Why Ravish doesn't LOVE Vividha and can't Love her

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Disclaimer😉: I am NOT a ravish or shashank basher/hater, i don't mind Ravish,but he has his moments, and i think shashank is a good actor, this is purely about the CHARACTERS Ravish, Vividha and Atharv.

This is why i think Ravish doesnt LOVE vividha as a partner,with love comes trust, they are both hand in hand the biggest problem with Ravish and Vividha that they do NOT trust each other in the slightest, Vividha thought Ravish was undressing her and Ravish thinks Vividha pushed his mother down the stairs.😆 There is no trust between them, however, whenever and whatever Vividha said Atharv blinded trustly her and what she said because he loved her, Sujatha also blindly believed Vividha and always tried to empower her along with Atharv. I know that she has only been married a while and that trust is earned, but the way that Suman and the Vash-something family go on about loving Vividha and how great of a daughter-in-law she is, then surely they should trust her when she says that someone has tried to hurt her, and instead just plaster her as crazy instead.😕

Also ravish knows that Vividha has seen Atharv many times, yet he refuses to tell her about him, leaving her to slowly believe that she is mad when she is not, if he TRUSTED her he would tell her, but clearly, it hasnt been shown why Ravish hasnt told her, so the only reason can be that he doesn't trust her. If Atharv was in ravish's place he might have he might not have told her but he would still believe her and try to find what is going on without hurting anyone, he wouldnt lie. 😉


Ravish has let Vividha believe she is going mad when he has the power to stop that yet he hasn't and thats his choice, when you love someone you think of their well being and that comes first, he doesnt have a instinctual protectiveness for Vividha like Atharv has, Atharv always put Vividha first, without hurting anyone else, and Vividha has already experienced the best type of love their is, unconditional,😳 what Ravish has to offer her is property and money. Vvidha is not a materialistic girl. Atharv gives her love, trust and happiness
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Nice Post Deena1D..

I don't know if what they are even facing are even trust issues or not.. They just don't want to confide in each other nor do they make any genuine efforts 😕 and writers have not given any clear reason as to why... They are quite indifferent to each other and do not want to even know what's happening in each other's life... They look so aloof..

Nyways, here is what I think..

cross posting...

Ravish and Vividha have a dead end lying right before them..
If we consider the case of normal arrange marriage, two people evolve because they give their relationship a try, a chance..They work out for it to make it successful.. Whether they succeed or not, its a different debate but at least they try.. Going by the present scenario, Vividha will ever give Ravish or this relationship that chance..

With time, Ravish will come 2 knw the truth .. Then he may understand what happened with Vividha and empathize with her... Vividha too may realize that Ravish didn't intend to harm Atharv rather tried to save him, but that respect will also come once she realizes that he was not against "Atharv"... It will still be all about Atharv for her..

Trust may develop between them with time, their may be mutual respect for each other but what will be absent and will be forever absent is "Love" and "Hope"...Forget love, their is no hope in their relationship at first place... Vividha does not want to move on from Atharv.. No amount goodness from Ravish will make her move on from him because her mind doesn't shifts away from Atharv ever... It never wavers... She has already given that place to Atharv... For them to take Ravish and Vividha's route they will have to first break ViTharv which at least right now seems impossible unless they take some illogical route of butchering characters overnight but I fear if they have mastered that art like Ekta..😆.. You can't build a castle over an existing home... For that one has to uproot that home from its very foundation... A home that is as beautiful as heaven for them as the song describes it... 😳 And yes "communication" which is a key to any successful relationship as mentioned by many is zero between them... 😕
Edited by .life_is_fun. - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
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People keep accusing Vividha of cheating and not telling the truth blah blah. However somehow Ravish is right apparently because he doesn't want to hurt his mother. Point taken! HOWEVER, like you said with love comes trust. What is the logical reason of hiding Atharv & Sujata from Vividha? For all he knows they are merely neighbours. So why can't he confide in Vividha? Why would you let the person you claim to love look mad in front of everyone? I mean she's mentally exhausted due to the hide & seek but he's ok about it?

I can definitely answer for Atharv. He always told her the truth even if she didn't want to hear it! He trusted their relationship enough to last any hurdles. That's a real relationship!
Edited by *Reemz* - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Like I said in another post as well, trust is the first step to love. And there's none atm from either side. So that decides the love part of it for me. He doesn't love Vividha.
Him keeping quiet for his mother in this whole scenario is still understood. But knowing that Vividha knows them since a much longer time and with all her time n again opening up about knowing someone's presence in the house, I don't see a reason to not disclose it to her. They both need to speak n get it cleared from both sides.

Great post dear..
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Trust is the foundation of any relationship, if this is not there, how much ever you love a person it will not last which is lacking from both sides.
But if I look from Ravish's side then I can understand why it's difficult for him to have it on each other.

Ravish is unable to tell Vividha the truth of Atharv Staying in the same house coz then he will have to tell her the reason also why he is hiding the fact from the whole family and he really doesn't want to let the cat out of the bag yet but he is trying to punish Atharv for disrespecting his wife by slapping him etc and also trying to stop these activities by asking Seturam to chain Atharv or locking him up in a room.


Coming down to Vividha I feel she does trust Ravish as she keeps trying to tell him the truth but just doesn't get the right time to speak out and secondly, whenever she is in trouble in that house, the first person whom she calls up for help is Ravish. so she does trust him out but not with Atharv as she has been ditched by her own father in that matter so trusting Ravish with Atharv is not her cup of tea speciaply then when Ravish is still unaware about their past relationship.
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