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I dont understand whats all this....we have in the past discussed abt whether mand a have feelings for each other and it was way way beofre all these members came into play and at that time we used to have nice discussions about it.We didn't get any warnings then...u can check theposts ..there were so many during the makeover and amritsar episodes .

I agree that a particular individual must not be attacked a lot

I mean we are just specualting what may or may not have happened.No one I mean no one wants to break anyone's marriage nor are we having any thoughts abt it nor is it necessary for anyone to like anybody and everybody.

We all atleast many thought and still think tht mona and apu have feelings for each other and tablet has heard it from the unit members as well ,so is it wrong for us to talk about it and discuss it .

let us leave SS aside,I want to know whether we can speculate abt mona and apu if we feel strongly about it,their offscrenn friendship,behaviour towards each other,somethings thatw e notice between them .

cant we share what we feel abt a certain couple,i mean lead pair of the serial we watch...like i watch ANY OFFSCREEN VIDEO OF THEIRS WHERE I dont see or ddnt see them as friends or where i thought they werent behaving like frineds but something more than that,is it wrong to post it here abt what we felt abt those videos,inetrviews,pics

I don want to defend or accuse anyone,i just want to know whetehr all the points mentioned above can be discussed in this forum

no offense to anyone

Ok, let me try to explain something again:

You guys are right. Actors/Actresses lifes do get discussed because they are famous. Everyone wants to know more about them or say something about them or what so ever. That I agree with.

But here is what I'm really trying to say:

Shilpa is NOT a part of JJKN yet. Therefore, she can not be discussed here unless it's related to her role in JJKN.

Yes, you can discuss her, if there is an article about Apu/Mona/Gaurav etc and that article includes Shilpa.

Now, people say she's "chipku". Well, if Apu doesn't mind, then who are we to mind? If they are happy with that, then it's non of our business right?

In the past, we have allowed these kind of discussions to go by. However, things are getting worse, therefore, we need to make some rules to make sure no one gets offended or insulted.

That's all I have to say. Many of you might not even like me or you might call me biased, but I am just doing what one Global Moderator has to do as a part of her job.

Princess

Originally posted by: Princess

Ok, let me try to explain something again:

You guys are right. Actors/Actresses lifes do get discussed because they are famous. Everyone wants to know more about them or say something about them or what so ever. That I agree with.

But here is what I'm really trying to say:

Shilpa is NOT a part of JJKN yet. Therefore, she can not be discussed here unless it's related to her role in JJKN.

Yes, you can discuss her, if there is an article about Apu/Mona/Gaurav etc and that article includes Shilpa.

Now, people say she's "chipku". Well, if Apu doesn't mind, then who are we to mind? If they are happy with that, then it's non of our business right?

In the past, we have allowed these kind of discussions to go by. However, things are getting worse, therefore, we need to make some rules to make sure no one gets offended or insulted.

That's all I have to say. Many of you might not even like me or you might call me biased, but I am just doing what one Global Moderator has to do as a part of her job.

Princess

we dont mind it at all ,let her chikofy all that she wants and who cares whether apu minds it or not .he may or may not love it but that doesnt mean we have to like what she is doing .

I totally agree that she should not be discussed at such length as she is not part of JJKN but i just hope that when we talk abt apu and mona atleast and discuss abt their offscreen "friendship",we wont be warned about it .

I always love to comment on their offscreen videos because i feel that way ,but that doesnt mean we would be said that we are trying to break someones marriage and we are trying to get personal and ruin others lives like some say .

I do not wish to offend anyone but I just wanted to clarify everything abt what we can and cant write about

Personally i feel we are talking a lot about thier personal lives these days than even how handsome armaan is...i feel its not in good taste..no offense to anybody 😳

Originally posted by: legallyblonde21

I did not say that!!!!Jammy said Buffie was warned; I misunderstood what he said!!It has been cleared; it was nothing against the mods!!I am sorry if I said anything that was rude!!

I apologize Kiran!

sorry kiran..but the last time around, you told buffyduffer that warnings should be discussed only through pm's and not on the forum.....so how was it right for jammy to talk about my warning...its not the Q of whether he warned me or someone else warned me...according to the Global Moderator Princess, warnings should not be openly discussed on IF....please stick to what you said😊.....and jammy is not quite regular and hasnt read many other threads...and my thread was just not all that "indecent"....and mind you, i did not start the whole thing....😳

Hey Buffie!

I STILL do remember what Global Moderator Princess said. Jammy did say sorry for what he did. Did he not? Wasn't that fair or would you like something else too?

Correct me if I'm wrong, but Jammy did not start the warning issue. It was someone else and Jammy just answer that. However, he still said sorry.

Princess

Originally posted by: Princess

Hey Buffie!

I STILL do remember what Global Moderator Princess said. Jammy did say sorry for what he did. Did he not? Wasn't that fair or would you like something else too?

Correct me if I'm wrong, but Jammy did not start the warning issue. It was someone else and Jammy just answer that. However, he still said sorry.

Princess

No kiran😊….jammy did not start with the warning , but saying directly and openly that this member needs be warned is not what a mod really does😭😭…warnings are discussed through pm's and not directly on the forum😊…that's all I said …jammy was a tad rude, that's it…I have seen much ruder comments…but jammy said sorry for the "relatives" thing and not about the "warning" issue….😉😉😊

Sorry jammy, but I don't think it is right of you to say that I am dreaming for sanda to split and manda to marry…if you don't know, I am not at all a mona singh fan😊…ask tina or lashy….I have really bashed mona more than SS 😉for saying that "its disheartening to know that JJKN is not ending"…..YES, she did say that and that resulted in a huge argument…..and mona singh contradicts herself too much….first she used to say something, then she completely goes back on what she said, then she totally contradicts her second statement and sticks to the first one……so I am not at all a mona fan and I have even called her fat when she was, even though the entire forum would stand up to her defense and would get belligerent……please read this thread, you would know

http://www.india-forums.com/forum_posts.asp?TID=194969&K W=mona+singh

Now you say that I dream….

….i was saying that ss and AA are very much together and that all the manda speculation must be rubbished!!…..I was the only one(apart from sheena and ammu) saying this as most of them felt that there was something brewing and that they are more than friends….that thread was "DOES AA LOVE MONA" and I think that thread is more obnoxious than this one as here I have never said anything that manda are having an affair are anything like that😊…its just that SS is very insecure and everyone knows that ….frivolous over-friendliness is what manda share😊

Then comes the news that SS is on JJKN and that's really when everything became different😉…I am yet to recover from that shock that she will be on JJKN, trust me😕….she seriously had NO reason to be on JJKN as I really don't think that she is an actress of Rani's caliber for whom roles are written…….and saying that I want to spend time with my husband is a lame excuse as the role is supposed to be only a cameo and I really don't see what great time they can spend together on the sets where they are expected to act as professionals rather than as spouses……

tablet(who happens to be an old member and has nothing to do with the ss bashing/ss clothes taste issue….😃). is an old member who found out things like aashka's(kumud, who is a much better actress than ss and who looks much more prettier) name was suggested but SS was finalized😕…and tablet gave us the information that if the crew and the production house are to be believed, manda are more than friends😉….and also that SS forced herself into jjkn….and I chose to believe what tabs said……..and do you think I simple dislike ss coz she is somebody's wife….I am tired of telling the same thing to people again and again, but for your sake, here we go all over again, when i first came to know that armaan was married to ganga(my friend told me that in march 2005...till then, i didnt know it...heck, i didnt even know AA's name..i used to watch JJKn from day 1 but i thought that apoorva was the real name of jassi)...yeah, so when i knew, i really felt that they make a cute couple 👏.......but slowly, after reading her interviews on the net, and after NB, and after witnessing all the bragging and attitude, and after that screeching episode on the tellies night, and after hearing stories about her, i really dont like her...sorry, I really have no prejudice or anything against her as when i was new to IF, i didnt know her from adams! ..but just that she doesnt seem to give positive vibes ..whenever i see her, i dont sense anything natural about her...dare I say she is one of the most artificial women i have laid my eyes on😉..and her immaturity and insecurities were the last nails!!! believe that "hate" is too harsh a word .....lets say that we dislike SS and get annoyed with her...that's more apt!!

yeah, chipkofying is not the only reason.....dragging away her husband when fans approach is just freaking!!!....and you have missed something here...from day since when this ss thing started, we have been saying that AA is a JKG and thus will never oppose to anything.......either he is an typical that he seriously doesnt feel embarrassed about ss' repeating everywhere that "my most good looking husband" 😉😡 or perhaps he hates it but just is tolerating it....women like bipasha dont brag though innumerous polls have declared john as the hottest!!!..and cant help it but compare ss and bips(though i know that this comparison is an insult to the dignity of bipasha)....SS is childish, immature and irritating....she should enjoy and appreciate the adulation that her husband gets instead of fearing the ineluctable which is bound to happen if it is destined to happen ....you are right, we are no one to really comment on all that, but that's what stardom is all about...common people do love to intrude into the privacy and the personal lives of stars

and well, just like we need no reason to really like a person, we really dont need a genuine reason to dislike a person...having said that, i must say that we DO have a reason for not really being fond of SS!!!....and the reasons have been repeated like infinite times but yet for your sake, letme repeat them again.......she is the most annoying thing when it comes to AA... he is an actor and a star in his own right and dragging away and shooing fans isnt what a star accepts without raising a voice!!!!secondly, this world is no utopia where everyone minds their own business and show no interest in others'(especially the stars' like)...they are stars and they do get the adulation at the same time, their live is an open book and people do tend to criticize/defend them..... ...and especially, as AA happens to be one of the most popular televison stars, it feels really annoying to know that the wife happens to be so irritating and insecure that even the fan craze bothers her!!!..and trust me when i say this...none of the fans really want to "flirt" with AA...its just that people have to have a word or two and express their adulation....

in short, dragging away, bragging, screeching, chipkofying, arent just characteristics which will make us like someone

…….and I accept that there were previous threads for which I have been warned rightly(like unnecessary bashing of clothes, et al) ..But I don't see anything "indecent " or anything wrong here…anyways, I trust the mods and I leave it to them…I am no one to say this, but yet I feel that it would be apt that lashy, or jprasad, or Minnie or kiran look into this matter as they are the mods who are regular and know what's happening…no offense please😊

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Jammy.
The NOT-SO regular MOD!

Jammy, so nice to see you on the site here after a long time