Sid - Roshini Pt 2

Originally posted by: can_pak

Hey All

Let's talk about weaknesses today.

So I just saw tonights episode and we finally got Roshini's side. It's exactly what I thought it was going to be. I know people think it's faulty but i think people are forgetting her character is human and humans are faulty.

Roshini's weakness is that she thinks emotionally. She's temperamental. She gets swept away by them. She runs by them. They have a huge influence on her decisions. In hindsight emotional decisions aren't always the right ones. On the contrary they are usually the ones that drag you into a problem.

I'm not saying she wasn't wrong to fake her death and that Sid isn't hurting. I'm just saying she's hurting to. She isn't jumping for joy. She's basically a workaholic and like Sid has no life,

Also i think what most people are forgetting is that Roshini has already been through what Sid is going through right now. Sid may not have faked his death but he didn't come forward to tell her he's alive either when he was posing as Raghu. Back then he was in front of her and he could see how much she was suffering.

Coming to Sid Baba. Yaar the guys's biggest weakness is his heart. He isn't an emotional fool but he's far to nice for his own good. That what gets him caught in lies and secrets which ultimately end up making his life difficult and screwing things up for him. From the beginning even though his intentions are good he gets stuck in a web of secrets and it ends badly for him.

(Just for the record it's not a great thing to be this kind. There should be a line and a limit to everything. There are always alternative if you think hard enough. The thing I've learned about truth is that its absolute. You can't change it. You can't hide it. It will come out one time or another and it will be much more painful then because deceit is attached to it. It's very easy to lie the first time but lies only get harder with time and trap you within themselves. Truth may be really difficult the first time but it gets easier to say with time.)

He's always kept secrets from Roshini thinking she can't handle them or to protect her. The thing he has failed to understand is that marriage doesn't have room for secrets. They create vulnerabilities in relationships which others can use to create differences. Not to mention they weaken the relationship in themselves. Roshini would have only supported him if he was honest with her. She's always wanted to do that. And to her credit she's never made a big deal out of this habit of his besides the time he lied about being Sid Kurkreja.

Again I'm not saying either of the characters are right or wrong. I'm just trying to analyze their characters. So don't butcher the analyzer. :D

Cheers. 👍🏼

Em

Originally posted by: imaginative

Wow.. now this is funny. Finding loopholes in Sid to justify Roshni😆 That itself shows how shallow her argument was🥱 Loopholes in Sid was well discussed and bashed enough. Now when Roshni is wrong everyone are in praising mode😆

All said and done, even when Sid is so bad and a liar, his love for Roshni can never be compared. Roshni can't love him the same way in the next 7 lives🥱 She is the darkness in his life, better she never return back🤢

So I just saw tonights episode and we finally got Roshini's side. It's exactly what I thought it was going to be. I know people think it's faulty but i think people are forgetting her character is human and humans are faulty.

Roshini's weakness is that she thinks emotionally. She's temperamental. She gets swept away by them. She runs by them. They have a huge influence on her decisions. In hindsight emotional decisions aren't always the right ones. On the contrary they are usually the ones that drag you into a problem.

I'm not saying she wasn't wrong to fake her death and that Sid isn't hurting. I'm just saying she's hurting to. She isn't jumping for joy. She's basically a workaholic and like Sid has no life,

Originally posted by: can_pak

I'm not finding loophole in Sid's character to justify Roshini by any means. I did mention that she was an emotional fool. Someone who jumps the gun without thinking things throughly. I also mentioned that decisions made under emotional turmoil are hardly ever right. I just tried analyzing both of their characters. What I wrote is what I see in them. (Also I wasn't around when Sid was being bashed. I just watched the entire season last week. Lol if only I had the same motivation towards my course work. 😆

Roshini is wrong in her place. Lying and hiding the fact that she's alive is cruel. There is no justification for it. I only said that I understand her position. People do stupid things when they're in love or in pain.

( eg Sid jumped in front of a car to prove that Roshini loves him. That was stupid. People should never do shit like that. Not even for the love of their life because that person isn't the only person in their life. Parents and siblings are relationships that matter just as much especially when they have utmost sincerity towards you.)

This is Roshini's stupidity. She doesn't want to be hurt or hurt him and her loved ones so she's staying away from him but she doesn't realize that her actions have hurt him more than anything being with her would have. Not only has she put a stop to happiness in her life but his life too.

But again to her it makes sense. She can't see the consequences of her actions. It doesn't make it right but its happening. She isn't doing it with the purpose of hurting him. She thinks being with her wiill hurt him and her family more than being without her or them together.

Also loving someone isn't about deserving or undeserving. Love is love. It's not even a choice. Its a connection. It just happens and it's without conditions. Love that has conditions isn't true selfless love. If love was about deserving then I don't think any of us would deserve our parents. They love us even when we hurt them. Even if parents curse their child they will suffer just as much when their child is in pain. We can never love them the way they love us. Romantic love is slightly different but the principle of love itself is the same.

Maybe its true that she can't love Sid the way he loves her. That's okay. It doesn't mean she doesn't love him though because she does. If it ever came down to it she would gladly give up her life for him and not even let him know about it.

If she never comes back into his life he will never be happy. For him the little moments he has with her are worth all the pain. She is worth it to him and that's his choice.

I still stand by what I said about Sid's character. I wasn't criticizing him just pointing it out. My point in all of this was that they both have faults. They both have weaknesses.

But if you think my opinion is wrong we can agree to disagree 👍🏼

Originally posted by: imaginative

I understand ur POV. Just said that because Sid's weakeness have been dissected and bashed in the forum enough😆 He was the character who is considered to be full of weaknesses than goodness. From Yash track he has rectified his mistake and started sharing everything with her. But I didn't find a logic in bringing that now. Its Ok we can always agree to disagree.. No hard feelings😛😃