Kya Yahi Pyaar Hai?????? - Page 2

Originally posted by: anjubala

Sharila, i think first love is a very special one and it remains special for ever even if you are not with your lover any longer. as the life goes on, you might find other people and fall in love again but in some corner of ur heart you always remember your first love. that never dies. I guess humans have been made like this by GOD..we go on with our life...it never stops.

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Originally posted by: Sharila

Well we know JJKN is just a serial and has nothing to do with reality. On the other hand how could people split so many times and still become one. Armaan did shak on Jassi several times like Apurva said.

Just one question now. How can people have same feelings for others like they did for the first person they fell in love with??????? Could you really share that emotional state with others also?????????????

If yes than do tell me I really want to know. I am so not comprehending how could that be. So love does happen more than once. PPPPhhhhhhhhheeeeeewwwwwwwwww

You started a nice topic. Simple definition of LOVE is," A powerful emotion felt for another person menifesting itself in deep affection, devotion or sexual desire." Here, I think we are not talking about affection or devotion, we are clearly talking about sexual desire. When a boy meets girl, they start liking each other and slowly fall in love. Eventhough it happens gradually, we still call it a LOve at first sight. How far they go with this love is all depends on two individuals and their circumstances. Some couples are more stronger and determined than others that they achieve their love at any cost. They will keep on trying and facing all the hardships and if they are destined to meet at one point in life, they will meet. This is what happened in Arman and Jassi's case. Love can only expand if the couple removes the barriers of 'SHAK', color, caste,creed or nationality.

On the other hand, some people are so lucky that they get all the conveniences of the world and they enjoy every moment of their love life. Its not that their love is more stronger and determined than other couples, but they were lucky to have everything in their plate so easily.

Now I will come to the point where we lose our First Love for some reason or it was not possible to meet. We love the person so much that we think that world will stop without this person and I cannot love anyone else in my life any more; life is over for me; I have lost the desire for love ---etc. But I think time is the biggest heeler. If you find someone, somewhere in your life, you start liking that person and slowily this liking changes into love. It doesn't mean that our first love from our heart has vanished for ever. Our first love will always remain in our heart, but we will try to accept the new love our destiny is bringing for us. It is called in YOGIC words," Living life in Present moment". Out first love was our past and our new love is our present and future. You think we forget our past? NO, we never foget it. It stays in our memories for ever. The feeling of love is very deep and broad. It helps us to be happy in any circumstances. It brings trust, mutual understandind, sacrifice and desire for living.

No offence anyone. It is just my personal opinion on Love and Life or you can say "LOVE LIFE".

Originally posted by: Apurva

But it is also true that first love require a lot of Bishwas which lacked in JANDA firstly. The continuous introduction of "male" characters and their blooming luv 4 jassi and armaan's shak. What do u have to say about this?????????

I always said the samething that Jassi's first and last love is Arman. Jassi got heart with Arman's 'SHAK' but it was not Arman it was the misunderstanding around him that forced him, not to think twice before asking questions to Jassi on the Day of Their Wedding.

Introduction of "Male" characters in Jassi's life tells us that how strong Jassi's first love was. All those males characters fall in love with Jassi but Jassi never loved them and she told them upfront that they are just best friends. When Jassi was going to get engaged with PURAB, Jassi tries to "go on" in her life and she prepared herself to spend her life with Purab, But it was him who left Jassi. Samething, She told Raghav that she only loves Arman.

Originally posted by: anjubala

Sharila, i think first love is a very special one and it remains special for ever even if you are not with your lover any longer. as the life goes on, you might find other people and fall in love again but in some corner of ur heart you always remember your first love. that never dies. I guess humans have been made like this by GOD..we go on with our life...it never stops.

Very well said, Anju

Originally posted by: sukh

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thanks dear....🤗

Originally posted by: NKSUDHIR

Very well said, Anju

Thanks Neelam

Originally posted by: NKSUDHIR

You started a nice topic. Simple definition of LOVE is," A powerful emotion felt for another person menifesting itself in deep affection, devotion or sexual desire." Here, I think we are not talking about affection or devotion, we are clearly talking about sexual desire. When a boy meets girl, they start liking each other and slowly fall in love. Eventhough it happens gradually, we still call it a LOve at first sight. How far they go with this love is all depends on two individuals and their circumstances. Some couples are more stronger and determined than others that they achieve their love at any cost. They will keep on trying and facing all the hardships and if they are destined to meet at one point in life, they will meet. This is what happened in Arman and Jassi's case. Love can only expand if the couple removes the barriers of 'SHAK', color, caste,creed or nationality.

On the other hand, some people are so lucky that they get all the conveniences of the world and they enjoy every moment of their love life. Its not that their love is more stronger and determined than other couples, but they were lucky to have everything in their plate so easily.

Now I will come to the point where we lose our First Love for some reason or it was not possible to meet. We love the person so much that we think that world will stop without this person and I cannot love anyone else in my life any more; life is over for me; I have lost the desire for love ---etc. But I think time is the biggest heeler. If you find someone, somewhere in your life, you start liking that person and slowily this liking changes into love. It doesn't mean that our first love from our heart has vanished for ever. Our first love will always remain in our heart, but we will try to accept the new love our destiny is bringing for us. It is called in YOGIC words," Living life in Present moment". Out first love was our past and our new love is our present and future. You think we forget our past? NO, we never foget it. It stays in our memories for ever. The feeling of love is very deep and broad. It helps us to be happy in any circumstances. It brings trust, mutual understandind, sacrifice and desire for living.

No offence anyone. It is just my personal opinion on Love and Life or you can say "LOVE LIFE".

Very well said but answer this. If you fall madly in love with someone you have never met only seen pics, and your lover is millions of miles away, tell me what kind of love this would be. Never met, touched no physical contact. What kind of love is this. Does this even exsist anymore in this day and age. Pls comment

Originally posted by: anjubala

Sharila, i think first love is a very special one and it remains special for ever even if you are not with your lover any longer. as the life goes on, you might find other people and fall in love again but in some corner of ur heart you always remember your first love. that never dies. I guess humans have been made like this by GOD..we go on with our life...it never stops.

Thanks Anju. Kaash pyaar karne walon pyaar ko nibhana bhi jante. You right though first love will always be the first, and I was thinking probably you can never get over your first love. Becasue that is the first person to provoke all kinds of feelings in you

Originally posted by: Sharila

Very well said but answer this. If you fall madly in love with someone you have never met only seen pics, and your lover is millions of miles away, tell me what kind of love this would be. Never met, touched no physical contact. What kind of love is this. Does this even exsist anymore in this day and age. Pls comment

This can be 'Devotional Love' or "Sexual Desire' depending on person's feelings. Because you have seen the pictures of the person, it means you can visualise and dream about the person. If you are not dreaming any physical contact with this person, then its 'Devotional Love'. Devotional Love is, where you don't care how the person looks like and you have no desire of seeing that person, but you are still madly in love with the person. This type of LOVE is there but very very very rare. This is like,"I love Lord Krishna". I love him not because I have seen Krishan Leela and I worship his Mutris and he looks so cute. But I just love him in any form.

If a Human being reached the point of 'Devotional Love', then we don't have any desires left. As a human being, we will always have a desire of loving another human being. Yes it slowly will reduce by age, by circumstances, last but not the least by Prayers and meditation. I hope I answered your question right.

Bye for now.