Caught between the clutches of Ravish & Kailash - Page 3

Originally posted by: Forum.Maniac

Sia, the parallel you drew between Ravish and Kailash had me shuddering. KK got abusive towards Uma after he found out about her being in love with someone else. I know Ravish won't do that but now I fear his reaction at finding out about Vividha and Atharva. He is good at manipulating situations and like you said, his need for control is rising. ViTharv should beware. I really hope Vividha starts trusting herself again instead of him. That will help free both her and Atharva from their tortured states.

PS: This is Sana from TW :)

I understand ur fear but I dont think it will ever go that way and here's why
1) from a creative perspective why would you want to recreate with ravidha the exact same thing as that of uma and kailaash, the parellal being drawn between uma and vivi havng been in love with someone else before could only be to show the DIFFERENCE in reaction between the two male counterparts, one was portrayed regressive hence other should be empowering.

2) Ravish has great levels of respect for vividha. When he realized that vivi was upset and unhappy he himself took his pillow and went to the couch and offered her his bed and he himself maintained a distance ( saying it was not in his sanskaar, upbringing and his own principles to do otherwise).As she continued to be upset he himself asked her if she married him out of her own will or not and we all know she lied to his face then when presented with the best opportunity to speak the truth. When he hugged her he appologized to her with both hands together. He has taken efforts to make her happy and given her all the space she needs to heal crom whatever is bothering her ( since he has no idea what it is) and most importantly he is a desciplined army man. And army men not only fight to protect the country and keep its ppl safe but they also fight for the right and freedom of its ppl at the cost of their own lives. where as kailaash is a country brute who is chauvinistic and self absorbed to the core. There is a big difference and hence its safe to say ravish will not behave the way kailaash did.

3) he cares about adharv and his step family, wants to give them their rights in tge family and society and has made up his mind to fulfill his father's last wishes. And he himself had suspision as to why his father chose vividha who is his brother's neighbour cor him. He realized something was amiss there. So why would he turn aggressive towards vivi when he gets to know the truth?

4) his need for control is not psychpathic and destructive like kailaash's rather it is a natural part of his army training and lifestyle. The army regiment is very controlled and control is a part of their descipline. From the time they wake to what they eat to when they eat to the exercise regimes to there duties to heck even their emotions are controlled! Descipline and order forms and inseperable part of them and as captain u have to face so many terrible even unpredictable situations that u need to take control of so they dont go out of hand and turn into somthing worse. They always work with focus, a plan and a goal in mind. That is how they are and I know somewhat cuz my maami's father is a retired army officer. They are strict and look firm on the outside but very kind, caring and loving on the inside.

Originally posted by: zainabawoon

I understand ur fear but I dont think it will ever go that way and here's why
1) from a creative perspective why would you want to recreate with ravidha the exact same thing as that of uma and kailaash, the parellal being drawn between uma and vivi havng been in love with someone else before could only be to show the DIFFERENCE in reaction between the two male counterparts, one was portrayed regressive hence other should be empowering.

2) Ravish has great levels of respect for vividha. When he realized that vivi was upset and unhappy he himself took his pillow and went to the couch and offered her his bed and he himself maintained a distance ( saying it was not in his sanskaar, upbringing and his own principles to do otherwise).As she continued to be upset he himself asked her if she married him out of her own will or not and we all know she lied to his face then when presented with the best opportunity to speak the truth. When he hugged her he appologized to her with both hands together. He has taken efforts to make her happy and given her all the space she needs to heal crom whatever is bothering her ( since he has no idea what it is) and most importantly he is a desciplined army man. And army men not only fight to protect the country and keep its ppl safe but they also fight for the right and freedom of its ppl at the cost of their own lives. where as kailaash is a country brute who is chauvinistic and self absorbed to the core. There is a big difference and hence its safe to say ravish will not behave the way kailaash did.

3) he cares about adharv and his step family, wants to give them their rights in tge family and society and has made up his mind to fulfill his father's last wishes. And he himself had suspision as to why his father chose vividha who is his brother's neighbour cor him. He realized something was amiss there. So why would he turn aggressive towards vivi when he gets to know the truth?

4) his need for control is not psychpathic and destructive like kailaash's rather it is a natural part of his army training and lifestyle. The army regiment is very controlled and control is a part of their descipline. From the time they wake to what they eat to when they eat to the exercise regimes to there duties to heck even their emotions are controlled! Descipline and order forms and inseperable part of them and as captain u have to face so many terrible even unpredictable situations that u need to take control of so they dont go out of hand and turn into somthing worse. They always work with focus, a plan and a goal in mind. That is how they are and I know somewhat cuz my maami's father is a retired army officer. They are strict and look firm on the outside but very kind, caring and loving on the inside.

Originally posted by: zainabawoon

I understand ur fear but I dont think it will ever go that way and here's why
1) from a creative perspective why would you want to recreate with ravidha the exact same thing as that of uma and kailaash, the parellal being drawn between uma and vivi havng been in love with someone else before could only be to show the DIFFERENCE in reaction between the two male counterparts, one was portrayed regressive hence other should be empowering.

2) Ravish has great levels of respect for vividha. When he realized that vivi was upset and unhappy he himself took his pillow and went to the couch and offered her his bed and he himself maintained a distance ( saying it was not in his sanskaar, upbringing and his own principles to do otherwise).As she continued to be upset he himself asked her if she married him out of her own will or not and we all know she lied to his face then when presented with the best opportunity to speak the truth. When he hugged her he appologized to her with both hands together. He has taken efforts to make her happy and given her all the space she needs to heal crom whatever is bothering her ( since he has no idea what it is) and most importantly he is a desciplined army man. And army men not only fight to protect the country and keep its ppl safe but they also fight for the right and freedom of its ppl at the cost of their own lives. where as kailaash is a country brute who is chauvinistic and self absorbed to the core. There is a big difference and hence its safe to say ravish will not behave the way kailaash did.

3) he cares about adharv and his step family, wants to give them their rights in tge family and society and has made up his mind to fulfill his father's last wishes. And he himself had suspision as to why his father chose vividha who is his brother's neighbour cor him. He realized something was amiss there. So why would he turn aggressive towards vivi when he gets to know the truth?

4) his need for control is not psychpathic and destructive like kailaash's rather it is a natural part of his army training and lifestyle. The army regiment is very controlled and control is a part of their descipline. From the time they wake to what they eat to when they eat to the exercise regimes to there duties to heck even their emotions are controlled! Descipline and order forms and inseperable part of them and as captain u have to face so many terrible even unpredictable situations that u need to take control of so they dont go out of hand and turn into somthing worse. They always work with focus, a plan and a goal in mind. That is how they are and I know somewhat cuz my maami's father is a retired army officer. They are strict and look firm on the outside but very kind, caring and loving on the inside.

Brilliant post Sia...Well expressed👏👏👏