they have. Life is boring without criticism. Criticsm and fun force us to improve, specially when we are a PUBLIC FIGURE and presenting ourselves in public. I agree looks don't matter, but when you are with competitors, no body cares how you look ON-SCREEN. You must attract people Off-Screen too.

But the fact is, after bashing Appu for his clothing sense, socialising and Gummie smile, we still love him. We love Arman Suri and Jassi regardless of their looks. We loved Jassi, when she was with her braces and glasses, so why you think, we don't love Arman with his Mis-matching clothes and gummie smile.

Don't worry, be happy amd keep writing for us Hema. Criticism is not end of the world. Apu has still long way to go. I hope some one actually tell him personally that he should behave like a celebrity in Public because any body, anywhere can take a still of him.

Sorry Hema, if we hurt your feelings🤗

Dear Hema I wish I were Apu.It is awesome to be loved so unconditionally.He is indeed a blessed man for he has you as his fan. 👏 I believe that every creation of god is so beautiful that adverse comments on its looks can never harm or insult it in any way. It may only outwardly.Even a cocoroach is beautiful in its own way. We cannot all of us look beautiful or ugly all the time.As is obvious it was all done in good spirit and I personally think you must just brush them aside with a smile and not rob us of your lovely posts.God be with you.

aww! dont go 😭! Please stay and continue to post ur awesome threads!

Originally posted by: Buffie

LOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLL.....atleast i didnt do that....well QT, the real reson for the uproar was because it is a known fact that SS is insane and is a goner in love...but we thpought that apu has a steady shoulder and was mature...his juvenile and childish behaviourdare i say faggy behaviour) freaked us out....that's the reason!!

LOL buffie.. i know and i do share ur feelings about the juvenile behaviour! that's creepy i know. Loved ur comment, as always. it really did amaze me what my poll results implied :).. 😆😆

qt