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Posted: 9 years ago
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I remember after the first separation when Vividha called herself a widow. I had goosebumps as she broke down remembering Atharv and telling Kailaash Kashyap that she was getting married ONLY to save Atharv's life.

But today, when she declared herself a widow a second time, I was truly in awe. This woman stood before her 'husband' and his family and told them that she no longer considered herself married as the only man she breathed for and lived for had died.

Despite Vividha telling the whole world over and over again that she lived and loved only for Atharv, we still had Suman asking Sujata to 'give' her Vividha for Ravish.

What can I say about Suman. Really has she no decency at all? She is talking to a woman who has just come back from doing the last rites of her son, and she has the audacity to ask her to think of Ravish's pain and give him Vividha. She literally emotionally blackmailed Sujata by reminding her how much Ravish had done for her and Atharv. And is Vividha a thing that she can be passed from one man to another. Is her choice and feelings not considered in this matter?

Suman as a character has been a real enigma for me. Initially I thought of her as a kind woman who would understand others feelings as she had led such an unhappy life. But as time has gone on, her hatred for Atharv and her selfishness has astounded me. She is willing to do anything and say anything so that Vividha will stay with Ravish despite knowing Vividha has no feelings for him.

Sujata finally broke down today. All this time, she had hope that Atharv would come back but after the last rites were done today the hope drained away from her.

Ravish looked dazed at Vividha's widow announcement. Even though he knew what Vividha felt for Atharv, it can't have been easy for him to hear that she considered Atharv as her husband with her mind and soul, even though she hadn't taken the seven pheras with him. Vividha then tells a shocked family that she will leave the house.

In the pre-cap, Sujata tells Vividha she has to take ulte phere and she agrees. But Ravish tells her she can't make all the decisions by herself. I'm sure the pre-cap is totally misleading by the way with regards to what Ravish says.

Vividha as a female lead is truly one of a kind. She makes her own choices with regard to her life and the one she made today was extremely brave. Reemz has already made an amazing post on her so I won't say much more except to say she has fulfilled all her vows to Atharv. She promised him she would always be his and she is staying true to her promise. What a truly awe inspiring character.

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Posted: 9 years ago
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Whispa ... šŸ¤—
I have so much to say ... i have so much to post ... and all my basework is ready ...And then when i am just ready to upload the images ... IGMUR gives up on me ...
Looks as Kaput as suman does ...So I will manage without the images ...😭

VIVIDHA and SUJATHA
When I saw Sujatha and Vividha today ... I remembered all the beautiful family times they had as a family together with Atharv... ( I wanted to post some images here ... but then šŸ˜•)

Vividha has said multiple times that she considers Atharv her husband and herself as Sujatha's daughter in law...They have lived their times as a family together ... In happiness ... In pain ... In sorrow and have found peace in each other without Vividha having actually married Atharv under the tag of society ...But they have lived a family life ...
A life which The V-fam could not even get a glimpse of with Vividha... and now she has taken the next step out of her own will ... transforming herself into Atharv widow... CLARITY to the core ... right or wrong whatever ... Her own will ...

She did not need marriage to get intimate or to accept sujatha and Atharv as family ...
In her mind its done 😳 ...Something the V-fam could not get her to accept inspite of the ' Marraige " that she is in ...


SUMAN
Knowing this of vividha ... that she is completely Atharv's and the delicate moment that she and Sujatha are in their life ...

What does Suman want ? for her to place a deal like that with Sujatha under the pretext of emotional blackmail ...

An object of her sons desire? ... to use ? and display ?
The boy asked for a toy and the parent runs to give it .Here the boy is important ...the toy anyways is just there to be thrown around ...
A lifeless object to display , use and paint pretty in the face of society ? A physical entity who is completely shattered emotionally ... so she is nothing but a living dead ... ?

Suman as a person is pathetic to the core ... being a women all she thinks is about her son and the toy he wants ... Such a pathetic characterization ...when somebody goes on warfront ... you pray that they scome back safe and this women says that she is already ready for his death everytime he goes ...Her pains are all selfcentric ... Self sympathy ... No empathy at all ...

I may have still given her a benefit of doubt if she had placed the request in consideration with Vividhas future ... But asking Sujatha for Vividha ( firstly its vividhas choice and nobody should be allowed to toss her around like that ) because her son is sad is pathetic to the core ...

Many a times I have always felt ... that Women are women's biggest enemies ... Some live a degraded life with no dignity and these women go ahead to set norms for the next generation to live a life as useless as their own...😔 and Suman is a perfect example of this

Ravish ----- Comments reserved ... ... i will wait for today episode to play out ... to see what he thinks about the toy he wants
In the meanwhile Keep crying Buddy for vividha ... Mama is trying hard to give you the toy you want ...

Sujatha ----- Comments reserved ... I am waiting to see her today

PS : When Suman told Sujatha ' Even Atharv would want this ' i was like ... Wait till Atharv comes back and tells you what he wants sweetheart ...Hopefully you will have the same empathy that you have right now ... Luck to you on that šŸ‘šŸ¼

Everyday makes it even more painful to watch Vividha like this ... ATHARV SUJATHA , where are you ?


Edited by ARCHRE - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Hey Whispa 😃
Everyone has said everything about Suman but I will still continue because even i wanna give gaalis to heršŸ˜†

SUMAN:

This woman is plain stupid, simply disgusting and mentally sick needs to go to Asylum for pshyco treatments.

First she thinks that vividha is some thing which can be passed on to other person.

Secondly she is asking sujata to give Vividha to Ravish, but who is Sujata to do that in the first place.

Thirdly she is taking decisions on behalf of Vividha as well as Ravish.

Fourth she never had nor she has any emotions for anyone and Atharva too, for last rites also she seemed that they shall be done so Atharva can be out of their house once for and all. the way she explained that She always stands ready whenever Ravish goes out for a war ... Woman You losing son to the country is not same as sujata losing it becos his grandfather killed him, though losing son is losing son no matter what i do agree.

Fifth I seriously don't understand why would you want your son to live a life which you lived and regretted whole of your life. how on earth you think that Vividha will forget Atharva and move on with Ravish, Did she move on from Ramakanth, Did Sujata moved on, how Vividha will do so ???

Sixth she literally black mailed Sujata for it and at a very wrong time.

SUJATA:

First she was hurt and taunted Suman with respect to Atharva but did agreed to do last rites, She did react on them but I guess the feeling of Atharva gone is still not sinked in her, she is still clinged on some hope as she said she cannot live as well as he will come back, hence I see her not fully convinced that he is gone.

I don't think she agrees with Suman with respect to Vividha, she knew Vividha will not be convinced and hence Suman blackmailed her to think about Vividha.

I felt Sujata completely understood what and why Vividha said what she said and she was not surprised. She will let her be Atharvas widow and get her unwed to Ravish too. I am guessing Vivi asked for divorce and Suji said it will not end with Divorce but she has to take Ulta pheras..though I have heard of this thing as first.

VIVIDHA:


I just have no words for her, She is one of a kind and her love for Atharva is beyond any words can explain.

Just to live with his memories also she can pay any price even if its that she has to dress again like a bride to unwed Ravish.

I do thing she does have a hope of him coming back but as everyone has snatched that hope from her to some extent, she considers herself as his widow and wants to set Ravish free from her hence leaving V mansion and marriage too.

For her this marriage was a deal, which she broke as soon as the deal was broken but kept continuing for Suman and Ravish, then for RK's will, now before they could take a step further after all revelations all this happened, now nothing is left for her to lose as she lost herself to with Atharvas last rites. So she is calm and knows what she needs to do.

SHIVANI SURVE ! take a bow, No one can portray VIVIDHA better than her.



Edited by Shweta13 - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Whispa...šŸ¤— on this episode also you have written much beautifully...
Vividha...she really loves atharv...she proves that every time..just to clear to those who thinks that she will fall for someone else...I feel so sad for vv...how heartbroken she must be second time...

Ravish and suman is just selfish...I have no words ! I hate those two...especially suman...

I don't write much cause for me , there isn't much to write...I don't find anything...
Except about vividha..
Edited by Ultimatevikku7 - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
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My feelings
Suman
😔
😔
😔
🤬
🤬
🤬
🤬
Sujata
😭
😭
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Vividha
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Edited by janvi0513 - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Vividha's love and the way she stands up for it all the time leaves me astounded. There is no word that would do justice to describing Vividha's love for Atharv! I can't see her in more pain, I just can't. What more does this girl have to go through?
isn't it funny how Suman thinks Ravish can't get over Vividha but Vividha can get over Atharv if sujatha insists?
and just look at her timing sense? Right after Atharv's supposed last rites!!
A mother is grieving for her dead son and she wants to talk about her son's heartbreak & marriage? and her carefully chosen words, that Ravish has always considered Sujatha also as Ma & treated her the same etc...it was just too sick to watch. I can't believe that at one point I actually thought Suman is a compassionate person no matter what her flaws are! I take it all back, this woman is really sick.
vividha has every right to move on but shouldn't that be her choice?
I think Sujatha is trying to save Ravish & Vividha's marriage because remember after the 6th vachan Vividha complained to her about what Atharv had asked her?
And Suman played her card really well didn't she? "Atharv would have also wanted this right for Ravish & Vividha" or something along this line. Like she knew everything about Atharv, woman you never bothered to know about him when he was alive. Forget that, you never even gave a small smile to that baby even once!
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: janvi0513

My feelings
Suman
😔
😔
😔
🤬
🤬
🤬
🤬
Sujata
😭
😭
šŸ˜’
Vividha
šŸ‘
šŸ‘



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Hey Janvi

Very aptly reviewed! šŸ˜›
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Whispa, what an apt title! The entire episode was based on that very term *CHOICE*! Equality is not a concept but a necessity. You cannot hinder someone's choice to live their life just because it would benefit you. Vividha has always been someone who is very honest about her feelings and when she could not be honest, she did not lie but behaved in a irrational manner to ensure the other party does not misunderstand her true feelings. If that has been misinterpreted by Ravish, then it is not her fault. She has just been informed that the love of her life's last rites were completed and yet she is being expected to live her life with a man she can never love.


Suman is a woman who only believes in ME, I and MYSELF! She is the reason why BUDDHA went psycho as she wanted to get ruin of Atharv, something which she communicated to BUDDHA very openly, so that Ravish can have a peaceful life with a woman who will never love him. In fact today, she DEMANDS' RAVISH' happiness from Sujata telling her to pay back for everything Ravish did for her and ATHARV (forgetting that it is their obsession with Ravish that caused Atharv to be in this new situation). Suman wants Sujata to give Vividha as if Vividha is a piece of furniture with no feelings and that she can be sacrificed because Ravish fulfilled his duties (jokers of the century). Sujata understands Suman's motives but also does not want Vividha to live an unhappy life with Atharv' memories. So Suman hits the right chords with Sujata but what is Vividha's choice? Did anyone bother asking her? NO! Instead she comes downstairs and makes her feelings clear calling herself his widow! And she gets told to stop chatting nonsense, only for her to say, i am his widow and without him, am leaving this house to life with his memories! In fact she didn't even flinch when the ulta phera were mentioned, she agrees to it so she can set Ravish free to enjoy his life. But of course selfish sautela wants her for himself so I cannot wait for Vividha to tell him where to stick his BS thoughts!
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: FortunaMajor

Vividha's love and the way she stands up for it all the time leaves me astounded. There is no word that would do justice to describing Vividha's love for Atharv! I can't see her in more pain, I just can't. What more does this girl have to go through?

isn't it funny how Suman thinks Ravish can't get over Vividha but Vividha can get over Atharv if sujatha insists?
and just look at her timing sense? Right after Atharv's supposed last rites!!
A mother is grieving for her dead son and she wants to talk about her son's heartbreak & marriage? and her carefully chosen words, that Ravish has always considered Sujatha also as Ma & treated her the same etc...it was just too sick to watch. I can't believe that at one point I actually thought Suman is a compassionate person no matter what her flaws are! I take it all back, this woman is really sick.
vividha has every right to move on but shouldn't that be her choice?
I think Sujatha is trying to save Ravish & Vividha's marriage because remember after the 6th vachan Vividha complained to her about what Atharv had asked her?
And Suman played her card really well didn't she? "Atharv would have also wanted this right for Ravish & Vividha" or something along this line. Like she knew everything about Atharv, woman you never bothered to know about him when he was alive. Forget that, you never even gave a small smile to that baby even once!


Hey Vaish

Yesterday we saw a broken Vividha but look at how calm she was today. She wasn't hysterical but completely firm about her decision. She knows exactly what she wants.

And i absolutely love the point you made about how can Suman doesn't think her son will get over Vividha but expects Vividha to forget Atharv. Hasn't she learnt anything with the situation between her, Sujata and Ramakant.

Suman was really smart with her words when she was guilt tripping Sujata. How she made sure she told Sujata what Ravish had done for them and how she then asked her what Atharv would want. Very cleverly done by her.


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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: whispa



Hey Janvi

Very aptly reviewed!šŸ˜›


Suman has freaking lost it. It looks like she got partial amnesia, she has forgotten that Atharav is no more (well we know he is alive but they don't), she has forgotten that Sujata is Atharav's mother.
What the hell was she thinking when she asked Sujata for Vividha?
Hey I didn't know Vividha was a doll Atharv bought from the shop, so that now he isn't going to use it anymore, well because they think he is dead, they are giving the toy to his little brother. I had a misconception that Vividha was a human with feelings.

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